John Surles Obituary
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kelsey shepard
March 3, 2011
I Love you! And I miss you up here and at camp!
Forever and always<3
Beth Young
March 1, 2011
Rest in Peace my Bobby. You always will be ones of my "sons" forever.
Love Mama Beth
m<3
January 28, 2011
one year today. this is seriously the worst i have ever felt besides the night i found out you didn't make it. i miss you more than anything, love. i know you're causing hell up there. stay safe for me and always know that i love you with all my heart. no matter what happens, you'll always be my brother.<3
m<3
January 19, 2011
i can't believe it's almost been a year since you've been gone. it doesn't even feel like it. i miss you more than anything bobby.<3
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D Bear
January 12, 2011
man the other day when i was at work you were truly in my thoughts man. i couldnt help but smile thinkin about everytime u seen me u would always run up to me with that sidewayz grin an say OL DREWBEAR! damn i miss ya kid
Jessi <3
December 23, 2010
I cant believe its been almost a year already. We miss you like crazy, bro. When Ben, Aaron and I went to macdonalds the other day, I ordered a McChicken without even realizing it, untill i got it. Must have been for you ;) you always got me to buy you one. I'm convinced that you were with us that day. For that, and many other reasons. I know you've got our backs. Love ya mann </3
Alex McBlazin
October 15, 2010
I miss you more than anything. Rest easy homie!
October 6, 2010
i talked about you a lot yesterday. for some reason it was so much harder than any other day.
i miss your smile.
and i miss you.
i would give anything to have you back here with me. with all of the people who cared for you.
i hope you're doing okay.
i'll see you soon.
October 5, 2010
lately things haven't been so easy. i miss you singing to me and telling me everything is going to be okay. i need you a lot right now.
love you, big brother<3
m<3
October 1, 2010
i miss you so much. i think about you everyday<3 rest easy, sweetie.
Cody G
September 30, 2010
Bobby, you were one of the only people to call me gawdy, now its only k fo in miguel. I miss you man, the skatepark this year was not even close to being the same without you there to terrorise everyone. I feel like its not even true, even though its been half a year, i feel if i were to call mikie youd be on the other end of the phone with him. your a hero Bobby. You made an impact on so many people.
brittany harvey
June 2, 2010
i'll never forget chillen @ ur house, every mornin, just chillen. rest easy bobby.
k
May 27, 2010
still doesn't seem real. you're amazing. we all miss you.
i love you.
Elizabeth Young
May 10, 2010
Happy Birthday a day late to my adopted son Bobby. I miss you every day and I send a prayer for you every nite.
Love Mama Beth
oliver
May 9, 2010
we love you bobby, happy birthday man.
rest easy.<3
April 14, 2010
- bobby, we miss you<3
March 24, 2010
john i love you man. i dont know how we are all going to go on without you. i feel like your still here. i cant sleep at night your always on my mind. i miss you man. and i love you bro
Kaylee
March 3, 2010
Bobby was an incredible person, and he will never be forgotten.
WE MISS YOU!
Kristen S
February 15, 2010
I Have known bobby for awhile, hadnt talked latley, but he was always there for his friends when they needed him, he was an amazing kid who was taken to early.
My condolences go out to his faily and friends.
Love you Bobby
destinee
February 12, 2010
i love you john.
February 10, 2010
rest in peace--- with the great spirit
nam - myoho - renge - kyo
i love you
February 10, 2010
- bobby.
I didn't know you very well but you seemed like a pretty chill guy. everyone misses you, we love you bobby .
Jacob Devoe
February 9, 2010
John was a hero to many and a very good friend too, taken way too soon and we will all miss him. I will continue to pray for your family in there time of great sadness
shirley mitchell
February 8, 2010
To the family of Lil John,my deepest sympathy to you all.I know what u are going through,as you know,I buried my son at 14 years old and it forever changes your life.You wonder at the senselessness of it and ask why?You find yourself looking for answers.Hold on to each other and to your faith.I remember John as a mischevious little boy,always trying to make everyone laugh.BUT oh,how he loved his family.When I used to take care of him I used to call him "Imp".HE used to laugh and tell me,'no,i'm not Damon is'.He was so full of energy and life and from what I've read about him he never lost that.My Prayers are with you all and if you ever need me call me.Remember that John is an Angel now in the Hall of Angels looking out for all of you now.In fondest memories,Shirley L.Mitchell&Family
A Friend
February 8, 2010
Wow, I can't believe how life can be taken away so quickly. John and I went to school together from 5th grade until my freshman year when I moved, he was always making everyone smile, he had a great sense of humor and was just all around fun to be around. In fact when i came back to bangor in 5th grade he was the first one in Mrs. B's class to say and to introduce themselves to me. He was and is a great kid and will be dearly missed by so many, I dont think he realized how much of an impact he has had on my life even though him and I eren't close. I am very sorry for your loss and may god be with you.
gregory Nadeau
February 6, 2010
Sat. Feb, 06, 2010,
Mary-Ann, Pa, Tammie,
I just wanted you all to know that you are all in my heart right now and I'm so sorry for you loss of Lil John. I could not believe it when I read it on thew front page of the Bangor Daily New's. I thought at first wow I know him. And WAM! It was I've been trying to get a hold of you guy's. I am SO SORRY. If there is anything I can Do Please Let Me Know? I've been here crying for awhile just thinking about all the laughter and funny stuff him and I talked about on the porch and how we had a lot of the same thing's going on in our lives but just in different times, I know for a Fact that No matter what was going on In His Life Even when he had his moment's that HE LOVED EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU FOR A SPECIAL REASON!, Mary-Ann For never giving up on him, Allen (Pa) For teaching him new thing's and how to be a better man than the next, & Tammie, for helping him to excecute his talent's on paper and a few other thing's as well. I will Always love and miss lil John and My heart will never forget him as long As I Live., I will also keep you all in my heart's and thought's as day's do go on.
Little John I Love & Miss U Buddy
J Gregory Nadeau,
May god be With You!
Lisa
February 6, 2010
Allen, Mary Ann, JJ, and Simone,
No one should have to do what you are doing today. My heart breaks for you all. Reading these posts shows you how many people he has touched in such a short amount of time. Remember all the good memories. He is now looking over you all in the best skate park that he has ever imagined.
February 5, 2010
Bobby was an amazing person with a beautiful spirit. He was courageous and brought life to everything around him. He will be desprately missed and to his family and friends my heart is with you all.
Wayne Richardson
February 5, 2010
I met John at his friends house in Bangor. John was a polite and interesting young man. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time
Auntie Marie and Sullivan Family
February 5, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Victoria Dore
February 4, 2010
I remember all the trouble we used to get into when we were kids and how you always protected me and took care of me, you made sure that nobody bothered or hurt me. Me you and Damon used to have so much fun together. I know we never really got to see much of each other after the family separated, but I thought about you all the time, there wasn’t a day that went by when I didn’t think about you or wonder how you were doing. Me and Damon are always reminiscing about all the stupid stuff we used to do. I remember whenever there was candy or food downstairs, we would wait until everybody went to be then wake Damon up in the middle of the night and talk him into going downstairs and stealing candy for us. And then we would only give him a little bit and we would eat the rest. And whenever you came down to visit us, we were always wrestling, and dad, Nana, an Pa used to get really irritated, Dad used to say “ whenever you put the three of them kids together they act like wild animals” he used to call it pack mentality.
John I love you so much and words cannot describe how much I miss you. I want you to know that your little sister loves you very much, and misses you greatly. And remember I will always be your little pork chop.
Krista Mallory-MacDonald
February 4, 2010
Allen, we are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Carrie and John
February 4, 2010
There aren't enough words to make it all okay. Just remember that time will help heal the pain. Revel in his memory. Keep his laughter alive each day. The heavens are a bit brighter tonight beacause of him. You now have a guardian angel for each shoulder.
Stefanson & Linda Dore
February 4, 2010
Simone, Frannie & Clive and Family,
We are so sorry for your lost of Little John. May the many memories of him substain you till the day you all meet again.
February 4, 2010
To Simone and Families:Sending our prayers and condolences to all on such a very sad and tragic loss.Our"Little John" will always be in our hearts and be remembered for his contagious smile and willingness to lend a helping hand. God bless and we will be thinking of you all. Love Auntie Jan and Dave. Wasilla, Alaska
Susan Baron
February 4, 2010
Bobbie, I'm trying to get my contact info on here so you can get a hold of me. Hang in there sweetie! Send my love to Hillary and little Brian and your mom and Allen. I miss you babe! I wanted to let you know that I won't be able to get to Bangor for the service on saturday. I feel really bad about it but I will explain it to you when we talk, ok? Again, I am so sorry for the loss of your nephew. Call me, I'm in information and my husband's name is Norm. Talk to you soon love!
Bangor
February 4, 2010
Bobby will be missed indefinitely, his impact on us was immeasurable and unforgettable. I cherish the time i spent with him. May he be remembered for his charm and charisma that touched so many. R.I.P. bobby, i miss you already.
February 3, 2010
Mary Ann, Allen, JJ, Simone and families, I'm so very sorry for you loss. Ronnie and I are thinking of you all during this difficult time. May peace be with you...love Peggy & Ronnie
peace and love.
February 3, 2010
Bobby, you are missed, terribly.
you have shattered our sheltered lives with reality that NO ONE is invincible. I used to see you everyday at the skate park. When you failed at a trick, you did it again, and again, and again, until you were satisfied. You were loyal to your friends, and they were loyal to you. I hope out of your death, there is celebration of your short, but amazing life. You have touched many people's hearts Bobby. And you will be forever missed, until hopefully one day, we can all say "hello" again. My condolences go out to your family and friends.
Mary and Robert Henrique
February 3, 2010
Allen, Mary Ann and Family
Words do not come easy at this time. Please know that we are here for you during and after this difficult time. You know where to find us if you need a shoulder or just to get away for a few. Our deepest sympathy to all of you.
Mary and Bobby "Beanie"
Susan Baron(Segien)
February 3, 2010
Bobbie, I have been trying to get a hold of you since last Thursday. I am so sorry honey! I have been thinking of you all week long. I need to know where you are and what number I can reach you at. I need to comfort my best friend. My email address is on here somewhere. If you have access to a computer, send me an email with your number. I miss you and love you very much! I know how much you loved little John. You used to have him all the time when we were younger. I am so sorry you, your mom amd the rest of the family has to go through this, again. Please know I am thinking of you all 24-7! Be strong even though it feels like you can't, ok? We will talk soon. I love you!
Susan Baron(Segien)
February 3, 2010
Maryann, Allen, JJ, Simone & families; I cannot express how sorry I am. I haven't seen Little John since he was very little. Bobbie used to love babysitting her little nephew. I remember how full of energy he always was. I remember the time Bobbie and I had him down at Overlook Park one day over the 4th of July and he was running all over the place. Bobbie and I chased him around the entire time we were there. We were out of breathe but we had so much fun! What a handsome little man he turned out to be. I am so sorry your family has to go through such an enormous loss again. Please know that you are in my thoughts and although I don't usually pray, I will pray for you all.
February 3, 2010
LITTLE JOHN
MY LIFE WAS CHANGED 19 YEARS AGO WHEN YOU WERE BORN,I WAS IN LOVE WITH YOU THE MOMENT I LAYED EYES ON YOU. YOU HAVE MADE ME LAUGH AND ALSO MADE ME CRY. A WEEK AGO TODAY MY LIFE WAS AGAIN FOREVER CHANGED WHEN GOD CALLED YOU HOME. SORRY THAT I COULDNT PROTECT YOU THIS TIME BUT YOU HAVE WORK TO DO UP THERE AND I WILL SEE YOU AGAIN SOON. I WILL FOREVER LOVE YOU AND YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART. I MISS YOUR HANDSOME FACE AND THAT BEAUTIFUL SMILE. ALL MY LOVE XOXOXO MADRE
Jessica Merritt
February 3, 2010
I miss this kid so much. He truely was the sweetest person i ever met.I'm thankful for the time god gave me with him even though we couldn't make it last. May he forever rest in peace <3
February 3, 2010
Rip bobby and prayers to your family and friends. I didn't know you well i only knew you from my bf and when i went down to the skatepark but you were a good kid and will be missed by a lot of people. In Deepest Sympathy peace.
Jessica Grant
February 3, 2010
R.I.P John~BOBBY~Surles
I Don't really know you at all, but my bestfriends did the shooting which is sad..I heard about it a while ago but never thoguht my bestfriend would do that and i'm sorry for your family's lost of a young man you were.Sorry again
Kellie & Kodie G
February 3, 2010
To Bobbys family & friends. I dont know what to say other than I am so sorry for all the pain you are going through. I personally didnt know Bobby that well, but my son Kodie G did & thought the world of him, he was always so nice to him always helpful, Kodie spent alot of days talking skate with Bobby, he has alot of good memories of him. Bobby was always very polite, respectful & nothing but nice,Always had nice things to say about Kodie to me, cant believe he is gone. Kodie, as everyone that knew him cant understand why this happend & miss him so much. there will be a big such a void at the skatepark not seeing him there. just so sad for everyone.
Annie Apt-Brackett
February 2, 2010
To all of Johns' family, please accept my heartfelt condolences. My heart goes out to all of you on your loss of such a compassionate young man. I remember John when he was a lot younger. May your memories comfort you in your time of need.
February 2, 2010
To all of Johns' family, please accept my heartfelt condolences. My heart goes out to all of you on your loss of such a compassionate young man. I remember John when he was a lot younger. Sincerely, Annie Apt-Brackett
theresa watkins
February 2, 2010
I am so sorry about your loss and our prayers are with you all. my son eric kirschke loves him and missed him .he always made my son eric smile and laugh. eric has some good memories with bobby.
R.I.P. John Bobby Surles
Carolyn Hauser
February 2, 2010
To Maryann and families: My sincere condolences to you and your family.
February 2, 2010
To all of John's Family...
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Thinking of you all. Tim and Lisa DeMolet
Trish Brann
February 2, 2010
Simone, JJ, Maryann and Allen, the girls and I are so sorry for your loss. We have many memories of "Little John" from snowmobiling to hanging out at the farm house. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love to you all.
Janet Carter
February 2, 2010
I am so sorry about your los and our prayers are with you
February 2, 2010
words can't express how much my family will miss 'Lil'John. I have lived here for three months and got so close to John and I'm so thankful for those special memories i have of John and I sitting in the basement listening to music talking and just getting to know one another. Thank You to everyone that has wrote about John "Bobby" it means the world to us to know that he touch so many peoples lives.
R.I.P.
Lil John
Love Always
Auntie Bobbie
February 2, 2010
To MaryAnn, Allen and family what a sad thing for you all to have to go through this (again). My heart aches for all of you. I remember MaryAnn use to bring "little" John to the house when he was real young, what a handsome little boy he was.... just want you guys to know I'm thinking of you and love you lots. (hugs) (eeeeehhhhhh you'll laugh at that later) Sharon & Mark
DeAnna Grindle
February 2, 2010
Memories of you will always be in our hearts. I can't believe you're gone, but you will live on...And to Ben Hatfield and Pricilla, I am so sorry for your loss, I am always with you whether I'm here or there...and so is Karlee. My prayers and thoughts are with EVERYONE who has lost such a wonderful person...Rest In Peace Bobby
Valerie Pressley
February 2, 2010
To Johns Family: John was one of my sons best friends. I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you all
Kathy Segien-LePage
February 2, 2010
Dear Allen & Mary Ann and Families: I am so sorry for your loss, words cannot express, so please know you are in my heart and thoughts and prayers are being sent your way. All my love, Kathy Segien-LePage
Ms. Angela Khorll
February 2, 2010
To John's grandparents, parents, siblings, extended family, and to all of his friends:
In this time of immeasurable sadness and grief, may you find strength and peace in one another. May the sound of John's laughter resound in your ears even while the sadness weighs in your hearts.
What I loved most in John was his attitude that, no matter what, everything would be okay. He was able to smile and shrug off some of the challenges he faced in school. In my class, when he wrote and spoke, his words were powerful and rang of his true feelings.
He reminded me, as many of my students do, of how much our connections with others matter. Consider this quotation: "The most important things in life aren't things--they're people."
Please know that you are all held in thought and prayer. I am so sorry for your loss.
May you know peace and strength and love in these days and weeks to come.
Bethany Winnier
February 2, 2010
The bond our little circle had was a rare one. We have so many memories that I will always hold dear to my heart. You did some funny things... haha... You will NEVER be forgotten. I Love You. RIP.
From the start,
Bethany Winnier
February 2, 2010
I am sorry for your terrible loss. He was loved by so many, & will be missed. Prayers & thoughts go out to the families of Bobby. R.I.P.
Gracie Emmert-Farley Edmunds
February 2, 2010
you will be missed and this event has changed the lives of many. peace be with you and yours.
Mary Gebert
February 2, 2010
To Bobby's beloved family and friends, we are so saddened by your loss. He was a good friend to our own son and our "adopted" son's. We pray that seeing how many lives he touched and how many hearts loved him will bring you some measure of comfort.
What you are doing for the skatepark in Bobby's memory and name is a fantastic tribute to his passionate life and by this he will keep on giving to his friends. Let us know if you need any help with this remarkable gift.
May God be with you and Bobby always.
The Geberts
Pastor Dave Fox
February 2, 2010
Allen, MaryAnn and Family; in your heartache and pain, remember, you have friends who care. Your church family is praying for you.
Jill Taylor
February 2, 2010
John and Simone and Mary Ann and Allen:
I am going to miss the battle of wits "Bobby" and I had, at my aunt Priscilla's house. I'm so glad that my cousin, Ben, had a friend as true as John.
I'm thankful for one other thing, Bobby took the time to teach Jayden, my son, how to skateboard when he was about 4 or 5 years old. Jayden ADORED "Bobby".
Please know - and never forget - that we all love him more than yesterday and more tomorrow than we do today.
Bethany Winnier
February 2, 2010
Its unbelievable how quickly life goes by... We have so many memories and I will cherish them forever. I laugh when I think about how in 5th grade I spray painted your head silver... weird... lol... How you used to dress up in my clothes and parade around my apartment... hide in my shower or jump off the fire escape when You know who would show up looking to shut down the party. You were always the life of the party. You will be rememberd for your sense of humor. no doubt. WE... Ben, Brandon, Connie, Kara, you, and myself will always be best friends... even though we've all grown and gone our seprate ways... what we all had together is a rare connection between people and will always hold a place in my heart. I Love You. RIP.
love peace
February 2, 2010
r.i.p. bobby much love to your family, so sorry for your loss. truly sad.
February 2, 2010
You Will be greatly missed bobby. I know I didn't really know you but I do remember you in reading class freshman year and how you were the class clown. I'll miss you bobby. My prayers are with your family
February 2, 2010
Maryann,Allen,J.J,Simone,and Family, My heart aches for you all. He was a handsome and obviously loving boy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love, Sheila
February 2, 2010
You were an amazing kid..I'm going to miss you dearly bobby.. Love always Vanessa..
February 2, 2010
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Paul Lloyd(Viv and Don)
Tammie Raye
February 2, 2010
Lil John Auntie Tam Tam is gonna miss that handsome smile. I love the way he was always there to lend me a hand and to be protective over my home and Tyler and Devin. The boys thought of him as a brother and just idolized the ground he walked on. I hope you enjoy that half pike in the sky handsome. R.I.P. baby.
February 2, 2010
LITTLE JOHN WILL BE GREATLY MISSED. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THE FAMILY.
RONALD AND SHEILA SULLIVAN
Heather
February 2, 2010
so sad i hope everything get's better with time love to all
February 2, 2010
To John "Bobby" Surles family. We are thinking of you all and are so sorry for your loss. Such a young man to be taken away so soon.
Thoughts and Prayers
Patti & Gary Craig
February 2, 2010
Allen, Mary Anne, John and Bobbi our prayers and love are with you!
The Clukey's
Anonymous
February 2, 2010
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of "Bobby's" friends and family. Though I didn't know him personally one cannot help but feel great sadness at the loss of such a young man so unexpectedly. Remember the good times and that beautiful smile. He will still be looking out for you and protecting you all from Heaven. All of his friends should love and honor him with a clean slate. Move past this tragedy with grace and diginity the way "Bobby" would've had he had the chance. Fighting is senseless and his loss proves that beyond a doubt. Rest in Peace "Bobby"
Karry Ladd
February 2, 2010
My heart and prayers go out to this family. My son Zack knew Bobby, and has shared many fond memories of the times they shared at the skate park and hanging out. I'm saddened that this young man was stolen from us so soon. I pray everyone finds peace, and the violence ends here! God bless you all!
Karry Ladd
Heather Turner
February 2, 2010
R.I.P "little John"~
Vicki Watson
February 2, 2010
We didn't know you as well as others, but the few times we did meet you when our son R.J. brought you to our house, you were respectful, polite, not much else I can say except that any friend of our son's is a friend of ours and our condolences go out to his family, I am so so sorry for your lost couldn't ever imagine what you must be going through. Our prayers are with you! The Watson Family
Beth Young
February 2, 2010
Bobby was my son Nick Young best friend along with Ben he was at my house so much that he called me Mama Beth, We are praying for him every day. I miss my son Bobby and nick is broken heart over this. John "Bobby" Pleast rest in Peace and I know you are in heaven with nick's Grandmother who you thought was a cool old lady. Bobby I Love You and Miss You . Love Mama Beth
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