Chester Vann "Chet" Bailey

Chester Vann "Chet" Bailey obituary, Mequon, WI

Chester Vann "Chet" Bailey

Chester Bailey Obituary

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On Tuesday, October 23, 2018, Chester "Chet" Vann Bailey, loving father of 7 children, passed away at the age of 80.

Chester was born in Birmingham, Alabama on January 3, 1938, to Bertha Vann and Chester Morris Bailey. Raised by his mother and grandmother (Sallie Bell Jackson), after losing his own father an early age, Chester went on to graduate from high school, and, true to a childhood prophecy, entered the Navy, where he began what would become a life long commitment of service for others.

Following his time in the Navy, Chester became the first in his family to graduate from college, earning a Bachelor's Degree from his beloved University of Washington in 1976. Prior to earning his degree at UW, he majored in Electrical Engineering at the Tuskegee Institute, did graduate work in Vocational Education and taught for a couple years at San Mateo College before joining the OICW (now known as JobTrain) as a volunteer Instructor for the Electronic Technician Class. Within two years, he was promoted to Supervisor and, shortly thereafter, Director of Operations. Chester was no stranger to breaking barriers and exceeding expectations. Additionally, during this time, Chester was the President of the Jaycee's - Palo Alto Branch (one of the first black presidents for this group), the Vice President of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, and a member of the Executive Board of Directors NAACP Palo-Alto Stanford Branch. This would foreshadow Chester's career path of dedicated leadership and enduring commitment towards advancing civil rights for all.

Guided by his experience growing up black in the projects of the segregated South and his passion for helping others, Chester parlayed his education, experience, and personality into a long career with the Executive branch of the federal government, where he spent over 30 years of his life passionately prosecuting all forms of workplace discrimination, as a long serving District Director of the Seattle, then Milwaukee, and finally the Phoenix EEOC regional offices. During his time with the EEOC, Chester continued to strive to better himself professionally and personally, earning many accolades for his involvement in high profile cases, as well as, earning a certificate in Senior Executive Management from the Harvard's Kennedy School of Government.

His life's work and convictions are well conveyed by the titles of a few books that he is quoted in, "Taking on the Big Boys or Why Feminism is Good For Families, Business, and the Nation", which characterizes Chester as taking a broader view on when a discrimination claim can be brought against an employer than others at the EEOC at the time, and "When Good Companies Go Bad, 100 Corporate Miscalculations and Misdeeds", detailing his offices successful invasion of privacy and retaliation claim against the second largest railroad in the country (EEOC v. Burlington Northern and Santa Fe), which immediately protected thousands of workers from genetic discrimination and eventually led to a ban of genetic testing as a condition of employment nationwide several years later. He took great pride in his work and loved every day he spent championing civil rights, fighting for both his own and other's freedom from discrimination.

In his personal life, Chester enjoyed playful competition with friends and family - often noting that he was "cooking with Crisco" when on a hot streak in video games, sports, dominoes or Scrabble. His competitiveness was supplemented by his charm, which captured the love and affection of so many. His charm was a gift that he shared widely thanks to his outgoing nature. It was unmistakable and will be remembered vividly by all who knew him. Even as dementia challenged his ability to express himself in his final years, his personality never gave in. He defiantly told the disease, you can take my mind, but you can never take my personality.

While his work was his passion, his family was his pride. Chester never missed an opportunity to tell his surviving children Pheleta Bailey-Santos, Greg Bailey (Victoria) Micah Lightner, Danielle Bailey (Katelyn), Jon Bailey, Zach Bailey (Rebecca), and Aaron Bailey, as well as his surviving grandchildren, Evan, Christian, Ava, Hari, Julian and Maven, how much he loved them. He even found a way to sing it when his disease would no longer let him speak it directly. He encouraged them to always dream big and follow those dreams, to push themselves and above all, to support one another. He also leaves behind cherished, life long friendships with Louise R. Bailey, Clara Rice, and Carole Bailey-Grgich.

His children would like to thank Silver Springs of Mequon, Jackie Chiarelli, Nancy Ortega, and the rest of its amazing staff for the loving care they provided Chet in his final years of life, they take solace in knowing there was no better place for him to be during that time.

Chester took more pride in his children's accomplishments than his own and they took more pride in his accomplishments than he ever knew. Despite not having a father of his own to learn from, he taught all of his children so much. Chester's memory and legacy will live on forever through them and through the impact he has had on so many. Instead of a memorial service, his children will be gathering in Big Sur, California, Chet's favorite place, to celebrate his life and honor his wishes by spreading his ashes across the sea.

Chet will be greatly missed, never forgotten and always loved.

In lieu of flowers, a donation can be made in Chester's name to the Alzheimer's Research & Prevention Foundation. https://arpf.donorshops.com/products/Tribute/tributedonation


"My daily stimulus is my spirit of service, living and making a difference by helping those who are less fortunate and those who are in need" - Chester Bailey, 1938-2018.

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November 13, 2018

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November 8, 2018

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Anastasia (Stacy) Sdanowich

November 13, 2018

I had the pleasure of working with Chet at the Denver EEOC office. He really cared about his employees. May he rest in peace.

Patricia Morrow

November 13, 2018

He was a great teacher. I joined EEOC in 1987 and he was one of our leaders in class. The first time I saw him I knew he loved civil rights and human rights. He will always be in my thoughts as always. So sorry that he is gone but he left a great deal of people who he taught and mentored though out his career. He could handle the best of the best. Interesting that just a few days ago I thought about him and now I find out he is gone back to the universe. So sorry for his family and closest friends. He will be missed. Love, respect and loyalty to this man!

Lillie OBee

November 8, 2018

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Debbie Bell-Friend of Pheleta

November 6, 2018

What a Blessing to know the Love of good Father. My heart & prayers are with you all at this time.

Alvin Negron-Paez

November 5, 2018

I had the honor of working under Mr. Bailey during his last two years at the EEOC in Phoenix.

I was one of the people at the bottom of the office totem (lowest grade, new to the federal government, etc.) but that did not stop Mr. Bailey from being warm, encouraging, and making me feel like I was part of the team; and that my work matter to the general mission of the Agency.

I join the family in their sorrow for his loss.

James Neely

November 4, 2018

Chet was a good friend and a good man. I will miss him

Mary Parker

November 4, 2018

Happy I got to meet him love to our family.

Mr&Mrs Elnorse McLemore

November 4, 2018

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Always stylish. Oh, the 80's.

Danielle Bailey

November 4, 2018

Proud Papa, he just learned that Danielle and Katelyn were engaged the night before.

Danielle Bailey

November 4, 2018

That Smile. With Cherished life long friend, Carole Grgich Bailey, other of Jon, Zach, Aaron, and Danielle. Carole went to great lengths to offer support and care for Chet as his dementia worsened when he lived in Milwaukee

Danielle Bailey

November 4, 2018

Beaming with his kiddos, Greg, Danielle, and Pheleta

Danielle Bailey

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Cheesing with Danielle

Danielle Bailey

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Chet was proud to be Zach's Little League Coach

Danielle Bailey

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With Son Greg

Danielle Bailey

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With Son Greg and Mother Bertha Vann

Danielle Bailey

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With son Zach in Seattle

Danielle Bailey

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Danielle Bailey

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Chet created a life filled with love through his family and friends. These pictures show the joy he felt everyday in their presence.

At his favorite Seattle spot, Schmitt & Mccormicks, New Years Eve with son Jon and Daughter Danielle

Danielle Bailey

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Proud Papa at Zach and Danielle's 2012 Marquette Law School graduation

Danielle Bailey

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Danielle Bailey

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Chet with Daughter Pheleta, and her mother, his cherished friend, Louise R. Bailey

Danielle Bailey

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Chet 5 years old

Danielle Bailey

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Chet called this his thinker pose

Danielle Bailey

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Chet, 4 years old

Danielle Bailey

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Visiting Greg and Family in Washington D.C. for Obama's 2013 Inauguration

Danielle Bailey

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With son Zach and his favorite dog, Larry

Danielle Bailey

November 4, 2018

Cooking with Crisco, playing Bones with Bruce

Danielle Bailey

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With daughter in law Becca Bailey

Danielle Bailey

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With daughter in law, Katelyn Nye

Danielle Bailey

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Danielle Bailey

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Chet with all his sons, Greg, Zach, Aaron, Micah, Jon, Zach, and Grandson Evan

Danielle Bailey

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Danielle Bailey

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With Cherished friend Clara Rice, Condie Rice (holding Archie), Daughter in law Victoria Bailey, and Grandson Christian Bailey

Danielle Bailey

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With son Micah

Danielle Bailey

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Mr. Chet when he was Seattle EEOC Director

Danielle Bailey

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With son Greg Bailey

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With the Grandkids- Maven, Ava, and Hari

Danielle Bailey

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Father's Day in Milwaukee

Danielle Bailey

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Zach, Carole, Pheleta, Aaron, Danielle, Scott and Dad

Danielle Bailey

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Thinker Pose with Granddaughter Ave

Danielle Bailey

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With Daughter Pheleta, Son In Law Bruce, and Grandson Evan

Danielle Bailey

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H.S. Graduation Pic

Danielle Bailey

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18 year old Chet

Danielle Bailey

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With Daughter Pheleta

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Danielle Bailey

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Sleeping like a baby, with baby Maven

Danielle Bailey

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Running at Green Lake

Danielle Bailey

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Beaming at his son Aaron's H.S. graduation

Danielle Bailey

November 4, 2018

Favorite hat, favorite shirt, in one of his favorite cities

Danielle Bailey

November 4, 2018

Danielle Bailey

November 4, 2018

My Dad's smile is something I will always remember.

Marie Schauer

November 3, 2018

So very sorry to hear about Chet's passing. I had the pleasure of working with him at the EEOC. I'll never forget when he played a joke on me. He told me that Whitney Houston was signing autographs at Boston Store. I was so happy. He came back from lunch and handed me a napkin supposedly signed by Whitney. It wasn't, she wasn't there! He signed the napkin. We both got a good laugh out of that one. Chet, you will be truly missed.

Orma Buie

November 3, 2018

With a Very sad Heart and Forever Grateful
Chester Bailey recruited me from College and Trained me-He was always so proud of what he'd helped me become- You Will Be Remembered Fondly as you have joined our friend Ruth Wagner- Im I'm forever your INVESTIGATOR OB
❤ I'll be in Phoenix next week at Tapatio Resort and I'll be laughing thinking of You&Ruth DANCING Peace Out

Anne Grgich

November 3, 2018

Sending Love and hugs to the family. Chet was an awesome father.

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