Kate Millett

Kate Millett

Kate Millett Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 7, 2017.
PARIS (AP) - Kate Millett, the activist, artist and educator whose best-selling "Sexual Politics" was a landmark of cultural criticism and a manifesto for the modern feminist movement, has died. She was 82.

Millett died of a heart attack while on a visit to Paris on Wednesday, according to a person with knowledge of the matter, who spoke on condition of anonymity because he was not authorized to speak for the family. The publishing house that carried her books in French also confirmed the death but provided no details.

"Sexual Politics" was published in 1970, in the midst of feminism's so-called "second wave," when Gloria Steinem, Betty Friedan, Millett and others built upon the achievements of the suffragettes from a half-century earlier and challenged assumptions about women in virtually every aspect of society. Millett's book was among the most talked-about works of its time and remains a founding text for cultural and gender studies programs.

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Millett chronicled millennia of legal, political and cultural exclusion and diminishment, whether the "penis envy" theory of Sigmund Freud or the portrayals of women as disrupters of paradise in the Bible and Greek mythology. She labeled traditional marriage an artifact of patriarchy and concluded with chapters condemning the misogyny of authors Henry Miller, D.H. Lawrence and Norman Mailer, but also expressing faith in the redemptive power of women's liberation.

"It may be that a second wave of the sexual revolution might at last accomplish its aim of freeing half the race from its immemorial subordination - and in the process bring us all a great deal closer to humanity," she wrote.

While countless women were radicalized by her book, Millett would have bittersweet feelings about "Sexual Politics," which later fell out of print and remained so for years. She was unhappy with its "mandarin mid-Atlantic" prose and overwhelmed by her sudden transformation from graduate student and artist to a feminist celebrity whose image appeared on the cover of Time magazine. Amused at first by her fame, she was worn down by a "ruin of interviews, articles, attacks."

"Soon it grew tedious, an indignity," she wrote in the memoir "Flying," published in 1974.

She was dubbed by Time "the Mao Tse-tung of Women's Liberation," and rebutted by Mailer in his book "The Prisoner of Sex," in which he mocked her as "the Battling Annie of some new prudery." Meanwhile, she faced taunts from some feminists for saying she was bisexual (she was married at the time), but not gay. During an appearance by Millett at Columbia, an activist stood up and yelled, "Are you a lesbian? Say it. Are you?"

"Five hundred people looking at me. Are you a Lesbian?" Millett wrote. "Everything pauses, faces look up in terrible silence. I hear them not breathe. That word in public, the word I waited half a lifetime to hear. Finally I am accused. 'Say it. Say you are a Lesbian!'

"Yes, I said. Yes. Because I know what she means. The line goes, inflexible as a fascist edict, that bisexuality is a cop-out. Yes I said yes I am a lesbian. It was the last strength I had."

Millett's books after "Sexual Politics" were far more personal and self-consciously literary, whether "Flying" or "Sita," a memoir about her sexuality in which she wrote of a lesbian lover who committed suicide; or "The Loony Bin Trip," an account of her struggles with manic depression and time spent in psychiatric wards.

"There is no denying the misery and stress of life," she wrote. "The swarms of fears, the blocks to confidence, the crises of decision and choice."

The daughter of Irish Catholics, Millett was born in St. Paul, Minnesota, and was long haunted by her father, an alcoholic who beat his children and left his family when Millett was 14. She attended parochial schools as a child and studied English literature at the University of Minnesota and St Hilda's College, Oxford, from which she graduated with honors.

For a couple of years, Millett lived in Japan, where she met her future husband and fellow sculptor Fumio Yoshimura (they divorced in 1985). They moved to Manhattan in 1963, and Millett embraced the political and artistic passions of the city. She joined the National Organization for Women and began attracting a following for her sculpture, which appeared in Life magazine and has been exhibited worldwide. Through her own Women's Liberation Cinema production company, she directed the acclaimed feminist documentary "Three Lives." She also founded the Women's Art Colony Farm in Poughkeepsie, New York.

Millett taught at several schools, including the University of North Carolina and New York University. In 1968, she was fired from her job as an English lecturer at Barnard College, a decision that stemmed at least in part from her support of student protests against the Vietnam War. The extra free time did allow her to complete "Sexual Politics," which began as her doctoral thesis at Columbia University.

Less known to younger feminists than Steinem or Friedan, she was honored several times late in life. In 2012, she was given the Pioneer Award from the Lambda Literary Foundation and the same year was presented a Courage Award for the Arts prize by her longtime friend Yoko Ono. Millett was inducted into the National Women's Hall of Fame in 2013 and, in her acceptance speech, reflected on her years as an activist.

"The happiness of those times," the joy of participation, the excitement of being part of my own time, of living on the edge, of being so close to events you can almost intuit them. To raise one's voice in protest, just as the protest is expressed in life, in the streets, in relationships and friendships," she said.

"Then, in a moment of public recognition, the face of the individual becomes a women's face."

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Hillel Italie reported from New York.


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July 27, 2021

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Marie-Ange Vuillemin

April 23, 2020

Kate Millet meant a lot to me. Her writing did. She made me want to write. She is gone - but her spirit and books are here to stay!

September 29, 2017

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September 19, 2017

Thank goodness for Kate and her writing. She made a world of difference in my life. I will always be grateful.

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September 13, 2017

September 10, 2017

May the wonderful memories the family and friends share bring comfort during this time of loss. Proverbs 17:17

Chianti

September 10, 2017

My heartfelt sympathies for the family of Kate. When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure in your heart and it lives forever. May the wonderful treasures fill your hearts with love and bring you peace. May God provide true comfort during this most challenging time. With Love & Prayers

September 9, 2017

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Betty Prashker

September 8, 2017

For Sophie Kier:

So sorry to learn of Kate's death. SEXUAL POLITICS was a truly trail blazing book that changed lives and cast brilliant light.Her devastating analysis of iconic male novelists generated energy to women everywhere. She was truly brave.

Betty Prashker

Anita Ross

September 8, 2017

Please find comfort in God's promise to make the world a better place for all to enjoy.
Psalms 37:29.

September 8, 2017

The voice of reason stands out but a lot of people don't listen, the reason being, the voice makes sense. If you understand the start your ending will be favorable. Make mention of controversy and the ways of people become known. Keep light before you and a path to the future will open. My most sincere condolences for your loss.

September 8, 2017

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

September 8, 2017

a bit of genius, a bit of madness, a lot of art and hard work. a real woman.

Darlene H

September 8, 2017

My prayers and thoughts are with the
family as you deal with the loss of your
dear loved one Kate Millett.
Psalms 65:2

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September 8, 2017

To the MILLETT FAMILY in their time of grief, I'm truly sorry for your loss. May 'God' give you peace during this most difficult time.
-Romans 15:13

Amber Reagan-Kendrick

September 8, 2017

What an incredible human she was. Sexual Politics opened my eyes. Thank you for such incredible insight.

September 8, 2017

My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

September 8, 2017

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

September 7, 2017

Deepest condolences to the family and friends. May God grant peace and courage to her loved ones. Sincere Thoughts and prayers.

D. G.

September 7, 2017

So sorry for your loss. May God grant your family his peace. Phil.6:7

Nancy Woodwell-Freedman

September 7, 2017

My thoughts, prayers & deep condolences go out to the family, friends & associates of the great & brilliant Kate Millett. Her contributions to the liberation and equality of women are incalculable. She is truly a feminist icon. May she rest in eternal peace and may the perpetual light shine upon her.

Christian

September 7, 2017

My deepest condolences to the family and friends of Kate. Rest assured life is precious to our Creator. He promises to act in our behalf.
1 Orinthians 15:26

September 7, 2017

May the peace of God be with you.

Letitia

September 7, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Although your hearts are filled with pain and sorrow, our prayer is that you gain comfort and hope from God's promise to reunite us with our love ones on the earth, never having to say goodbye again. For Jesus will make this earth the problem-free paradise that His Father intended it to be. We have gained comfort and strength from this promise, may your family do the same.

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