Lillian Grace Ludwig
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January 12, 2010
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Lillian Grace Ludwig
Lisa Gagnon
February 10, 2009
Jim and Melissa-
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. If you need anything please let us know. Love, Dean and Lisa Gagnon
Jill Spight (Dehn)
January 24, 2009
Jim and Melissa,
I am so sorry for your loss. Being in Idaho; I don't get all of the news quick out here. I can't imagine the pain you are going through right now. Be there for each other as you go through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
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A Mom in Apple Valley
January 23, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you. God Bless.
Marc, Nancy, TJ, & Ellie Fasching
January 22, 2009
Jim and Melissa,
Our prayers are with you both at this sad time. We will always remember those big, bright eyes. Lillian is the little angel of our family. May the peace knowing she will never feel pain comfort you at this difficult time. We are always here for you. Peace and love.
Bonnie Fryman Pullis
January 21, 2009
Dear Melissa and Jim,
I am terribly sorry to hear the news of your baby girl. I cannot imagine any greater pain than what you're feeling. I pray that you will find peace and strength in each other and with the beautiful memories of your daughter.
Glen Hausfeld
January 21, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Evalyn's Mom
January 21, 2009
My heart hurts for you so much. I know your pain.
Jill, Craig, & Jake Whaley
January 20, 2009
There is no greater love than that of parents and a child. Our thoughts and prayers for you and your families is to hold that love in your hearts, and may it give you strength to get through this most difficult time. And with time, may it bring you peace.
Becky Krause, Becky H Guentzel, Beth Sachau
January 20, 2009
Those of us at Mankato Schools ECSE program in the St. John's building, extend our deepest condolences as you begin your days without your precious Lilly. Her picture was absolutely beautiful and we're sure that she was a bright, though far too brief, light in your lives. May God and family draw close to you in the coming days, weeks and months.
Terry Anderson
January 20, 2009
I want to just say I'm sorry about the death of your beautiful baby. I also am a Mother that lost a daughter to SIDS and just want you to know that you are not alone in your grief. If you feel the need to talk to another Mom who has experienced the same ,you can email me.
Leah Almond
January 19, 2009
Jim & Melissa -
Lillian was an angel on earth and is now your guardian angel in heaven. I pray God brings you strength and courage during this difficult time.
Amy Strunk
January 19, 2009
You may not know me, but I am neighbors of Trina & Jamie Wambach. When they told me of the loss of your Angel, it brought me back to 2000 when I lost my son also at the age of 3 months to SIDS. I am here to let you know that you are not alone. There are indivuals out there that truely know what you are going through and are praying that some of the pain & numbness goes away for you. Be strong and hold onto each other. Know that Lilly is up there watching you and is ALWAYS with you!! Feel free to contact me through Trina if you need to talk to a mom who is a part of that group no one want to be a part of.... SIDS.
Marilyn Jones
January 19, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your precious baby Lilly. I got the chance to meet her at the wedding of my son Nick Jones and Julia Lugwig. The picture I will carry of her in my mind is Barb carrying her around that day. My prayers are with your family.
A mom
January 19, 2009
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Courtney & Brad Schaan
January 19, 2009
Jim & Melissa,
We are So sorry to hear about Lilly. It was so nice to meet her at the New Years Eve Party.. She sure did light up the room. Our thought and Prayers are with you during this difficult time. Keep your memories of her close to your heart.
Take Care & God Bless,
Jeff Easley
January 19, 2009
Jim& Melissa,
Again,my sincere condolences at your devastating loss...
Steve, Amy, Loralei, & Amanda Larson
January 19, 2009
Jim & Melissa,
We're very saddened for your loss. There are no words that can make your pain any less. You're in our thoughts and prayers. May you provide each other the strength to get through this pain and learn to live again.
Brenda Partington-McGath
January 19, 2009
Jim & Melissa,
I am so sorry for your loss. Take comfort in knowing that many have you in their prayers and that someday you will be with Lillian again.
a mom
January 19, 2009
I was reading the paper yesterday AM and ran across Lillian. What a beautiful little girl. Her smile so big! Just remember that face and her smiling down to you.
Being a mom, I can not imagine your pain and wondering why?? Life is short: even though, days seem long. Lillian is with all of the little boys and girls up in heaven watching down at you. Talk to her everyday she will let you know that she is listening.
God speed.
a crying mom at work
Joe Bruening
January 19, 2009
I am so sorry for your tradgedy. Please know that God has a reason for everything - and we may never know his full plan until we are with him again. I have no doubt that Lillian is sitting with Jesus, a smile on her face, concerned about you and looking forward to being with you you again.
Dawn (Hoechst) Hengel
January 19, 2009
Melissa & Jim~
Our deepest thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time. My Mom forwarded some pics taken the night before of beautiful Lillian. We know you will hold those memories close to your heart forever.
John, Dawn (Hoechst), Erica & Josh Hengel
Lisa Gardas
January 19, 2009
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Words cannot express how my heart breaks for you. Know how loved you are and your angel will forever be with you in your heart.
joan schut
January 19, 2009
May Lillian's heavenly mother,Mary,rock her to sleep with angels surrounding her. Peace be with all members of her family. Take good care.
Susan Misukanis
January 18, 2009
Jim & Melissa,
Seeing the video and photos of beautiful Lillian today, sang songs from heaven of the exquisite gift this little flower was to our world.
May peace and happiness again one day be yours.
Judy Ludwig
January 18, 2009
Melissa and Jim,
The loss of your beautiful baby girl has stirred the memories of 23 yrs ago for me. I feel your pain and wish I could ease it. I am here to say that the loss of a child is unbearable, but eventually you will smile again, without ever forgetting her.
Trina Wambach
January 18, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this time. What an angel your daugther is...may she rest in Jesus' arms.
~Trina, Jaime & Livia Wambach
Kristin Carlson
January 18, 2009
Melissa & Family-
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Our hearts truly break for you!
My sister & brother-in-law also lost their youngest in 2008. They have found much support in the community. They live in Fridley, so if you need any info, please let me know.
Ed Burns
January 18, 2009
We have never met, but I share your sorrow at the death of your little angel, Lillian.
A Dad and Grandfather From Anoka
Amy and Jason Stenman
January 18, 2009
Jim and Melissa,
We are so sorry to hear about Lily, we are heartbroken. I feel so blessed to have met her on New Year's Eve, what a beautiful soul. I like to think you now have a special little angel watching over you. Our prayers are with you both.
Zachary Krueger
January 18, 2009
Cousin Jim and Melissa,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you. Your sadness and grief must be unbearable. I'm deeply sorry for your loss, I hope you are able to find comfort during this tragic time. God Bless.
Joseph & Patricia Valentine
January 18, 2009
Dear Melissa, Jim & Barbara
We were saddened to hear about your precious Lily. May it comfort you to know that Great Aunt Sophie & Great Uncle Stanley were there ready with open arms to welcome your Sweet Angel Home. You will be in Our Thoughts and Prayers at this difficult time.
With Love & Prayers,
Joe & Patty Valentine & Family
Lisa Nicklay-Swanson
January 18, 2009
Jim and Melissa,
Words can not convey how sad and sorry I am about your loss. I will be thinking of you and of Lilly in the following days and weeks. God has a precious new girl in his arms now.
Gwen Jorgens
January 18, 2009
Melissa and Jim-
My heart breaks for you for your loss of little Lillian. I wish you peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Eric & Lara Forstrom
January 18, 2009
The smiles of all young children light up a room. Few children however have the kind of smile that Lillian had that somehow seemed even more brilliant. Her countenance will further brighten Heaven. You honor us by sharing her short life but more important you honor her. You will remain in our prayers. God bless.
Stan, Angela and Chris Barosky
January 18, 2009
Dear Jim and Melissa,
Our thoughts, prayers and hearts go out to you both. We can not imagine your grief. Our Lord does things for a reason and we must not ask why. Angel Lily is at peace now. You will all remain in our hearts for a long time.
Our deepest sympathies to you.
Amy Paape
January 18, 2009
Jim and Melissa,
Our thoughts and Prayers go out to you both more than I can even put into words..I am sorry to hear about your loss.
God Bless..
Amy Paape
January 18, 2009
My heart aches for you. As a new mom to a 10 week old, my biggest fear is your nightmare and I hope that you can find peace and strength in knowing that your precious girl is looking down on you and that you will see her again. My prayers are with you and hopefully family and lots of love can lead you through this very dark time. God bless.
Lynne, post office
January 18, 2009
Jim and Melissa,
Sorry to hear of little Lily's passing. The Lord certainly works in mysterious ways. Someday we will all understand. For now just know that prayers and thoughts are with you both and this sad, sad time. Let the Lord comfortfort you, knowing that Lily is at peace with the Lord. May peace be with you, cherish those three months inwhich you had with baby Lily!!
Chari, David, Maesa & Cade Stickney
January 18, 2009
Melissa and Jim - I'm trying to find the right words...I know Lilly is in a wonderful place but it's so hard to believe that she is gone. Cade and Maesa will plant a tree this spring and we will plant lilly's all around it...as much as we can fit. This will be Lilly's tree so Cade and Maesa will never forget her and can watch it grow. Cade told me this morning that when he gets bigger he will take the van and go and bring Lilly back. We will all miss her and we will never forget her short time here. I will remember her smiling face on New Year's Eve and all the joy she brought you. Please be there for each other and always know that I am only a few steps away. We care for you both very much!
Tom & Carolyn Krueger
January 18, 2009
You are in our prayers daily. Even though we live so far away in Alaska, in God we can be so close with our prayers!!
All Our Love and on Going Prayers!
Jodi Fetter (Haremza)
January 18, 2009
Dear Jim and Melissa,
Our hearts are deeply saddened to learn about your precious Lillian's passing. God's blessings to you all during this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful Lillian.
-Jodi Fetter (Haremza), Hailey and Chad
Amie (Ludwig), Nate and Owen Grove
January 18, 2009
Jim and Melissa -
Nate and I would like to take this time to tell you, you have not left our minds since the day we heard of the news. We pray for you that God will bestow his healing grace upon you and that you will find comfort Lily is with him in paradise. In Lily's life, you showed her the greatest love she could possibly ever know. That will live with her forever.
All our love...
Dennis and Regina Jorgensen
January 18, 2009
Jim and Melissa: Though we haven't kept in touch please know our thoughts and prayers are with you throughout this difficult time.
Jackie Ludwig
January 18, 2009
Jim and Melissa,
Our hearts ache for the loss of Lily. No words can explain. We love her so. We love both of you so much too. And we are here to help you through this tragic time. SHe is our angel in heaven. Love, Paul, Jackie, Caleb and Gabriel
Kathy Britten
January 18, 2009
Ludwig and Krueger families,
Keep your happy memories of your little angel, Lillian, close to your heart and may those memories and the love and support from family and friends help you through this most difficult time.
You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
A Mom & Grandma
January 18, 2009
I want to extend my sympathy to your family. Even though I do not know you I was so saddened by the passing of your little Angel. I have a 2 month old grandson and cannot imagine how I would deal with losing him. I guess you just have to rely on those around you that love you and accept the love of those that just want to reach out and support you even if we do not know you. There never will be words to take away the pain.....just happy memories to put in place of sadness. Your little girl chose you as her parents because she knew how strong and loving you are. Honor her each day by sharing your love and strength.
Shellee Hague
January 18, 2009
Melissa and Jim,
Our prayers are with you. It is amazing to see how many lives that Lillian has touched in this short time. You were great parents. Take care of each other. Jaden says "I miss my Lillibells" and from Jace, "I'm sad that Lilli died at such a young age and I will miss her."
Love, John, Shellee, Jace, and Jaden
Trent & Diana Spurgeon
January 18, 2009
Jim and Melissa,
I can think of no words to describe our feelings other than to say we are so, so sorry. Your happy, beautiful baby girl brought joy to you and smiles to us all. I will truly miss our late night discussions Jim. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Chad, Heidi, Marcus & Justin LaMeyer
January 18, 2009
Dear Ludwig family,
As I read about your sweet Lillian Grace, my mind and heart goes to where you are. Words are not adequate, I know this too well, as we lost our precious daughter Hailee Marie this past August suddenly after a short illness. She was 11 years old. Although I know too well that words cannot provide much help during this time, I think that prayers do. Many are praying for you, allow those prayers to enter you heart and ward off bad thoughts. If I might offer one other suggestion... keep talking about sweet Lillian, every day.. even if you think people are tired of hearing you talk.... bring her with you where you go and never leave her behind. She is yours, always. With sincere sympathy,
The family of Hailee LaMeyer
John, Rindy, Riley, Sammie & Sydney Zgutowicz
January 17, 2009
Jim and Melissa,
So sorry you have to go through this, I can't even imagine what you are going through right now. Your loss is felt by all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Sara Hodgeman and Dustin Floyd
January 17, 2009
I cannot even imagine what you could be going through at such a difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Ryan, Tara, Parker & Paige (Claude) Viaene
January 17, 2009
Jim & Meilissa,
There are no words. I can't even begin to imagine the heatache you are going through at this time. Life is so precious and can be taken away so quickly. Lillian Grace had such wonderful parents in the both of you that she was able to experience such love in such a short time. God has a wonderful/adorable litle angel up in heaven. I'm so sorry for you loss! I will contunie to pray for you that you may find peace.
With Love,
Emily Lynn New Beginnings
January 17, 2009
Jim and Melissa,
To hear the deepest sadness and pain in your voice made me instantly bow my head in prayer for you. I pray for comfort, strength, endurance, hope and a guard against resent, anger, guilt and separation during this time. I can sense the love and compassion you both posses. Use that to bond together to get through this! Lillian Grace you will have the honor of holding again...and in the meantime, you carry a very special part of each other! God Bless! The entire spa sends their condolences!!!
Yax and family
January 17, 2009
Melissa and Jim-
We were so deeply saddened to hear; many hearts were breaking alongside yours. Jim's words about the time you both were given with Lillian were nothing short of incredible. May God's strength and that of so many around you continue to lift your hearts and those of your family through the days ahead. Lillian was precious and loved and will be forever. She was blessed to have been carried by the selfless love you both shared for her.
Paula Billings
January 17, 2009
Melissa and Jim
I am sadden to hear about Lillian. You are in our prayers at this difficult time. Remember all the precious moments and times that you have shared with Lillian. She is with God. God Bless!
Paula (Marsh), Jerad and Jacob Billings
Kathy Peterman
January 17, 2009
Melissa and Jim,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May the love of God sustain you. May the love of your friends and family strengthen you. May the love of Lillian Grace bring you hope.
Love, Kathy, Adrianne, and Morganne Peterman
greg krueger
January 17, 2009
she is are angel forever and ever
Bernie & Linda Decaire
January 16, 2009
Our deepest sympathy and condolences. Everyone at Circle T Park send their love and prayers. God Bless
Bernie & Linda Decaire
Tammi (Sippel) Leppla
January 16, 2009
Dear Melissa and Jim,
Just a few short month ago I smiled at the pictures I was forwarded of Melissa in the hospital with sweet little Lillian Grace. I knew she had a heart as kind and precious as that of her mother and was so blessed to be welcomed into such a loving family. Today, as I got the news, my eyes filled up with tears for the unthinkable pain that you must be going through... I want you to know that SO MANY PEOPLE are storming the heavens with prayers for you...no words can express how sincere and deep my sympathy runs...may God's unwavering love somehow help you through this most difficult of times...
With love and sympathy,
Karen Kam
January 16, 2009
Melissa & Jim- I was so saddened to hear about the loss of your little girl. Please know I have you in my thoughts and prayers.
Karen Kamnikar
Wells Fargo
Tom & Jeannie Haremza
January 16, 2009
Dear Jim & Melissa, We are so sorry for the loss of your little girl. It is so tragic. Just know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sorrowful time. Love, Tom & Jeannie
Kristi McNamara
January 16, 2009
Jim & Melissa,
My deepest sympathy and condolences to you both. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
January 16, 2009
Jim & Melissa,
We were saddened to learn of the death of Lillian Grace. Our hearts ache for your loss. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers, and in time may you find peace.
Wayne Page & Ann Barlament
Tara and Mike Becker
January 16, 2009
Melissa and Jim,
My heart is aching for you during this most tragic time. I keep asking myself why this would happen to someone so young, precious and innocent. Please know that my prayers are with you and your family. God is now holding your beautiful Lillian in his palm. Remember all of those precious memories with her. I pray that will help you in this time of need.
Kirk Monger
January 16, 2009
Jim and Melissa
I can't comprehend what you're going through and I am sorry for your loss. I will continue to pray for God to help you through this.
"Never will I leave you: never will I forsake you." Hebrews 13:5
Lisa Prasky
January 16, 2009
Jim & Melissa,
It is with great sadness that I write this e-mail! There is no greater loss that than of a child, especially one so young. Hold close to your heart all the memories of Lillian's short life and take comfort in knowing that your precious Angel is looking down on you from Heaven. Andy & I lost our precious daughter, Emily, before she could take a single breath. We feel your pain and are here for support if ever needed. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Take Care. . .Lisa & Andy Prasky
John & Kristen Shane Shane
January 16, 2009
Jim and Melissa,
Kristen and I are profoundly saddened by the sudden passing of Lillian Grace. Take comfort that she was loved and touched so many people in her short life. Her spirit will be with you always.
Jeremy Kurth
January 16, 2009
Hello Jim and Melissa,
Our heart, soul, and prayers go out to you and your family during this most difficult time. I can't imagine how you must feel. God works in mysterious wonders and has a path for us all, we just don't know what the path is or where it leads. Last year my brother and his wife lost their baby at birth and as I close my eyes to pray I imagine Lillian Grace and Haylea Nicole playing together in heaven. God's Peace,
Jeremy, Angela, Aliyah, Madilyn Kurth
Susan Wachowski
January 16, 2009
Jim and Melissa,
My heart aches for you both. My family and I hold you and Lillian close in our thoughts and prayers. The pictures you sent were so joyful and sweet, and that is how Lillian will be remembered always.
Paul Kiefer
January 16, 2009
Jim and Melissa,
You are in our thoughts and prayers through this very difficult time. With sincere sympathy, Paul and Terri Kiefer
Anne Kern, M.D.
January 16, 2009
Melissa,
It was with such profound sadness that I received word of the loss of your infant daughter. It was my great privilege to watch her grow within you and be born into such a welcoming family. You were a beautiful and loving mother to your daughter during her short life. Wishing you strength -
Tom Ludwig
January 16, 2009
Jim and Melissa,
My family and I wish to express our deep sorrow at your loss. Your beautiful little angel will be with God for all eternity.
( Jim's godfather )
Centerville Mom
January 16, 2009
I'm sorry for your great loss. I'm sure you are in considerable distress and find it difficult to make your way through each day. Please know that strangers, like me, are here to send our prayers to you and your sweet little baby girl. What a beautiful name you blessed her with! God bless you during this difficult time.
Jerry & Patti Born
January 16, 2009
Jim and Melissa we are so sad to hear of baby Lillian Grace's passing. God bless you with peace.
Dinesh NS
January 16, 2009
In this grief time, May god gives you enough strength to pass this period. Please accept my condolences.
Amy Lokken
January 16, 2009
Dear Ludwig Family, I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your little angel. I could not imagine what you are all going through. I am sorry for your pain. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
With Love,
Amy (Greshwalk) Lokken - Patty's Daughter
Tiffany Rocha & Luke Landkammer
January 16, 2009
Words can't describe how sad we are for you and your loss. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sandra Garrity
January 16, 2009
My deepest sympathies to you at this sad time. I am so sorry for your loss of your dear little Lillian.
You are in my thoughts.
Kim Rud
January 16, 2009
Melissa and Jim -
Sending you my condolences.
Kim Rud (Sonnek)
Tom and Paulette's niece
David Herpers
January 16, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Susan and Brian Hyvare
January 16, 2009
James and Melissa,
We are so, so sorry. You and the whole family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Joan Kappenman
January 16, 2009
To Barb, (paternal grandmother) the mother, father and your family:
I work with Barb at HC and I was very saddened to hear of your little angels passing. We try with our hearts and minds to understand why these kinds of things happen and ask god to help us during the healing process. Your memories will carry you far, and knowing she will always be in your hearts I pray will help ease your pain. My sincere condolences to the mother and father during this very, very difficult time. God Bless,
L M
January 16, 2009
Your pain in unthinkable, my heart, prayers and love are with you. Lillian was an angel and will forever be in our hearts.
Colleen Patterson
January 16, 2009
Kathy, Barb & Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Lily's passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this painful time.
carol
January 16, 2009
My heart is with you - I can not know your pain. However I care.
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