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Thomas Bent Obituary

Thomas Lynn Bent
'Tom'
Mr. Bent, 61, of Matthews, passed away at home on Tuesday, October 16, 2007, with his loving family by his side. He was born in Roanoke, Virginia, and has lived in the Charlotte area since 1971. He was a graduate of Patrick Henry High School and Virginia Western Community College in Roanoke and Pfeiffer University of Charlotte. He was an Accountant in the Charlotte area for 35 years.
Prior to his own accounting firm and his association with Broniec Associates and Vitex, Inc. of Mooresville, NC, he worked at Belk Stores Services, Inc. for 26 years.
He was a member of Siler Presbyterian Church, an ordained Deacon and Elder in the Presbyterian Church, and served as Church Treasurer and a member of the Visitation Committee of East Presbyterian Church, Charlotte. He was also a volunteer with Junior Achievement and Friendship Trays. He will be remembered for his enthusiasm of all sporting events, his pride in having a spotless car, and his love for his family.
He is survived by his wife of 36 years, Elsie Ellis Bent; a daughter, Karen Bent Conklin and her husband, Jason, of Waxhaw; a granddaughter, Caroline Grace Conklin (Fifi) of Waxhaw; brother, Stephen Neil Bent and his wife, Holly, of Greensboro, NC; aunt, Evelyn Spencer of Cincinnati, Ohio; father-in-law, Manley Ellis and his wife, Eloise, of Monroe, NC; sisters-in-law, Helen Sims and her husband, Donald, and Janice McPherson and her husband, Dwight, both of Lancaster, SC.; and a very special friend of the family, Dawn Martin Thacker and her husband, Andrew, of Roanoke, VA. Also, he enjoyed the special times that he had with his friends, Cliff Cornelius, Charles Jacobus, Gary Griffin, and Mike Stout of Charlotte, Steve Kling of Roanoke, VA, and Amos Irwin of Simpsonville, SC.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Ibra and Marie Morris Bent, a brother, Gordon Lee Bent, his mother-in-law, Annie Grace Ellis, and special friends George Martin of Roanoke, VA, and Cliff Caldwell of Charlotte.
Funeral services will be 3:00 p.m., Saturday, October 20, 2007, at Siler Presbyterian Church, with visitation from 1:00 to 3:00 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall prior to the service. Memorials can be directed to the Building Fund of Siler Presbyterian Church, 6301 Weddington-Monroe Road, Wesley Chapel, NC 28104.
Gaskin Services, Matthews, www.gaskinservices.com, is serving the Bent Family.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Oct. 19, 2007.

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Mike and Sandy Trower

October 22, 2007

We got to know Tom through business, but he was such a gentleman that he made you feel like you had been a friend forever. I always enjoyed the time we spend talking and he will be dearly missed.

Diane Keeton

October 21, 2007

I will always remember and appreciate how Tom took care of my mother, his Aunt Evelyn, whenever she visited her sister in Roanoke. He was a true gentleman and a kind, considerate, caring nephew. I am proud that he was my cousin, and I will miss him very much.

B.P. Simpson

October 21, 2007

My condolences to the Bent family. Tom was absolutely a true "Southern Gentleman", and his passing is indeed a loss. He and his entire family are a pleasure and a true gift to be accquainted with.

Cecilia Cornelius

October 21, 2007

Jamie and I were sharing special memories on our drive to Charlotte. When I asked him about his favorite memory he smiled and started to laugh. He said he remembered when they were on a trip together and there was a free breakfast at the Embassy Suites. Tom had gotten up early to eat his breakfast and then when the rest of the "guys" woke up, he went down and ate again. Jamie said they had fun teasing Tom about that for years. My favorite memory was at Karen's wedding. It was so fun and special to watch them dancing with Tom in his flip flops. Karen is very blessed to have had such a special Daddy. It was evident how much he loved her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you! Let us know if you ever want to head to the beach!

Andy Bourne

October 19, 2007

I went to school and paled around
with Tommy in the late 50's. I remember him as a fine fellow and am sorry to hear of his passing

Cliff and Ann Cornelius

October 19, 2007

It was our good fortune to meet Tom eating over a trash can at the Hornets games. A fast friendship formed and sharing a trash can for our "Hornet's game dining" became a ritual that we looked forward to.These excursions led to our families bonding in a round about way. Elsie, you have been an added bonus in our lives and Karen, it has been such a pleasure to see you grow from an adolescent to a beautiful young woman with a lovely family of your own. This is such a sad time and we hope you know we are thinking of you with love. We will always carry Tom in our hearts remembering his "gusto", delightful sense of humor, and loyalty. His friendship has been a priceless gift to Cliff that he will always treasure.

Joe and Frances Jeffcoat

October 19, 2007

Dear Elsie and Karen: We are so sorry to learn of your loss. Tom was very special to all of us. I will notify our family members. We love you so very much, as you already know! Our hope is for peace as you go through this most difficult time. In love and prayer, we will be with you even if we are not able to come tomorrow. Much Love Frances

Robin Henshaw

October 19, 2007

Tom was a favorite of mine. I worked with him at Belk. My deepest sympathy to his family.

Nancy Cornelius House

October 19, 2007

Elsie and Karen,
Tom was a special "adopted" brother and we will miss his happy and funny conversations. We will pray that your deep sense of loss is soon replaced with the loving and happy memories you have of Tom. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Tommy and Nancy House

Stephen Walker

October 19, 2007

We went to school together in Roanoke. I have lived in Union County for 28 years and never knew Tommy lived here. He was a friend.

Raymond Zieverink

October 19, 2007

Elsie and Family,
Tom will be greatly missed. I worked with him at Belk where our cubes were side by side. What a great guy he was. I deeply regret I will be unable to attend his service on Saturday. Please know that you and family will be in my thoughts and prayers. May you have many fond memories of your love one. God's blessings.

Cathy Haney

October 19, 2007

I am so sorry to learn of Tom's passing. I enjoyed knowing Tom for the past 7 years. I quickly learned that his family and friends were very important to him.
My thoughts and prayers are with his family during this difficult time. I will certainly miss him !!

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