Hayden Kennedy and Inge Perkins

Hayden Kennedy and Inge Perkins

Hayden Kennedy and Inge Perkins Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 11, 2017.
Hayden Kennedy survived the avalanche that claimed the life of his girlfriend, Inge Perkins, 23, on Saturday, Oct. 7, 2017. The next day, he ended his own life. He was 27.

The Denver Post described Kennedy as the son of climbing royalty, and one of the most skilled and passionate climbers of his generation.

The couple were on a skiing trip near their home in Bozeman, Mont. Perkins, like Kennedy, was an avid mountain climber and outdoor enthusiast, according to The New York Daily News.

Kennedy was partially buried in the avalanche. He dug himself out, but was unable to locate Perkins. He then made the difficult decision to hike out of the area on his own. Perkins’ body was later recovered by authorities who praised the detailed directions Kennedy had provided them.

Kennedy's father, Alpinist magazine editor emeritus Michael Kennedy, said in a statement Tuesday: “Having lived for 27 years with the great joy and spirit that was Hayden Kennedy, we share the loss of our son and his partner Inge Perkins … Hayden survived the avalanche but not the unbearable loss of his partner in life. He chose to end his life."

Kennedy had recently moved to Bozeman to work on his EMT certification, his father said, while Perkins attended Montana State University.

In a heartfelt tribute on Facebook, Black Diamond sporting goods company, Kennedy’s sponsor, wrote about his ability to share his love of climbing with others: “He often wrote about his expeditions to the greater ranges—frequently publishing pieces in Alpinist, Rock and Ice, Evening Sends and other mags and websites—and his ability to weave a meaningful narrative through the trials and tribulations of climbing was innate. He also incorporated this skill into his live presentations, where he’d hold the audience rapt with tales that often crossed into the deeper reaches of loss and love and how they become undivided in a life of climbing.”

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March 13, 2020

I just chanced upon this story in 2020 and its as relevant today as it was back then about two souls sharing in their love of nature and adventure. Then when one slips away the only option for the other Is to follow to the great beyond.
Their love was too deep to endure such sorrow. They were two bright lights! RIP

Linda

December 15, 2017

Dear Families: I am so very sorry to hear of your losses of Inge & Hayden. God sees your tears and feels your pain. Throw all your anxieties on the Lord because he cares for you. Deepest sympathy.

VA

October 16, 2017

To Families of Hayden and Inge:

There is not enough words that can erase the deep pain you are experiencing at this time. However, I want to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. We can draw comfort from God's comforting words at Psalms 62:8 that we can trust in him at all times and pour out our hearts to him. He is a God of refuge. He will give you the strength needed to endure over the next few days and months ahead. So, very sorry for you loss.

A stranger who cares

October 16, 2017

So very Heartbreaking....to the Parents of Hayden and Inge...I am so very sorry to read about the passing of your loved ones. Sincerely praying for the promises of Our Heavenly Father to continuously sustain you through this most unimaginable difficult time and comfort you until you are reunited with your loved ones again.....my heartfelt condolences to all who knew this beautiful couple. ...

dawna jamison

October 16, 2017

My son as well committed suicide over a love of his life in April of this year. I feel your pain. I wish you all well, prayers.

October 16, 2017

Rest in peace. So young, so sad. Condolences to the families.

Steele

October 16, 2017

They must have loved each other very much. I offer both families my deepest condolences. These are difficult times for both families. I hope that through prayer you can find the needed comfort to ease your heart ache.

October 16, 2017

So sorry for this awful loss. May the God of all mercies comfort all affected by this event. My prayers are with you.

October 16, 2017

Dear Kennedy and Perkins Family, Please accept my deepest sympathy on the passing of these two special people. I do not believe I have ever read a more poignant account of two lives ending. As a mother I share your immense pain. May God comfort all of you.

October 16, 2017

To both families may you all find comfort to cope. Psalm 23

L W

October 15, 2017

I'm truly sorry for your loss of your son and partner. Please know that the God of all comfort hear your cry and He will rescue you with comfort and peace during this sad occasion. (Psalms145:18,19)

October 14, 2017

With heartfelt sympathy. Please accept my deepest condolences. May you continue to cherish there precious together. May you find comfort in the God of all comfort to offer you comfort and to give you the strength to endure during these difficult times ahead.

October 14, 2017

My sincere condolences are with your family in this time of sorrow. May God comfort your family and give you strength during this difficult Time. (2 Thessalonians 2:16,17) JES ATL

L. Walters

October 14, 2017

I am so sorry to hear about the tragic loss of your dear loved ones Hayden and Inge. Life is so stressful in this world at times, but God is so merciful and he understands Hayden's pain. May you find comfort through fond memories and many prayers. [Philippians 4:6,7]

October 14, 2017

They touched so many lives in their short time on this Earth. My condolences to both families. They will be missed.

Esther

October 14, 2017

My condolences to friends and family.
I am sorry for the loss of your loved ones. Your pain is great and no words can ease your grief or your sense of loss.

God understands your grief and he cares for you. He will give you comfort, strength, love and all you need to endure the days ahead. (Psalm 46:1)

October 14, 2017

This is an enormous loss that will leave a void in the lives of many. May prayer,thoughtful words and kind deeds bring comfort to all who loved Hayden and Inge.

October 14, 2017

MAY THE GOD OF ALL COMFORT CONSOLE THESE TWO FAMILIES AT ALL TIMES,
UNTIL YOU MEET AGAIN IN HEAVEN.
THANK YOU SWEET JESUS.
AMEN

Yvonne

October 14, 2017

So sorry. My heartfelt sympathy to both families and friends for your tragic loss.

October 14, 2017

I am deeply sorry to hear about your loss. My condolences to you and your family. Ps 55:22

October 14, 2017

Our Condolences to the family and friends. Both families are in our prayers. May our Heavenly Father give you comfort and strength during this time is sorrow.

Peter P

October 14, 2017

So sorry is all I can say. Godspeed.

October 13, 2017

Two souls together rip

Sherry Sarvis

October 13, 2017

I saw this story online and it pulled at my heartstrings. A double tragedy. The loss of two, clearly incredible ,people. Sending up prayers that God, family and friends will sustain you all, all the rest of the days of your lives until such time you reunite. The silver lining, if any, is that they are together forever.
May the peace that surpasses all understanding, His peace, be yours.
Sincerely,
Sherry

Lisa Hamilton

October 13, 2017

So sorry to hear of this terrible loss to both families, friends and a supportive climbing community. I didn't know them or even know of these two beautiful people but saw this while editing for my fathers obituary.

May the Lord Jesus Christ comfort all who will be affected by this tragic loss.

Connie Lalena

October 13, 2017

So sorry .

Chloe Davis

October 13, 2017

I am deeply sorry to hear this news, know that you will always have them both in your hearts and memories. I will be praying for your family.

Fran

October 13, 2017

I am sorry about your lost. I hope you continue to allow hayden and Inge's joy of life keep you at peace. So many memories can help the family each day.

October 13, 2017

Our condolences to the Perkins and Kennedy Families for your loss of two beautiful lives. May God provide comfort and peace to both Families during your difficult time.

October 13, 2017

Love never fails....They seemed to be a lovely couple who shared many things in common... my sincere condolences for your loss... Although No word is enough to help you take away your pain, our Heavenly Father can give the strength and the comfort to those with a broken heart - Psalms 9:9... May you be granted the inner peace to help you cope with your loss. Our thoughts are with you, Please accept our sincere condolences.

October 13, 2017

Our prayers and condolences goes out to the family and friends of Hayden Kennedy n Inge Perkins. It is such a terrible loss to lose two loved ones at one time. Cherish the many wonderful memories that you shared with your loved ones. May Almighty God give you strength, courage, but most of all peace in the difficult days ahead. I Corinthians I: 3, 4

VH-IL

October 13, 2017

My condolences to the family of both young people.It is so sad to lose someone we love and at times the pain can seem unbearable. How comforting to know that our heavenly father is aware of the pain and suffering that your family is going through at this time. "Do not be afraid,for I am with you.Do not be anxious,for I am your God.I will fortify you,yes,I will really hold on to you with my right hand of righteousness.

October 13, 2017

May it comfort you to know that God as well as others care. Very sorry for your loss.

Sincerely

T C

October 13, 2017

My deepest sympathies to the Kennedy and Perkins families for the loss of Hayden and Inge. May God's Word strengthen you through this difficult time. (Isa. 41:10,13)

October 13, 2017

So sorry for your loss, may the family find comfort @ Issiah 25:8, AJ

Christine

October 13, 2017

For your loss ...I am so very sorry. (Matthew 5:4)

Nancy

October 13, 2017

I am so very sorry to read of the untimely passing of these two individuals. They will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved them. may the God of peace (Romans 15:33) be with their families at this difficult time. Please take care.

October 13, 2017

October 13, 2017

October 12, 2017

Their lights will live on within us as we find some comfort in the memories we were blessed to share with them.

In deepest sorrow...
-Siouxzy

October 12, 2017

Such a lovely couple doing what they treasured doing in life and with one another, so sweet and sad at the same time, rip

P J

October 12, 2017

My condolences to the Kennedy and Perkins family. May the God of all comfort grant you peace and sustain you through this difficult time. John 6:40

Joined by Grief, #UnwantedJourney

October 12, 2017

To the Perkins and Kennedy Families,
I am uncertain if losing a loved one unexpectedly causes increased grief ; however , I am certain that grief is traumatic and the journey is challenging . I am in prayer for your families .
MMM

Phil. 4;6, 7

October 12, 2017

May the peace of God be with you.

October 12, 2017

My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time now and days ahead.

October 12, 2017

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

October 12, 2017

May the God of all comfort be with family and loved ones.

D Tyler

October 12, 2017

Condolences to the Kennedy and Perkins family. 1 Cor. 1:3

October 12, 2017

My heartfelt sympathy to the family on the passing of your love one please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your loss.
Cy

October 12, 2017

Godspeed...

Jeannie

October 12, 2017

Family and Friends of Hayden and Inge,
God is "aware of your deep distress." Psalm 31:7. May your hearts find peace and comfort.

Scott Chamberland

October 12, 2017

Please accept my Deepest Sympathies

October 12, 2017

Kennedy & Perkins Family,

We are truly sorry to learn of the tragic deaths of your precious young man and young lady. Both of your kids were loved and will be remember. Our prayers are with your families. He heals the brokenhearted; He binds up their wounds.-PS.147:3

Heavenly Serenity....

M E Kenny

October 12, 2017

My heart aches for you...who survive this tragic loss of youth, vigor and promise....Please know the Peace of Christ....

candace lepow

October 12, 2017

I am deeply sorry for the loss of these two individuals who loved each other and for the families of them of offer my condolences.

Annie

October 12, 2017

May God's loving kindness comfort you and help you through this sad and difficult time. Psalms 119:50,76.

October 12, 2017

My sincere condolences to the families of Inge Perkins and Hadyen Kennedy. May the God of all comfort be with you all to help sustain you through this most sad difficult time. Psalm 43:18

SL, Ohio

October 12, 2017

My deepest sympathy to the family. May the God of comfort grant you strength during this difficult time.

October 12, 2017

May their souls be ever together in Heaven.God's Blessings

October 12, 2017

My deepest sympathy to the Kennedy and Perkins family. May the peace from God who binds up the brokenhearted comfort and sustain you during this difficult time.,

DC

October 12, 2017

May deep sympathy and the sincere hope that time will bring comfort and help to heal the pain from this tragedy to the Kennedy and Perkins family.

R. R.

October 11, 2017

Kennedy and Perkins Family:
No one can prepare you for a loss; it comes like a swift wind. Hayden and Inge now have the hope found in God's word in
1 Corinthians 15:26.
My deepest condolences to all family and friends.

YS

October 11, 2017

May the Perkins & Kennedy families be surrounded by love, kindness & mercy during their time of grief. Jude 2.

Carlotta

October 11, 2017

May the God of all peace bring comfort to the Kennedy and Perkins family and friends at this difficult time.

October 11, 2017

My deepest sympathies to the Kennedy and Perkins families. May you find a measure of peace and comfort in knowing that others truly care.
2 Thessalonians 3:16

Carl Villanueva

October 11, 2017

My heart goes out to both their families and friends. I did not know either of them, but share in your loss. Such a tragedy.

October 11, 2017

What a tragedy. May God grant peace and comfort to their loved one, in this difficult time in distress.

A Caring Neighbor

October 11, 2017

My heartfelt condolences and prayers for the Parents of Hayden and Inge's Parents. My God provide true comfort and strength during this most challenging time. I am very sorry for your loss. With Love & Prayers

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