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Anthony Duffie Obituary
Of Bellevue, suddenly on Friday, August 31, 2007. Beloved son of Tony Duffie and Patricia (Balsamo) Duffie; brother of Greg Duffie and his wife Traci and Jarett Duffie and his wife Bridget; grandson of Otto and Bertha "Jeff" Duffie and Patricia Balsamo and the late Thomas V. Balsamo; also survived by aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins. Anthony will be loved and missed by all. Friends received Tuesday 2-4 & 7-9 pm at the T.B. DEVLIN FUNERAL HOME, 806 Perry Highway, N. Hills. Mass of Christian Burial in St. Athanasius Church Wednesday at 11:00 am. Contributions to CORE.
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78 Entries
Mom
September 8, 2008
Anth,
It may be the end of the first year here without you, but there will never be an end to my love for you. You were (and still are) one of my greatest joys of this lifetime and I will wait patiently until it is my turn to be with you. I think of you everyday, miss you everyday and love you even more. Rest easy, Anth.
Love you bunches and bunches,
Mom
xoxo
Aunt Toni
September 3, 2008
I can't begin to count the number of times this past year that I asked "Why?" I look back and wish that I could have done something to change the outcome. After a lot of prayer I do understand that asking "Why" is human nature, but it will never change what happened. I think about your smile, your eyes, your curls, your love of people, and your zest for life and I smile. You had such a positive impact on so many people that no one can understand why you did this. We are not here to continue asking why, but to remember you just how you were. You were a wonderful nephew who would help anyone who needed it. I only wish I could have helped you...You are with Pappy now and I know you are at peace. Until we meet again...Love you yesterday, today and tomorrow
Mom
September 3, 2008
Well, it has been a year now and things just seem so terrible different. It is so hard to explain the feelings of the heart when something this tragic happens. I have second guessed myself to death on this and still come up with nothing. I can't imagine that someone could hurt this badly but I guess my sweet son did. I will never be the same, yet I am trying to be. I know one day I will be with Anth and there are days when I wish it would be tomorrow, then there are days that I know I have to wait my turn. But I know in the end I will end up where I need to be and that will be with Anth. Rest easy baby and never, ever think that I won't miss you or love you for the rest of my days....love you bunches and bunches.....
Love,
Mom
xoxo
Julianne
August 29, 2008
wow i cant even believe its almost a year since you have been gone...i just want you to know you will always have a special place in my heart! i think about you everyday...love ya duff!
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Terri Truchan
August 19, 2008
Hi Anthony:
I was with your Mom all weekend and you will never truly know how much she misses you everyday and questions your passing in every way. I'm sure you know we had our usual laugh and cry fest but I want to thank you for finally coming to your mother in a dream! She needed to hear your voice again more than life and although the 31st is bearing down on us, I truly believe by you talking to her, she will manage once again, as she always does. Again - thanks kid! You are sorely missed - please watch over all those that love you dearly!! Rest in Peace Anthony.
Mom
August 17, 2008
August 17, 2007 was the last night I seen you. We took pictures of us and I thank God that I did that. Really hard Anth. Miss you and love you. Thank you so much for the dream. I hope you understand how much I needed to see you and have you talk to me. I am glad you are not alone....
Erica Volkman
August 13, 2008
I went to a Pirate Game last night, first time since I went with you when it was still 3 rivers. The “new” stadium is awesome. Of course we lost. Then I dreamt about you all night, I love it so much but it makes me miss you like crazy.
This is my last post in here. I am sure all of us are dreading the 31st. Please watch over us that day, and give us the strength we will surely need.
I love and miss you so much it physically hurts.
~Pookie
Mom
August 10, 2008
The 31st is fast approaching. Can not believe it is going to be a year since you went away. Every day I remember something about you and I either laugh or cry. I hope you know just how much I loved you and love you still. You meant the world to me and still do. If only I would have known the pain you carried, maybe I could have helped in some way. Love you so much Anth and I can not tell you how much I wish you could have stayed. Rest easy baby....love you more than yesterday and I know I will love you even more tomorrow......
Mom
June 30, 2008
I can't believe it is 10 months already. Life is so different since you went away. There are days that I don't think I will get through and then a memory of you makes me smile and somehow it makes things okay again. How I wish you were back here with all of us who love you. It somehow makes it easier that you are with Pappy and Odie. At least you all can help each other through. Love you bunches and miss you even more............Rest easy............
Mom
May 10, 2008
My first birthday and Mother' Day without you. Yet another first I have to face and am having problems with it. There are days that I can hardly get through and then I pull myself up only to fall back down again and again. Watch over those who love you and miss you. So many people could use your shoulder right now. So very hard without you. See you when it is my turn.
Love you bunches,
Mom
xoxo
Aunt Toni
April 30, 2008
It is so hard to believe you are gone, but even harder to understand why. I sit and pray everyday that you are at complete peace now, and that you are watching over all those who miss you. Your time here was so short, but you blessed so many people with your sense of humor, zest for life, and the ability to give everybody a second chance. The people left behind really need you now. You are so deeply missed that the days seem so long and the nights even longer. So many questions left unanswered, but I know someday the answers will be given and we will all meet again. I hope heaven is enjoying having you as much as your family and friends enjoyed you when you were here. Just because you are gone does not mean you will ever be forgotten. You live on in all of us, Anth. You made the world a special place. I miss you more that I could ever say...
Kristy Downs
April 9, 2008
I can't believe its been this long. You truely are missed everyday. I know now how so fragile life is and that you can't take anyone or anything for granted. I never got to thank you for being there just to listen. Thank you. I do hope that you are at peace now, because you deserve that. I wish I knew how bad you were hurting cause i would have done anything to be your listener as you were mine. I will always remember the times we had and I am thankful for those. May you rest in peace Anthony, and I'll see you when the sun shines perminently.
Mom
March 22, 2008
Just remembering the Easter when you and Jarett got your "Ghost Buster" guns. Good God, that was all we heard for a long time. So very cute. Love you baby. Miss you this Easter, just like I do every day of my life. Rest easy and until we meet again...................
what a beef cake!
Erica Volkman
March 14, 2008
Half of a year. I never ever thought I would go nearly this long without hearing your voice. I miss you more than I have ever missed anything or anyone before. I am STILL waiting to wake up from all of this.
Love you like a chubby kid loves cake..
Erica (the pook)
Mom
March 2, 2008
Baby, Six months already and I feel like I was just holding you yesterday. The days are so long, nights longer still, but I hope and pray that you are finally at peace. People still ask about you and that makes me so happy. I don't ever want to face the day where I feel that people have forgotten you. That would be so devistating. Rest easy baby, love you with all of my heart....
Manda Flaherty
February 7, 2008
There isn’t, honestly, a single day that goes by that I don’t think or talk to or about Anth! Hell, I’m still talking his ear off every night about my problems. I didn’t know Anth as long as I would have wanted to but in the time we knew each other I feel that I got to know him, and him know me better then most. He always knew how to flip my frown, which might have just been his best feature; what I miss the most. He’s the only guy I could ramble all night about my problems, and would actually listen for hours on end. Poor guy.
I went to see him today, in the rain, but it was a really bad day and I got in my car and drove. My car took me straight to him. Talk about hard. His stone is beautiful. At least he won't be alone forever. It captured him exactly how he was. Laid back, fun, and deep down loving those pirates (ha-ha okay maybe not so much about the pirates)! That was one of my favorite pictures of him, and in my favorite hat. I used to steal it off him all the time, well every time he had it on. I can’t tell ya how many bruised wrists and parts I had from him and me fighting over it. All in fun and games, of course. I will cherish that hat forever I promise! I actually have a glass case being made for me right now. It’s going to have his hat, the roses from him, that picture, also the date and the saying “head up kiddo, no one wants to see that smile hidden”. I can’t tell you how many times a day he’d tell me that. SO many times I needed to hear it since then.
Trust me, Anth has influenced everything I have done in a positive way since the day I met him. Candace and I talk about him all the time. He is always around us and pushing us to keep moving forward. I try really hard to not cry about it any more but I can’t help it. I know Anth is up there kicking himself because he can’t be yelling at us to stop crying and be happy. That’s all he would have ever wanted was for everyone to keep smiling. I know he’s with me. He shows it sometimes, especially when I need him the most. He is there in my dreams a lot. After the funeral, I couldn’t sleep at night for weeks because I would see him and know that he’s not a phone call away any more. That’s when I started getting the dreams, and the feeling that he is there.
I miss him so much. He was one of the greatest friends I ever had. Anth will live on forever.. That’s because he will be damned before he’ll let anyone forget him. But I do love Anth, and I will NeveR in a million dreams be able to ever forget him.
Patty Duffie
January 25, 2008
I know that you are looking down on Jarett today and wishing him the happiest of birthdays. Me too. Even though you are not here, I feel you around me every day and night and I know that others do too. Rest easy baby, and don't forget to look over all of us and take care of us too. Love you bunches,
Mom
Patty Duffie
January 25, 2008
If I could have one wish in this world it would be to have you with me again...I feel so empty without you but I know you are finally at peace...love you baby
Mom
Mom
January 12, 2008
I came to see you today...I pulled up and the Raven flew away...At that moment the world seemed brighter...The burden on my heart somewhat lighter...
For with the Raven the darkness flew away...Opened my soul to let in the suns rays...To spread the warmth I so craved...Sweet memories here to stay...
Clearly now I see your smile...Remembering your spirit all the while...The way you used to hold me tight...All of my fears have taken flight...
With each new day I promis to try...To fill myself with love, make myself smile...And if you promise to watch over me...I promise to try and live my life free...
Miss you and love you bunches Baby
Mom
Erica Volkman
January 4, 2008
New Years was another milestone indeed. Not only was I with Anth last new years eve (and many others) but it was also Anths 4 month death anniversary. With the help of my friends I lifted my mood like Anth would have wanted, and enjoyed some of my night with Anth in my heart and mind as always.
I love and miss you Anth, like so many others. Please continue to help us through the hard times we are sure to face in the future.
Mom
January 1, 2008
New Years Day. Another milestone to get beyond. So hard without Anth here and not being able to hug him or talk to him. Our "talks" are something I miss the most about my baby. Such a caring person. Always hoping that everything was alright with me and the other people he loved so much. I still draw on the fact that I was so lucky to have him with me when I did. I still talk to Anth every day, I still miss Anth every day, and I will love him every day. Rest in peace baby, until we see each other again.........
December 25, 2007
Well, it is my first year here without Anthony on Christmas. These past months have been a whirlwing of emotions, some of the lowest (if not lowest) times of my life. I miss him every waking moment and think of him everyday. I have come to realize that the answers that I seek will probably never be answered. I have also learned that mental issues are something that can really be overwhelming and dibilitating. My only wish is that somehow he could have seen through his pain and sought help. Even though Anth is no longer here in person, no one will ever be able to take away the thousands of memories I have of him. The laughter, the smile, the eyes, the way he genuinly loved people. His compassion for others and life was something that was so much a part of his life and rubbed off on others. In so many ways, he went out of his way to make others feel special but for some reason he couldn't pull that off for himself. And I think that is what hurts the most. He was giving to others. This is the first year ever that I won't be waiting for his call to come in and hear him say "love you Mom, Merry Christmas". But then I think of all the other years that he did do that and am blessed that I have those memories to draw on. Baby, may you rest in peace and finally have the quiet in your mind that you so desperately needed. I feel you watching over me and feel lucky to have that. I look to you for guidance and feel you with me all the time. You were (and still are) loved by so many. Every one of us can't deny how very blessed we all were to have you in our lives. Because of you, I look at things through different eyes and cherish things that I once took for granted. You made my life worth living and though you left me way too soon, your gift to me will always be in my heart. And that is to cherish and love the things and people in life which make each and every one of us who we are. And though I won't get that phone call this year I will try to smile through the tears and remember all the beautiful things that you brought into my heart. Be at peace baby. Never will you ever be farther away from me than a thought and a prayer. Bless you.
Merry Christmas and love you bunches,
Mom
Patty
December 19, 2007
On November 25, 2007 I had a dedication at the cemetary for the unveiling of Anth's headstone. It was a cold day but some of Anth's family and closest friends were able to come. Made it just a little warmer. Anyhow, Erica asked me if she could read something and me loving her the way I do, I said yes. The following is what she read. It was such a beautiful tribute that I thought it would be nice if everyone had the opportunity to read it. It is as follows:
I'm glad that we are all here today to take a time out to remember Anthony and be grateful for the time that we did get to spend with him. After Anth died I found a quote on line that really hit home. "When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth, you are weeping for that which has been your delight." (Kahlil Gibran) These last 12 weeks have been excruciatingly painful for a lot of us. I think this is especially true because we miss Anth's unique personality. Anth was truely one of a kind. Someone who marched to the beat of his own drummer for sure, and rarely cared about what others thought of him. Anth had a strong ability to make people laugh. His humor was off the wall but enjoyed by everyone. Anth could talk to anyone, anywhere and get a chuckle out of them. Anth's personality was magnetic and drew people in. His laugh was hardy and contageous, his smile was infectious. I think that Anth would want to be remembered as the fun guy at the bar, the crazy karaoke singer, the competitive beer pong player, the football enthusiast, an all night poker buddy, a clown to cheer you up and to listen when you are down, a loyal friend, and a loving nephew, cousin, brother, grandson, and son. It is so hard to go on without Anth sometimes, but we all need to create more good times and fun memories so that when we finally get to see Anth again we can get a chuckle out of him by sharing all the adventures we continued to have. That's how he would want it. "As long as I can I will look at this world for both of us. As long as I can I will laugh with the birds, I will sing with the flowers, I will pray to the stars, for both of us." (Sasha)
Uncle Paul and Aunt Toni
December 10, 2007
Well Anth today is your birthday. This should be a day of celebration, but instead a day of sadness. We know what a great kid you were, and how you had such a love of life, but something took you from us way too soon. Everyday I look around I think about you, and how happy you seemed. We would have done anything to save you from this tragedy. Please know how loved you are and always will be. You were such a blessing when you were here, and we all know you are still with us. Be at peace, Anth. You are on our hearts and minds always. Happy Birthday..
Mom
December 9, 2007
Well Anth, tomorrow Monday December 10, 2007 is going to be one of the hardest days I will have to face. You will be 23. So much of your life was left to live, I only wished you could have seen beyond the pain and known that. 23 years ago was one of the happiest days of my life when they rolled sweet beautiful you into my room. All cuddly and pink and just so chubby! We always laughed at how chubby your cheeks were, but you were so beautiful. My heart filled with unbelievable love that day and just grew as you did. You always made me so proud to call you my son and still do to this day. I do not fault you for leaving. I understand that you felt that was the only way to ease your heart but I wish every day that you would have called me. Maybe I could have done something to help you through. That is something that none of us will ever know, but know this: so many people loved you while you were here and so many people still love you even though you are gone. So many tears have been cried and so many questions left unanswered but my love for you will never, ever change. I will love you until my dying day and miss you even more. One day we will be together again. That keeps me going knowing that one day me and you are going to see each other again. Can't wait for one of your great hugs. Happy Birthday Baby, I love you...
Uncle Paul and Aunt Toni
November 26, 2007
We went to your dedication yesterday, and I can't find the words to describe how hard it was to look at that stone and see your smiling face. We will always remember your contagious smile and beautiful eyes. We know that you are at peace now. God Bless You Anth...
Mom
November 26, 2007
Thank you so much to all that came to the dedication. I understand that some couldn't be there and don't beat yourselves up about it. It was wonderful seeing some of his friends again. The picture turned out beautiful (thank you Jen) and the ourpouring of love will never be forgotten. Like all of you, I talk to him everyday and miss him, and I will always love my baby.....
Manda Flaherty
November 25, 2007
I cant believe its been this long. But no matter where i go, anth i look to you for help every day. especially more now then ever. my gram (go rest her soul) used to always tell me that when you lose someone very close to you.. you gain someone even closer, you know what im talkin about.. but thank you for guiding me thru these past 2 mths. i love ya anth <3
Mom
November 22, 2007
Anthony, Our first holiday here without you. It is still so very hard. The memories of you light my mind every day but I feel so lost without you. I wish that you could have come to me. I would have done anything and everything to help you. You were never a burden and I hope you understand how very much I loved you and love you still. You will always be in my heart. There is a place there that no one will ever be able to touch. It is our special place. I love you Anth, and hope that you are finally at peace...
Patty Duffie
November 16, 2007
Hey everyone, just an update on Anth's setting of his headstone. His footer was poured Thursday. The stone is going to be set the Wednesday before Thanksgiving. I am planning on having the dedication on Sunday November 25 at 3:00 at the cemetary. Anyone who wishes to come is welcome. If you have any questions, you can call me or Erica, or drop me an email. Again, thanks to everyone for everything. I am still working through this as I am sure all of you are, but the love and compassion that everyone has shown has truly been remarkable. I will keep all of you in my heart and prayers forever.
Patty
Aunt Toni
November 9, 2007
I was shopping today and the cashier who waited on me looked just like Anthony. He was a happy, go lucky guy with a great personality. Just like Anthony. It brought tears to my eyes as this young man spoke to me. I wish it was Anthony, laughing, smiling, and loving life. I miss you so very much. I treasure all the memories...
Patty Duffie
October 31, 2007
It has been 2 long months since Anth left us. There are no words to describe the emptiness I feel every day. My heart breaks every morning when I wake up knowing that I will face another day without him. I know I must move on but it is so hard. Everyone has been wonderful with their thoughts and prayers, and just the little things that all of you do. Thank you for that. I find comfort in knowing that he is still and always will be remembered and loved for the special person he was and in every way still is. I miss him with every beat of my heart and not a day passes that I don't think about him or talk to him. I patiently wait for the day that I will see him again and dance with the angels.
Greg Duffie
October 18, 2007
It's been over a month and a half and I still don't know what to say. I miss you Anth. I'm sorry I didn't know you as well as a brother should. I hope you're at peace now.
http://www.anthonyduffie.com
(Thanks for the great site Erica!)
Ruth Twyman
October 17, 2007
I have lit a candle for Anth and invite everyone to join me here...
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=Dutch
Patty Duffie
October 9, 2007
Hey everyone. I ordered Anth's headstone on Sat. Should be set (hopefully) around Thanksgiving. I am planning on having a dedication when it is set so everyone that wants to be there can be. I will post the date here or try to get in touch with as many people as possible. It was one of the hardest things I had to do but I will continue to do whatever it takes for my baby. Love to all of you.
Patty
[email protected]
Kari Dickerson
October 7, 2007
Anth was always a bright spot in my life for the years I knew him, the whole family was, and still is. I miss him terribly, but one day, I'll see him again. Much love for the whole family.
Love,
Kari
Manda Flaherty
October 4, 2007
hey anth.. i miss ya boy. so how about todays my birthday and your not here to celebrate, which makes me sad. do me a favor please? watch over me things suck right now and you always knew how to help guide me along. love you anth..
ps the pirates lost and the season is over =(
Daina Bernhard
October 2, 2007
Even though i didn't know anthony for a very long time, i am thankful i got the pleasure of knowing him. He made my days brighter and more joyous. Although I will miss him, I will never forget all the great times he has brought into my life! My heart goes out to the all the family and friends.
God Bless
Jay Balsamo
September 26, 2007
Well Anthony it has been almost a month since you left us and I still can't come up with the words that I want to say. I miss you so very much. We did not stay in touch as much as we should have the past few years but sometimes things just happen. But when we did cross paths you were always quick with a smart comment and a sneaky little laugh. I have so many memories of you they just all bunch together in my mind. And that is the way I like it. I don't want just one memory of you I want to remember them all. You were gone from our lives way too soon and all that we have left is our thoughts of you and our love for you. But sometimes in our lives this is all we get until we will meet again. And when that time comes I best be greeted with a smart @ss joke and a laugh. So Anthony rest easy. I may ask for help from time to time and I hope that when I do my heart and mind will be filled with the thoughts of you. God Bless.
Love You
Uncle Jay
Rachel Nicotra
September 22, 2007
I came on this site with the intention on writing a simple “Anth you will be missed by all.” However, after thinking about it, that doesn’t even begin to cover it. My relationship with Anth lasted for years which seemed like such a long time then, but now seems insignificant. Four years is truly not enough time to spend with someone so special. I’m not saying our relationship was perfect, like any high school couple, we sure did have our ups and downs but his heart was always there. Always genuine. Anth and I pretty much lost touch in the past year and a half and I kick myself everyday for that. Because even if things didn’t work out for us as a couple, he was still a great friend. Anth had the ability to make someone laugh with out even knowing it. The way he worried about the Steelers, the way his ears flapped in the wind if the windows were down like a dog’s would, the way he was convinced Sebastian was a dog and would play fetch with him. He was an all around good hearted kid.
I have to admit that there are times when my phone rings that I think it’s going to be him, or a customer will come into the bar I work at and for a split second I think it’s him. Of course it always turns out that it’s not because he is not here with us anymore. Anthony died way too young. But the thing we have to remember id that just because he isn’t on the other line or walking through that door does not mean he is not hear. He is very much still alive in each and every one of us that cared for him. He lives on through the memories we have and the stories he shared. Anth’s body may not be here but his legacy will surly live on forever.
Dutchie-May you find the peace you have always been looking for. I pray that we will see you again some day, but in the meantime, I hope you know how much are were loved and how much you are missed.
Aunt Janine
September 22, 2007
September 21, 2007
One of my earliest memories of Anthony was when he was one of the "Blues Brothers" at a very young age. He certainly wasn't "blue" but instead he brought a smile and some laughter to all that came in contact with him. He was always involved in a bit of mischief - but that's what made up Anthony's personality. He made sure to acknowledge you when he walked into the room and he always had a smile to share. It is said that everything happens for a reason. Right now I don't think any of us can even begin to imagine why this tragic incident had to take place and I'm sure we all feel the same in that we, as well as Anthony, were cheated out of so much. But, at the same time I think it helps us to remember how special he was and these qualities are what will bring a bit of happiness in this time of sorrow. Anthony, you will be missed - but as you look down on us with that smile of yours - we will be smiling right back. Peace be with you.
Amy Cassidy
September 18, 2007
I'm so sorry for your family's loss. Anthony was a great guy and he will be missed. Your family is in my thought's and prayers.
Anth will be with me wherever I go...
September 17, 2007
Kristy Downs
September 17, 2007
I am blessed to have met Anthony and have him be a part of my life, even if only for a short time. He made me a better person. I will miss him. I'll have the memories always and i know I will see him again. Ther's the saying that everything happens for a reason and he was meant to be in my life for a purpose, and I want to thank him for that. I will miss you Anth and you will always have a place in my heart forever.
Tony Duffie
September 14, 2007
On December 10, 1984 a beautiful bundle of joy was born to my wife Patty and I. It was one of the happiest days of our lives. The little knit hat that they put on newborn's only covered about two thirds of his head and none of his ear lobes. A Duffie trait. Luckily he grew on to them. Later he grew a lot of curls to hide them. He was our baby. As a child Anth was a very good baby, very loving, but also very daring. As he got older he would try anything, especially if he was egged on by his 2 older brothers. Jumping off the top of the radiator because they told him he could fly like Superman was only the beginning. Another time his friends were playing in the woods and tried to be Tarzan and jump from tree to tree-that took 2 months to repair the hole in his leg where the tree limb went through. Over the years Anthony was on a first name basis with every one at Allegheny General Emergency Room. His doctor told us that Anthony had no fear, we told her that we already knew that. When he started to play football and hockey, naturally he played full throttle with no fear-more trips to Agh ER. When we would watch Steelers games hw would tell me what play they were going to run on that down-I was always amazed at how football smart he was. I didn't get to spend much time with Anth these last few years and I realize how much I missed him but I've seen in these last few days that he was in good company with those who loved and cared for him.Speaking for myself and the entire family-Thank you for your prayers and time to remember my son Anthony. I love you Anth-may you rest in peace
Love,
Dad
Phil Laboda
September 13, 2007
Anthony was my best friend with out a doubt. He was one of the few people that i could talk to and listen to my problems. He lit up peoples faces with his presence. I will and always remember my friend forever. Your friend ears
DJ Kristen
September 13, 2007
What an incredible Man, Son, and Friend he truly is. It's rare when you meet someone who can "dazzle" you with just a look or a smile, and Anthony did all that and more. To see him at the "Dory" on Sat nights and with a joke or song..he is and was remarkable. My thoughts and prayers are with you Duffie family. See you again Anth!
Patty Duffie
September 13, 2007
Thank you everyone for all of your support with Anth's fundraiser. I know he was looking down on us and smiling that big, beautiful smile. Love each and everyone of you.
Patty
Jarett Duffie
September 11, 2007
The world was a better place with Anthony,now just feels hollow without my little brother.Bridget and I would like to thank you all for your support.
Marci Miller
September 8, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. Anthony came to visit us with Ruth and Erica a few summers ago. I will never forget him. He was just as funny, charming, and adorable as he could be. Rest in peace Anth.
John Crawford
September 7, 2007
Jarret and family,
i am so sorry for your loss, I too have recently lost my little brother. You need to be strong for your family and for your self. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Call me anytime Im right down the street.
Erica Volkman
September 7, 2007
Words cannot describe how empty and lost I feel without Anth. I just thank God for the time I got to share with him, and all the laughs and smiles he brought to my face.
Anth's Family, If I can do anything for you, please just let me know and I'll be there.
Krista Bosiljevac
September 6, 2007
Patty and family,
I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Anthony was a great friend, who always knew how to make me laugh. He will be missed.
Love,
Krista
Dianne Manna
September 6, 2007
Pattie, Tony and Jarett,
My heart aches for you at this difficult time. I can not find the words to express my sympathy for all of you. Please know that I will keep you and Anthony in my prayers.
Kala Williamson
September 6, 2007
Duffie,
I will miss you and your laugh. We always had fun. Your family is in my prayers.
Love always,
Kala
Elizabeth Mastele
September 6, 2007
HE was loved by so many. he is the greatest person i have ever know. he will be missed. i love him so much.
PAT COSS
September 6, 2007
ANTHONY WAS A NEIGHBOR OF MINE. I DIDN'T KNOW HIM VERY WELL, BUT HE WAS ALWAYS SO NICE TO ME AND MY FAMILY. JUST LAST WEEK HE GAVE ME A HAND DOWN IN THE BASEMENT. ANTHONY ALWAYS REMINDED ME OF MY OWN SON. WE WILL NEVER FORGET HIM. MAY HE REST IN PEACE!
WITH DEEPEST SYMPATHY,
PAT & BUTCH COSS
APT. 2
Russ and Vera Marx
September 6, 2007
You were so close to our son John, we loved you like a son to! We love and miss you, until we see you again
Melissa Stanko
September 6, 2007
I can't believe I just seen you a week ago and now I won't be able to bump into you at the Dory! Anth you were like a big brother to me Prob. more than John was. I'm going to miss you so much and I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers! Love and Miss you!
Ron & Marianne McCloskey
September 5, 2007
Dear Anthony,
We will miss watching hockey, playing Guitar Hero and cooking out with you. Mighty and Bits are certainly going to miss you, too. We wish you well on your journey for peace.
Sheena Mundie
September 5, 2007
It's unbelievable that I just ran into you a few weeks ago. I'll miss you and keep your family in my prayers. I'll never forget all the highschool memories! You always kept me laughing
Sheena
September 5, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Lynn Mervis
September 4, 2007
Patti,
My heart hurts for you and your family. I can only pray that the memories you and your family has and shares can lighten the pain. My love is with you.
Barb Bracco
September 4, 2007
I will miss you Anthony. I had so much fun hanging out with you at the rusty dory on wing night. Casey and I always enjoyed your company! Your smile can light up a room and you always made me smile. You will be missed!! My thoughts and prayers go out to your family and friends at this time.
Karen Krummert
September 4, 2007
Patty and family,
All our hearts here at Northland are saddened. He will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Doctors and Staff @ Northland
Patty Duffie
September 4, 2007
It will never be easy not seeing my son's beautiful face again, but the outpouring of love and memories helps my heart. Please don't ever forget my Anthony. He touched so many. Even though he is not here with us, he is at peace and I know that someday he will be waiting for me with open arms and that huge smile, welcoming me home.
Tree
September 4, 2007
Pattie and Tony,
My heart goes out to you and your family in this time of sorrow. I'm sorry I can't be there but you are in my thoughts and prayer.
julianne
September 3, 2007
you will always be missed and loved! ill never forget your happy laugh!
love always,
D.J. Mary
September 3, 2007
I'm gonna miss chatting with you at the dory on all of those karaoke nights.. I can still see you perched beside me on the stool making me laugh & smile :)
I'll miss singing the "love Shack" with you that was a blast
I believe we all come to meet again.... until then "Peace Out" my friend
judy linden & family
September 3, 2007
Patty and family, So sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers.
ANN LEITSCH
September 3, 2007
BRIDGET AND JARETT IAM SO SORRY OF YOUR LOSS OF A GREAT BROTHER AND FRIEND LOVE AUNT ANN
Kathy Scheidlmeier and Family
September 3, 2007
Patty and Tony,
We are so sorry to hear about your son. There is no greater sorrow. You will both be in our prayers.
Harry and Terrie Watts
September 3, 2007
Those beautiful eyes will be stars in the sky. God bless all of you!
Ruth Twyman
September 3, 2007
Dutchie,
You will be missed forever...
Ruth and Ty
Linda mistelske
September 3, 2007
Tony,Patty And Family
You have our deepest sympathy.So sorry to hear of your loss.
Ray and Linda
Mistelske
Marlene Schnorr
September 3, 2007
Pattie & Tony,
Words cannot express the loss of your son. You have our deepest sympathy.
All Our Love,
Marlene & Terry
Raymond and Candice Redshaw
September 3, 2007
You were a great friend that was taken too soon. You will be greatly missed.
Uncle Paul, Aunt Toni, Thomas and Gianna Reed
September 3, 2007
This is such a tragedy. Anthony will be missed by all. We will always remember that great smile and those gorgeous curls. You are with Pappy now, and he will take care of you.
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