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Thomas White Obituary

WHITE, Thomas J. Born on March 10, 1920 in Cambridge, MA to Joseph F. White and Dorothy Aylward White. Survived by his wife Lois T. White of Auburndale, his seven children: Carol White of Carlisle, Denise White of Foxboro, Janice Fiske and her husband Arthur of Hingham, Peter White and his wife Joan of Westwood, Kevin White and his wife Eileen of Dover, Stephen White and his wife Melissa of Norwell and Christina White of Canton. He is also survived by 18 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren. Tom is also survived by Lois' 6 children Terry Tibbetts and her husband Joe of Scituate, Celia Judge and her husband Jim of Wayland, Vicki Wattendorf Mastaj of Westwood, George Wattendorf and his wife Sarah of Swampscott, Mary Sears and her husband Dave of Brimfield and Georgia Wattendorf Guiney of North Attleboro, 17 grandchildren and 3 great grandchildren. Predeceased by his brothers Joseph F. White Jr., John A. White and Robert P. White. He is survived by his sisters Margaret M. Casey of Duxbury and Mary E. Lyons of Walpole. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated in Saint Ignatius Loyola Church, 28 Commonwealth Ave., Newton (at Boston College) on Tuesday, Jan. 11th at 11:00am. Visiting hours will be held in the Robert J. Lawler and Crosby Funeral Home, 1803 Centre St, WEST ROXBURY, on Monday Jan. 10th from 2:00- 8:00pm. Relatives and friends are invited to attend. In lieu of flowers donations may be made in Tom's name to Partners in Health www.pih.org, P.O. Box 845578, Boston, MA 02284-5578. Lawler and Crosby Funeral Home www.lawlerfuneralhome.com 617-323-5600

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Published by Boston Globe from Jan. 8 to Jan. 10, 2011.

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Ann Guarente-Hunter

January 23, 2011

Lois, Celia and family
I feel blessed to have known Tom. He was a great man who cared deeply and gave so much.
He inspired me in many ways. I loved his stories and sense of humor. I loved the friendship he and my dad had for many years.
May all the happy memories and his legacy of love, faith, hope and charity make his passing less painful.
Gold Bless You

Michael, Kris and Cara Vanin

January 16, 2011

Dear Kevin, Eileen, Tom, Neil, Nick and Rebecca;

We were very sad to hear the news that Kevin’s Dad passed away. I know how important family is to the White’s and so you must have many, many fond memories of him.

We send our heartfelt sympathies and will keep you all in our prayers.

Kevin & Peter w/ Dad

Kevin White

January 13, 2011

Tom with kids and g-children @ Christmas 2007

Kevin White

January 13, 2011

June Gustafson

January 11, 2011

What a beacon of hope to so many people. Tom's wisdom and compassion will not be forgotten. Our family is blessed to have known him and our prayers are with you all.

January 11, 2011

Dear White Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you experience the loss of this uniquely caring and compassionate man. A parent's passing is never easy, reagrdless of how long or how well he has lived his life, and we send you our best wishes and deepest sympathies.
God Bless You,
Joe, Amy, and Andrew Malone

January 10, 2011

Dear Georgia and family,

I am so sorry for your loss, and you and your family will be in my prayers.
Georgia - I have such fond memories of our summer friendship in Cotuit, and I would like to extend my sympathy -

Suzanne

Linda Milano

January 10, 2011

Peter, Joan and your beautiful family,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your father/grandfather. He was a great man, whose reputation for kindness and generosity is renowned. The world is a better place because he was in it. You must be so proud of him.
Yours truly,
Vinnie and Linda Milano

Gina Alongi

January 10, 2011

To the White Family

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mark Eaton

January 10, 2011

I am so sorry for youn loss...I had the pleasure of driving Tom and Lois while working for K.O.N. Limosine in Osterville...I have spoken of Mr. White many times to my students and have shown them a copy of a C.D. given to me by Tom when he was a guest on Oprah Winfrey... I am honored to have met him and will keep his memory alive in my classroom in Townsend, Mass...God Speed , Tom...Mark A. Eaton

John Davagian

January 10, 2011

To the White Family,

My deepest sympathies on Tom's passing.

Jean Sullivan Greer

January 10, 2011

To Mrs. White Carol,Terry, and families. I want to express my heartfelt sympathy. In reading about Mr.WhiteI was awestruck of one man did for so many.May we all learn by his selfless example.Peace and love to you all.

Erin Streeter Orpik

January 10, 2011

Hailey, Carol, and Peter: I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire White family.

Stephanie Elliott

January 10, 2011

To the White Family,

You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

With my deepest sympathy.

Ruth Andrews

January 10, 2011

My most heartfelt sympathy to the family of Mr. Thomas White.

A special posthumous thank you to Mr. White himself for his compassionate considerations for the parishes of what is now the new Saint Katherine Drexel, formerly known as St. Francis De Sales-St. Philip, and St. John-St. Hugh parishes, Roxbury

May God bless his soul, and provide the family with many good memories to keep him alive in your minds and of course your hearts.

Frank French

January 10, 2011

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.Tom did it his way and we shall all have learned from his unselfishness.Not only the Boston Business community, but the world has lost one of a kind.Deepest sympathy, Frank French and Family

Domenic Nicotera

January 10, 2011

To Peter, Steven and the White family;

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours on the loss of your father Tom.

Domenic nicotera and family

Kevin OMalley

January 10, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May the happy memories of good times in Newton and Scituate comfort you in your grief.

William French

January 10, 2011

To The White Family,

Please accept our deepest condolences.

You have been and will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.

The French Family

karen cragnolin

January 9, 2011

Too everyone invloved - our best wishes and condolences, Karen and Bob Cragnolin, Asheville, NC

Kevin and Dee Kirk

January 9, 2011

To the White Family:

May you take comfort knowing that you are all in the thoughts and prayers of so many at this time.

With our deepest sympathy,

Kevin and Dee Kirk

Donald R. Foley

January 9, 2011

At a time like this one reflects on the wonderful times the Whites and the Foleys enjoyed together in Boston--from weekend skating at the B.C. rink to the annual bus ride at Christmas to see the lights around town and Santa at Jordan Marsh. Tom was a major factor as we built the gym at the Country Day School in Newton. We reminisced last winter in Jupiter--and we were both glad to be together again. We Foleys admired him and his great work in helping others. We will miss him--we loved him. He was a special friend. May God Bless him in eternity.

Marie and Don Foley and family

January 9, 2011

To the entire White Family

We have lost one of the greatest individuals that God placed on this earth.To know Tom White was a pleasure beyond comprehension.His compassion and warmth to all types of people was unsurpassed.His work with the poor around the world to assist them with health issues is legendery.My family and I will miss him greatly. I loved him like a father. God has received a great champion, may he keep him in the palm of his hand.Vinny Piro and Family

MJ DI Pesa Nolan

January 9, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Walter and Michael Sullivan

January 9, 2011

To the White Family:

Please accept our deepest sympathies. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,

Walter and Michael Sullivan

Ed Cardoza

January 9, 2011

While we knew our beloved Tom was slipping away from us, his loss has left a deep and penetrating absence. May he be among the saints and martyrs of heaven--ever the compassionate advocate to the poor, marginalized and lonely.

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