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Dr. Robert Roger Harry

Dr. Robert Roger Harry, 75, of Fredericksburg died Monday, December 26, 2022 at his residence.

Born in Charlotte, North Carolina, he was the son of Benjamin Donald Harry and Hansel Guest Harry. He attended Mecklenburg County public schools. In his senior year at North Mecklenburg High School he was co-captain of the football, wrestling, and track teams. Summers he enjoyed water skiing, swimming and boating on Lake Norman where, under the supervision of his father, he and his brothers built their family vacation house. At NC State he was on the wrestling team and earned a degree in Chemistry. Dr. Harry graduated from the University of North Carolina with a MD-PhD in Biomedical Engineering and Mathematics. After completing a six year residency in General Surgery at the University of Virginia he accepted a position with Drs. Richmond Low, William Hollister, and William Sasser in Fredericksburg.

From 1979-2004 Dr. Harry practiced General and Vascular Surgery at Mary Washington Hospital. He served as president of both the Virginia Surgical Society and the Virginia Vascular Society. Following retirement from surgery, for ten years he used his professional skills to teach nursing students at Germanna Community College critical thinking in the virtual nursing laboratory. In that same time period, he chaired the newly formed Physician Quality Management Committee at Mary Washington Hospital.

Dr. Harry was an avid reader, talented cabinetmaker, and lifelong golfer. Playing new courses with family members and friends was a special pleasure. He was a member of the Fredericksburg Presbyterian Church.

Dr. Harry is survived by his wife of 51 years, Ann Earnhardt Harry. Also surviving are his sister, Donna Harry Cochrane and her husband, James, of Atlanta, Georgia; his brother Benjamin Brooks Harry and his wife, Jan, of Austin, Texas; and his brother George Guest Harry and his wife, Gina, of Cary North Carolina. He had close relationships with his brothers-in-law Edward Lee Earnhardt and his wife, Elizabeth, of Winchester, Virginia; and Eric Michael Earnhardt and his wife, Cathleen, of Morristown, New Jersey. Dr. Harry treasured his nieces and nephews Dr. Thos Cochrane, Jama Cochrane, Brian Harry, Paige Harry, Katharine Deveise, Emily Tweddell, Lauren Ryan, Anna Harry, Sara Mansfield, Jonathan Earnhardt, Eric Earnhardt, Dr. Jenna Earnhardt, and Dr. Mary Cate Earnhardt. His godson Peter Elstner and goddaughter Margaret Clary Goldman enriched his life immensely.

A private memorial service will be held at a later date. Contributions in Dr. Harry's memory may be made to the Moss Free Clinic, 1301 Sam Perry Boulevard, Suite 100, Fredericksburg, Virginia 22401; or to Mary Washington Hospice, c/o MWH Foundation, 2600 Mary Washington Blvd. Fredericksburg, Virginia 22401.

Online guest book is available at covenantfuneralservice.com.
Published by The Free Lance - Star on Jan. 4, 2023.

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David McFadden

October 9, 2024

I was a terrified medical student in 1978 when Dr. Harry, "Bob" , took me under his wing. He quickly became a role model. I forgot my plans of a career in neurology and followed in Bob's footsteps. He was an incredible person and surgeon. He was my friend, mentor, and the reason I pursued a surgical career.

Judy Briggs

January 10, 2023

My deepest condolences to you & your family Anne. Dr. Harry was a kind & gentle man. He had a great sense of humor & always a pleasure to talk to. May God comfort you in this difficult time.

P.J. Smith

January 6, 2023

Bob - was a teammate, friend, and house mate on mine at N.C. State who I always admired for the fact that he always accomplished what he set out to do. He led by example and had a unique sense of humor. In this world of give and take their are very few who give what ever it takes. Bob was one on those people who gave whatever it took and used his talents and determination to made the world a better place.
Keep Wrestling Bob!

P.J. Smith

Herbert and Betty-Bruce (Howard) Hoover

January 5, 2023

We send our sympathy to the Harry Family for the loss of Bob Harry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Anda Williams Cochran

January 4, 2023

My condolences to Ann and the extended Harry family. I was in high school with Bob and I credit him with helping me pass Chemistry. Clearly, he remained a caring, intelligent man, helping many.

Andrew Glass

January 4, 2023

My deepest condolences to Ann and the Harry family. I have countless memories of golfing with Dr. Harry and enjoying lunch together between working in their beautiful rose gardens. Truly a wonderful person and will be missed deeply by all.

Vicki Beard Robbins

January 4, 2023

My deepest condolences to the Harry family during this difficult time. I have fond memories of Bob, Ben and George growing up at Prosperity Church as kids. Bob came from a wonderful family, had a life well lived and I know he will be greatly missed by all. With deepest sympathy . . .

Barbara Muir

January 4, 2023

Ann, my heart and prayers follow you.
God bless you and be by your side.

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