John H. McCarthy

John H. McCarthy obituary, Franklin, MA

John H. McCarthy

John McCarthy Obituary

John H. 'Mac' McCarthy 77, of Franklin, died peacefully, at home surrounded by his family, Monday February 20, 2012 following a brief illness. He was the husband of Nancy M. (Costello) McCarthy. Born November 18, 1934 in Boston, a son of the late John H. and Mary E. (O'Brien) McCarthy he was a former resident of Hyde Park and had lived in Franklin for the past 47 years. He was raised and educated in the Boston area, and was a graduate of Boston College High School, he furthered his education at Northeastern University where he received a bachelor's degree in Accounting. Mr. McCarthy was a retired accountant for the Foxboro Company and following his retirement, he worked as a controller for the Federal Products Company in Providence, Rhode Island. Mr. McCarthy served in the United States Air Force during the Korean War, he attained the rank of Staff Sergeant and was awarded the National Defense Service Medal, the Good Conduct Medal and was honorably discharged in June 1961. He treasured time spent with his family, fishing, golfing, camping, was a lifelong Red Sox fan, and being at his summer home in Denmark, Maine. He was a former member of the Franklin Zoning Board of Appeals for over 25 years and served as chairman, a former board member of Franklin Youth Hockey, was a member of Franklin VFW Post, and a communicant of St. Mary's Church. In addition to his wife of 55 years, he is survived by a son John M. McCarthy and his wife Wendy of Minnesota, 4 daughters Patricia A. Hauck of Raynham, MaryEllen Assad and her husband Kenneth of Franklin, NancyLee Wasnewsky and her husband Thomas of Medway and Paula Savini and her husband Peter of South Yarmouth, a brother Brian McCarthy and his wife Cindy of Norwood, a son in law Robert Ballou of Foxboro. Also surviving are 17 grandchildren and 1 great granddaughter. He was the father of the late Sharon M. McCarthy-Ballou and brother of the late Joan Brunelli. Relatives and friends are invited to attend his funeral with military honors Friday February 24th, at 9:15AM from the Charles F. Oteri and Son Franklin Funeral Home 33 Cottage St. Franklin, www.oterifuneralhome.com, with a funeral Mass in St. Mary's Church 1 Church Sq. at 10AM. Burial will follow at St. Mary's Cemetery. Calling hours are Thursday Feb. 23rd, from 4-8PM. In lieu of flowers donations in his memory sent to Steward Homecare, Home Health Hospice, Palliative & Private Care 30 Perwal St. Westwood, MA 02090 would be appreciated.

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February 17, 2017

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March 12, 2012

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Charlie Nielson

February 17, 2017

I became acquainted with John when he began working at Federal Products Corporation in Providence, RI. At the time I had been at Federal Products many years and was also in the Accounting and Business Systems Field. John was a very knowledgeable and easy going fellow worker and became a very good friend.

We kept in touch periodically after our working days at Federal Products. We both liked playing golf. Actually the last time I was with John was when we played a round of golf at Exeter Country Club in Exeter, RI.

I have thought about John many times in the past few years and made various unsuccessful attempts to locate John and assumed he had relocated to a warmer climate like Arizona.

For some reason I was again thinking of my good friend John and feeling the need to reconnect with him and began to a detail search on the web. My efforts were successful but also very sad to actually find his obituary as to having passed away in about 5 years ago.

It is with deep sadness and sense of loss that I extend my deepest sympathies to the family and friends of my good friend John.

I have been missing him and so sad to now learn he has passed away.

I truly loved and respected John as a person with a great heart and well based principles.

He is missed.
Charlie Nielson

Rich Gibson

February 24, 2012

Mary and Family, We are so sorry for your loss. At this time of grief we wish you peace within and the fact that your Dad rests with God and the Angels. Jane, Rich, Kara and Kyle Gibson

Al Carlson

March 12, 2012

I was one of Mac's golfing cronies in Venice Florida for the past few years. I treasured him as a great friend and would like to extend my deepest sympathies to all of Mac's family. He will be missed by our Venice East golfing pals. I shall remember him in my prayers. Al Carlson from the JC Penny golf group.

Katie Long

February 24, 2012

To the McCarthy family I offer my deepest sympathies and you are in my thoughts and prayers. All my love. Katie

Lynnae and John Weiand

February 24, 2012

John, Wendy and family, We are thinking of the McCarthy family and keeping you in our prayers today, and in the days ahead. We are so sorry for the loss of your Dad and Grandpa. Lynnae and John Weiand

Frank Borges

February 22, 2012

Nancy and Family, Mac was such a great guy, always pleasant and fun to play golf with. He will be sorley missed. Everytime I walk around the circle at camp I am sure his spirt will be sitting there on the deck watching the fire. Frank Borges

Greg,Sue and Vanessa Johnson

February 22, 2012

Nancy and family, Our deepest Sympathy. Mac was a wonderful man and he will be missed. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jean and Hans Grabau

February 22, 2012

Nancy our prayers are with you in these difficult times Mac will be missed by all of us. Jean and Hans

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