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Dustin Harnden Obituary

Dustin Mitchell Harnden

LA CROSSE - Dustin M. Harnden, La Crosse passed away on Tuesday, July 18, 2023 with family by his side at Mayo Clinic in Rochester. Dustin was born September, 27, 1987 just 17 months after his brother, Tyler. Parents, Sue and Bill would welcome their daughter, Hayley five years later. He would attend Emerson Elementary, Lincoln Middle School, Logan High School and the University of Wisconsin-La Crosse. Dustin not only excelled academically but also in sports. Basketball and baseball were his favorites and he concluded his baseball career at Logan with all conference honorable mention. His one lone B he received in High School, broke his string of straight A's. Dustin worked briefly at Menards, then Pepsi, BNSF Railroad, Lambic Telecom which had him renting a room in Minneapolis as to not uproot his family. For the past several years he has been a cable and internet technician/installer for Brightspeed (formerly CenturyLink). He has always remained active in sports, not only with his sons, Owen and Keegan and when able still an exceptional slow pitch softball player. Always a fitness buff he had a complete gym in his home and enjoyed a good workout. His hobbies included fishing, hunting, wake boarding and boating, his beer shares with his buddies and finding good deals on gym equipment. He even went skydiving off an airplane. Although growing up in a rock and roll house, Dustin loved country music. The songs of Luke Combs and Kip Moore really spoke to him. Dustin loved the Mississippi River, spending time with his sons and friends at Crater Island. Dustin Made it back to La Crosse for three days over the 4th of July and on July 3rd he was able to enjoy one last boat ride with his family.

Dustin was initially diagnosed with Follicular Lymphoma and received radiation treatment last July. He began experiencing severe back pain in early October and several local doctors did not connect the dots over several weeks. Out of frustration and agonizing pain, Dustin sought a second opinion in November at Gundersen. From there it was discovered that his cancer had changed to Large B Cell Lymphoma which is very aggressive and valuable treatment time was lost. Trust your instincts, get a second opinion. Dustin had been hospitalized since December 1st at Mayo Clinic in Rochester.

The Harnden family would like to thank the Mayo Health System in Rochester for doing everything possible to save Dustin's life. We would especially like to thank the LC outpatient department and 7th floor hematology unit.

On Monday, July 17th Dustin was able to say goodbye to his loving sons, Owen and Keegan who were accompanied by his former wife, Lindsey; plus lifetime friends: Patrick Robbins and Alex and Michelle Powell. Surrounded by his mom and dad, sister and girlfriend, Alana, his brother, Tyler put a post on Facebook Tuesday, asking for friends and family to share their favorite memories and stories of him. The outpouring of support was overwhelming as Tyler read them to him by his bedside. Dustin had a magnetic personality and all of those that worked with him at the LC Outpatient Department and 7th floor hematology came to say their goodbyes as well. There was not a dry eye in the room.

Dustin is survived by his sons: Owen and Keegan Harnden; parents: Sue and Bill Harnden; brother, Tyler (Alyssa) and nephew, Jackson; sister, Hayley; former wife, Lindsey and the current love of his life, Alana Gruntzel who was with him every step of the way in his journey.

Visitation begins at 1:00 p.m. on Wednesday, July 26th with a service at 6:00 p.m. at Schumacher-Kish Funeral Home, 200 West Ave. S, La Crosse, WI. Internment on Thursday, July 27th at 9:00 a.m. at Oak Grove Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, donations for medical expenses and for his sons would be welcomed.

Online guestbook is available at www.schumacher-kish.com.

Published by La Crosse Tribune on Jul. 25, 2023.

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Mary and Mike Bilot

October 6, 2023

So sorry for your loss, Bill and Sue, I had no idea. All of this was going on. Sympathies and prayers.

Dardy Berge

August 28, 2023

I had Dustin in sixth grade at LMS. He was a delight to have in class and I remember his positive attitude. May your treasured memories of him bless your family.

Your friend, Deborah M. Valley of the Sun, Arizona

August 3, 2023

Dear Sue & Bill & Hayley & Tyler, If I may do anything for you & your family, please don't hesitate to let me know. I am sending my hugs & praying for your peace & comfort knowing Dustin was so deeply loved by everyone and will be shining his love back to you thru his sons Owen & Keegan & in our love & daily thoughts.

Joe Van Aelstyn

July 31, 2023

Bill & Sue
I am sorry for your loss
Joe Van Aelstyn

Deb Dornack

July 29, 2023

Bill just reading this today. I'm so very sorry for you and your family. Saying prayers.

Karla Fennie

July 27, 2023

Sue, Bill, Tyler and Haley,
I am so sorry for your loss of your precious son and brother.

Terry Stalsberg

July 26, 2023

Deepest sympathies to the Harnden family. Although I am much older than Dustin I really enjoyed working with him at BNSF, we easily talked whether it be sports, hunting, fishing or just life. He took his job to heart and did an awesome job. What a great person. RIP young man.

Heidi Rekow

July 26, 2023

I am so sorry that Dustin lost his heroic battle to overcome his awful disease. I always enjoyed watching Dustin , Tyler and Mike play baseball . He was so athletic and fast. I had a nice conversation with him at Mike and Alyssa’s wedding in October 2021, so polite and such a great young man. Rest in Peace Dustin .

Cathy Ryan

July 26, 2023

Sue, Bill, Hayley and Tyler: My heart aches for your loss. Dustin will be so very missed by his many friends. His ready smile was contagious along with his positive attitude. I will never forget the cheeky little guy running through our house, when we moved in next door! We are all thinking of you in this incredibly difficult time.
-- Cathy, Mike, Rose and Madrigal

Kathie La Grander

July 26, 2023

Sue, Hayley and family. I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a son and a brother is a tough road. I've recently lost 2 brothers and I feel your pain. Keep those little boys close and hug them every chance you get because when you do you're hugging Dustin too. Kathie La Grander

Joanne Lusk

July 26, 2023

So sorry to hear of the death of Justin,
Mrs Joanne Lusk

Karla Gaines

July 26, 2023

There are no words to help heal your pain after the loss of a child. Just know I am so sorry and am here for you and praying for you.♥

MJ and Steve Cubberly

July 25, 2023

Bill & Sue - I’m Richard Lusk’s sister, MJ. I can’t find the right words to let you know how sad I am to hear about your son, Dustin. My heart aches for you and your family. Sending you strength and comfort during this incredibly difficult time. MJ & Steve Cubberly

July 25, 2023

Sue, Bill and family. We are so sorry for the loss of your beloved Dustin. Sending hugs to each and everyone of you. God bless. Bonnie and John Daines

Susan Blackwell

July 25, 2023

So sorry for your loss

Lost in Paradise Bouquet

Valley Dental

Sent Flowers

Pastor Mark Clements

July 24, 2023

Bill & Sue,

I was so saddened to hear of Dustin's passing. Please know that I have been and continue to be in prayer for you and your family. May our God grace each of you with His presence & peace and with the hope of everlasting life.

Pastor Mark Clements
Living Word Christian Church
La Crosse, Wisconsin

Rhonda & Mark Prom

July 24, 2023

Sue,Bill and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Dustin's passing.You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
May you all find comfort with the wonderful memories you have of him.
Dustin sounded like an amazing man,you should be very proud.His life was too short but
left a huge impression on all he met! May he rest In peace. God Bless you all!

Clarence Maack

July 24, 2023

Bless Dustin, his family, relatives and his friends; God be with all of you.

Doug & Terri Groth

July 23, 2023

Sue, Bill & family I am beyond sorry to hear about the passing of Dustin. I cannot imagine the pain & heartache you´re feeling. I am praying for your peace and comfort. Dustin was a wonderful young man with a great smile who was a friend to many! God Bless

Patricia Jane Vandervelde

July 23, 2023

Sue Bill
I was so saddened to here of
Dustin's Diagnosis, fight, and life ending journey! I feel Blessed I was part of his, brother and sister as well,lives,soon after Birth! Great kids great family! I cannot imagin your loss, your journey! Hold on to all
Of your Memories of Dustin, his life
, his accomplishments and his Love for all of You! Hugs and Prayers
Pat Vandervelde

Ty Lorenz

July 23, 2023

My deepest sympathy to the Harnden Family, Being the same age as Dustin and my Dads love for Baseball; Having my brother and I play ball, I had seen the talent in Dustin at an early age. Dustin and I weren’t the best of friends but growing up we had some mutual friends in common. I always noticed the bond Dustin and Tyler had was exactly like my brother (Wade) and I. I respected that to the fullest. We started going to school together at Lincoln Middle School (And eventually Logan High School) where I knew Dustin was going to be a handful in gym class as we were both competitive people and tried to be the best at everything the P.E Teachers had scheduled for the day and I would say we equally loved the challenge. We didn’t play the same sports in Middle & High School but knew he was good at any sport he tried. The world lost a Good Athlete, a Good Human, A Good Son, and I’m sure even a better Father.

Rest in Peace Dustin

June Strand

July 22, 2023

Sue, Bill and family. It's so sad to have lost a son. I hope that he comes to you in your dreams and tells you that he is at peace now. He will always be in your heart and in your memories. Take care and so sorry for your loss.

Bert Butterfield

July 22, 2023

Sue, Bill, and family ... I'm so very sorry to hear this news ... my heart goes out to all of his family and friends. He sounds like an amazing young man and one I'm sure you were all very proud of. I can't imagine this loss ... sending big hugs and saying prayers for peace and comfort to all. 'Bert Butterfield

Patricia Betz

July 22, 2023

I did not know Dustin, but upon reading his obituary, I see that he is a man to be admired by his sons as they grow into young men. My heart hurts that his life had to end so early. Know of my prayers for all of you left to mourn his loss.

Alice P. Clark and family

July 22, 2023

Sue, Bill and family: I was saddened to learn of the passing of your son, Dustin. It sounds like he was an amazing and highly accomplished young man. Please know that your family and his are in our thoughts and prayers.

Lori Zierke

July 21, 2023

My heart goes out to the Harnden family

Mike Wolden

July 21, 2023

Sorry for your loss

Beth Harnish

July 21, 2023

May God be with all of you through your sadness and give you the strength you need to carry on.

Terri and Rich Johnson

July 21, 2023

This world lost one exceptional young man. My heart is broken! May your memories sustain you through this very, very sad time.

Megan Uting

July 21, 2023

Dustin was such a light in this world. His smile never failed to make me smile.
Sending love, prayers, and strength to his family, especially his boys

Jo Spencer

July 21, 2023

My heart goes out to Dustin’s family and friends. Much love and hugs to all of you

Jack Jefferson

July 21, 2023

My deepest sympathies go out to all of you who loved Dustin so. May God bless you and stand beside you in this time of sorrow and heartache.

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