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1966
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2023
Peter LIGHTBODY Obituary
April 18, 1966 - February 3, 2023
It is with great sadness that we announce the unexpected passing of Peter Walley Lightbody, lovingly known also as Pades (short for "Pedro") and Little Pete, age 56 years old, on February 3, 2023. He passed at Lions Gate Hospital from a quickly escalated cancer, surrounded by loved ones.
Peter was the youngest son of four, born to Cynthia Marietta Lightbody (Anderson) and Walley Pearson Lightbody, on the date of April 18th, 1966 at Lions Gate Hospital. Peter's elder siblings are Catherine, Michael and Sarah. Peter spent his childhood living on the shores of West Vancouver where he loved collecting sea glass, casting for cod off the rocky turf and floating about the bay on old logs. He attended Caulfield Elementary School, Hillside Secondary School, then the University of British Columbia where he discovered a passion for classic English literature. He then pursued a law degree at the University of Alberta and has built his career as a lawyer over the years, most recently as a partner at Lakes, Whyte LLP in North Vancouver.
Peter loved writing and kept detailed journals as a young man, chronicling his observations with playful curiosity – he developed a character named Mr. Happy (often not happy), who would explore book fairs and recite pieces with, and by his dear friends – Elvis, Hemingway, Lady Gaga and others. Peter had a magical, somewhat mysterious garage, which he filled with handmade treasured items created by family and friends, and also his vinyl collection – some favourites of which included The Talking Heads, The Who, Neil Young & Crazy Horse and George Harrison.
Peter leaves behind his loving wife Brenda whom he met and fell in love with in high school. Last August, they celebrated 25 years of marriage. Peter and Brenda built their life together in North Vancouver where they raised their three beautiful daughters Cynthia, Robin and Jessica. He'll be remembered as a wizard on the barbeque, a captivating storyteller and as a second father to all the neighbourhood kids on 27th street. Most importantly, Peter was a proud husband and father who leaves behind "his four girls" with countless memories and everlasting love.
No flowers by request, donations to the Lions Gate Hospital Foundation are appreciated.
A memorial service will be held on February 15, 2023, at 11:00 am at St. Andrews United Church, 1044 St Georges Ave, North Vancouver.
Memorial service livestream link:
https://www.legacystreaming.com/watchnow/
Memories and Condolences
for Peter LIGHTBODY
57 Entries
Paul J Andersen
September 1, 2024
" Lights ... Lights ..
~ Caulfield grade 6 ...
I would yell across the soccer field to pass the ball ~ as I couldn´t understand nor pronounce his whole name .
Five years ago, perhaps the only grad reunion I attended, had the pleasure of speaking with him and then drove him home to North Vancouver.
He invited me to play ping-pong and have a beer... However, it was late deciding to go home .
Although I hadn´t seen him since 1984 when I early graduated, there was a bond that seemed to last from elementary into high school...
I cherish that evening of his conversation, smirk~great laughter
I can still picture how cute of a couple Peter and Brenda were in high school.
"MENTTOBE "
My condolences Brenda, daughters & Siblings
Paul J Andersen
Michelle Tsui
July 30, 2024
I am saddened to hear of Peter's passing. My condolences to Brenda and the girls. I worked with Peter when we were at RBS together many years ago. I used to tease him when the girls were young that he would be bald when the girls hit the ages of 12-16 from him pulling out his hair in frustration. We used to joke that he'd have a bat behind the door to keep all the boys away.
The world is a poorer place now that he is no longer in it.
Igor Hajdukovic
October 6, 2023
The world lost one honest and good person. When no help was on the horizon Peter made himself available. Sad!
Andrew Butler
March 2, 2023
This can't be happening. We just spoke the other day. My kindergarten buddy who appeared out of the blue to help me through one of the worst times in my life as my legal counsel. Who, in the process, became me very dear friend. You were one of the good guys. So kind and compassionate. So intelligent and intuitive. You have made such huge impression on my life. I will cherish our friendship and the time we spent together. See you on the other side Peter.
Jamie Goddard
February 19, 2023
My heart was broken when I heard the news of my dear friends passing. My heart cries for Brenda and the girls and all of Peters family whom he loved so dearly.
I cannot find the right words to say how important Peter was to me, especially in my teenage years. We were inseparable. We were brothers. I would not be the person I am today with out Peter in my life. We grew from kids to adults together, and Peter was always my guiding light. He always sent us on the right path. Peter helped me grow into a better man and I am so thankful to have had him by my side. I will miss him immensely and his spirit will live in me until I climb Sugar Mountain and see you again my dear friend.
Loewen (Hughes) family
February 19, 2023
Dear Brenda and family,
We are so deeply saddened and shocked to hear about your loss of Peter. Feels like yesterday that we were at your beautiful and memorable wedding celebration. Our hearts and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
The Ernst Family
February 15, 2023
Our condolences to Peter´s family on his loss. Memories of Peter at kid birthday parties at the Vancouver Planetarium in the 70´s. Invites to the Lightbody home in West Van. Or just general hanging out with the softly spoken but confident Peter as a child are at the front of our minds. Hadn´t seen Peter for years until recently seeing him at his law firm. You could tell that great child became a wonderful man. Taken too soon and remembered forever.
Karen
February 15, 2023
To Brenda and the rest of the Lightbody family,
Please accept my most sincere condolences. I worked with Peter at RBS. He was kind, quick-witted, and always had an open door for those more junior to him looking for some guidance. Wishing you much comfort and strength during this difficult time.
Keith Spivak
February 15, 2023
Keith Spivak
February 15, 2023
Keith Spivak
February 15, 2023
Our deepest condolences to Brenda and all the family. Peter will always be an integral thread that binds a band of brothers affectionally referred to as the "young ones", back in the Teahouse days. I´ve included 2 photos from our last reunion....the 2nd being a candid photo of Peter in solitude reviewing some pros n verse that he so eloquently spoke to all of us. I know I speak for all of us that he will always be with us, in spirit and memory.....and that (good) devil sitting on our shoulder in the times of reason - love and constant thoughts xo
Keri J Peterson
February 14, 2023
Brenda, I am so deeply saddened by the loss of your Pete. He was an extremely wonderful man. He was a great joy to work with, fun to be around. He had great stories to relate. He had quick wit, an easy smile and was so easy to get along with. My heart goes out to you and your girls. Love and Light.
Gina (Hole) Lazarowich
February 14, 2023
The `Hole´ family (Lazarowich) sends so much love...this is the last time I saw Peter, before Covid at my Dad´s memorial, a beautiful photo of him with Walley & Cathy. Condolences to his "4 girls"
Robert Brun
February 14, 2023
Dear Walley and Lightbody family. I was shocked and saddened to hear of Peter's sudden passing. It was only a short while ago I spoke to him at the Courthouse and he seemed happy and well. I had several cases with Peter over the years and he was a formidable yet fair counsel to deal with. He will be missed. I extend my sincere condolences to the family. Robert Brun.
Keeva O'Brien
February 13, 2023
I'm so so sorry to hear about this, sending my love to Brenda, Cynthia, Robin & Jessie
Adrienne Davis
February 12, 2023
My sincere condolences to Brenda, his daughters and the entire Lightbody family.
I worked for Peter for several years at RBS. He was thoughtful, witty, patient and kind. A wonderful person. Grateful to have had the opportunity to know him. He, without question, left a positive mark on anyone he crossed paths with.
I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Kimberley Mitchell (nee Jackson)
February 12, 2023
Dear Lightbody Family
So sorry to hear about Peter's passing. Looks so much like his Mom in the memorial photo--a beautiful picture. Gone too soon, but never forgotten. With love,
Kimberley and William
Gail Jang
February 11, 2023
My sincere condolences to the Lightbody family. I am saddened to hear that Peter is no longer with us. I´m so grateful to have had the pleasure of working with and for Peter at RBS. He was the kindest and most genuine person, professionally and personally. I´m so sorry for your loss.
Michele, Maddie, Larry & Mason Monahan - NSFIHA
February 11, 2023
Dear Brenda, Jess & Family,
We are so very sorry and sad to hear of Peter´s passing. Our heartfelt condolences to you all. We hope all of his wonderful memories will help you through this very difficult time, and you are able to be together and take care of one another. Our thoughts are with you all.
Diane Swann
February 11, 2023
We are sincerely sad to learn of Peter´s passing. Although our first contact with Peter was as his clients, we soon considered him a friend. He was delightful company on the few occasions we managed to get together outside of business. As a lawyer, he was everything we wanted: competent, empathetic, and honest. We miss him and send our condolences to his family.
John and Diane Swann, California
linda ben-hamida
February 11, 2023
Dear Walley and family,
I am so very saddened and sorry to learn of the untimely passing of your dear son Peter. I had only seen him several times in Kelowna but from those visits do well understand the tributes flowing in about Peter.
My sincere condolences go out to your family as well as the Andersons. May you all find comfort, love, and healing within their presence.
Always remembering Marietta, my childhood friend,
linda ghezzi in tunis, tunisia
Carmen
February 11, 2023
This was the year Peter (far right) was Neil Young.
Glenn Hafey
February 10, 2023
A Pete sized hole in our hearts
Andy´s poignant words are so correct.
Pete, you were one of the kindest and coolest of us. People like you aren´t suppose to exit early. It´s just not fair.
We didn´t have a lot of contact since our Hillside days but when we did it was like time hadn´t passed. Pete, your generosity of spirit was obvious and always appreciated. I will never forget you and your quiet, knowing smile.
Brenda, as many have written already, when chatting with Pete about our adult lives and kids, I remember his face lighting up talking about you and your daughters. The love was deep and obvious.
I can´t fathom what you and your family are going through. Please know that there are a lot of people holding you and your family in their hearts.
Carmen, Gervase, Ges and Shannon
February 10, 2023
I hear his voice in our home, I see his smile on the school playground and me and my family have been privileged to watch his likeness unfold in his beautiful daughters. Our deepest condolences to Brenda, Jessica, Robin, Cynthia, Cathy, Michael and Sarah. He made all the corners of your lives livelier, funnier and more vibrant with his presence. His light will be dearly missed by you and the rest of us in this community where he lived. I still see "Mr. Yogurt Man" at our Halloween parties! :)
Carmen and Gervase, Ges and Shannon
Wendy Wong
February 10, 2023
Such a kind soul. An old soul. He touched so many people - you already know that. Brenda, my heart goes out to you and the girls xoxoxo
Mark Davies
February 10, 2023
Peter, in a world that is fair and just, you would have had many years ahead to spend with family and friends, dispensing hard-earned legal savvy to those who need it and and playing the glass bead game with books still to be read and ideas yet to be savoured. I am very glad to have known you. I sympathize with those that will miss you; they have lost someone of great and irreplaceable value.
Mark Davies.
Corrina, Colin, Gracie and Emily Davis
February 10, 2023
Dear Brenda and family
We are so shocked and saddened to hear of Peter's passing. We remember him as such a gentle guy, always with a smile. Our thoughts are with you all at this very difficult time.
Tom Ewing
February 10, 2023
My deepest condolences to Brenda and to Pete's family. Still stunned and trying to process. Pete, you were one of the good guys we all aspired to be! So tragic to lose you, now (as Hillhouse describes) Pete sized hole in heart. Miss you.
Arden Watson
February 10, 2023
Lightbody family, I was so sad to hear the news of Pete's passing. Praying for you as you grieve and remember Pete.
Ronald Dudman
February 9, 2023
Peter,
May your favourite music always be heard...
May God bless and keep your family.......
Thank you for giving me hope.
Manuella Farnsworth
February 9, 2023
Best cherished memory, hanging out with the entire Lightbody clan summer camping at the lake house on Abbott with Pete walking to the the kayaks for a sunset paddle...
My sincerest condolences, thinking of you dear friends at this time of loss.
Jay Spiro
February 9, 2023
My prayers and condolences as you grieve Peter's sudden passing. I only had the privilege of working with him on one file (a long file, on opposite sides) but he was warm, smart, and quick to chat about our respective families. May you treasure the times spent together.
Barbara Carroll
February 9, 2023
To the Lightbody family, our sincere condolences to you all at this most difficult and sad time. We met Peter at Walley and Marietta's home and know how much he was loved and cherished. Walley, we are so sorry for your loss. Will touch base when you are back in Kelowna. Love, Dwight and Barbara Carroll, Kelowna.
Vivienne Stewart
February 9, 2023
My sincere condolences to Peter´s family. As someone who worked with Peter on the same side on one of those neverending files, I appreciated his knowledge, experience and common sense throughout and relied on his presence in court as the best backup anyone could have. I counted Peter as a friend in the profession and he will be sorely missed.
Adam Earle
February 9, 2023
My heartfelt condolences to Brenda,The Girls and Pete's Family during this difficult time.
Like all of Pete's childhood friends his passing has left a hole in my heart.
Your unwavering even keeled demeanour, your cheeky grin, your twisted tales out of thin air beside the campfire and your quizzical squint when questioning what was being said are just a few of the long list of attributes that made you such a wonderful man and such a great friend.
So many great memories to filter through and countless good times to remember will make you eternal in my mind and my heart.
If our friendship circle were a tree, then that tree just lost one of it's sturdiest branches. The tree is still standing , still swaying in the gentle breeze, but it's sense of being whole and well balanced has forever changed now you are gone.
Rest Easy My Friend. You will never be forgotten.
Tom Taylor
February 9, 2023
My sincere condolences to Brenda, Robin, Cynthia, Jess and the Lightbody family.
I count myself among the fortunate to have called Pete a friend and like everyone who knew him, his loss is heartbreaking. He was such a kind and sweet soul, and a good and loyal friend to many. When we were in high school, Pete was the bridge between his friends at Hillside, and a group of friends he had at West Van. This connection created some life long friendships that wouldn´t have happened without Pete as the conduit. He was one of a kind in the truest sense.
I´m so sorry for Pete, and so sad that he´s gone.
Debra Roed
February 9, 2023
My deepest sympathies and prayers for Walley, Brenda, Cathy, Michael, Sarah and your families. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
George Ferguson
February 9, 2023
To Walley, Kathy, Michael and Sarah.
So very sorry to hear of Peter's passing. It seemed just like yesterday he and I were discussing the design for the ramp around the steps. I always liked the way he looked you right in the eye when speaking or listening. A clever and fine young man. Gone much too early. My sincere condolences.
George Ferguson, Kelowna
Phil Coulter
February 8, 2023
To all the Lightbody family,
we were so terribly saddened to hear of the loss of Peter. Our love and thoughts are with you all at this very sad time.
Phil and Donelle Coulter
Ted Rippel
February 8, 2023
My deepest condolences to Brenda the girls and the entire Lightbody family ! Lots of good memories at ping-pong in Kelowna over the years with Peter. So sad to hear the news
Leigh Tynan
February 8, 2023
Brenda, Cynthia, Robin and Jess,
We are heartbroken to hear of Peter´s passing. Sending all our love your way and holding your in our thoughts at such a difficult time. Peter brought light and laughter to any room, and nothing made him more proud than his family. No words can lessen the pain, but please know we are all here for you.
Love, Leigh, Al, Kirstin and Amy Tynan
Mike Anderegg
February 8, 2023
I was so sorry to hear the news about Pete's passing. He was a great friend growing up in West Van and we shared many Blue Bus rides westward together after soccer practices, etc. I really liked Andy Hillhouse's comment describing him as always having "that a twinkle in his eye". I wish I had made more of an effort to reconnect with him after high school. The last time we spoke at a Hillside reunion (or something like that) a few years ago I was so glad to hear how very happy and content he was with his life. He very much loved all his girls and family and I can only hope the best for all of them in this difficult time.
Mark Hamilton
February 8, 2023
Sending sincere condolences to Brenda, Cynthia, Robin and Jessica. I had the pleasure of working in the office next to Peter for a number of years back at RBS. We enjoyed many a lunch during those days. Peter was a great mentor, and was always happy to lend a hand or talk through an issue. Peter was always looking out for others. I´ll remember him as one of the kindest people I had the good fortune to know. A real gem. I will miss you Peter.
Judith and amen Jackson
February 8, 2023
He is safe now with his Mother. Such a sweet person . Sending love from cousin Judith and Ken
Barb Knight
February 8, 2023
Sending our condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time The Knight Family
Roberta McCreary
February 8, 2023
Way too young to leave us! (I will just turn 80 two days before your next birthday.) Peter, not only did you look like your Dad, but you did the Lightbody/Walley family proud... you will be greatly missed. Our love and blessings to your family.
Bob Glover
February 8, 2023
Our sincere condolences to Brenda, Jesse, Cynthia and Robin as well as the entire Lightbody family at this incredibly sad time.
Bob, Marlyn, Nat and Zoe
Andrew Matthews
February 8, 2023
Brenda, Cynthia, Robin and Jessica, Peter shared with me the stunning black and white photo of all of you in Spain that he used as his phone's wallpaper. He could barely hide his joy. This was at our law school class reunion in September, when after a great couple of days, the two of us managed to meet up for a pint in the airport before leaving. The mention of Peter's love of vinyl and the collection of audio gear in the garage were near and dear to my heart, because Peter and I discovered over those pints that we shared a love of it. I was utterly shocked and angry to hear that this wonderful human being whom I was proud and so very fortunate to call my friend was taken from us. Peter represented the pinnacle of what humanity could offer in every respect and I shall always be grateful for having known him. May his memory sustain you in these difficult times.
Sheila Hunter jr.
February 8, 2023
My deepest condolences to the Lightbody family . Shocked and saddened . I remember Pete as a sensitive and kind person .
I´m so sorry for your deep loss .
Sheila Hunter Jr.
Bowen Island
Jerome and Sam Marburg
February 8, 2023
Our deepest sympathy to you all. May his memory be for a blessing and a comfort through this difficult time.
Curtis Darmohray
February 8, 2023
Heartfelt condolences to Peter's family on his sudden passing. Very fond memories of our time in law school - he will be sorely missed by all who knew him!
Allan Cairns
February 8, 2023
Peter was a beautiful person.
FRAHCAS
February 8, 2023
Deepest sympathy to the family of dear Peter, he was an amazing man and we were fortunate to meet he and his girls by Walley & Marietta.Love the members of FRAHCAS
Davy & Chriss Janko
February 8, 2023
To my Dear Friend Walley. Brenda, Cynthia, Robin and Jessica. Sarah, Kathy, Mike and all the Lightbody family. I am so saddened to hear of Peter's sudden passing. He was always kind and happy in my presence. And no mater how intense a situation, he always seemed to make one feel that everything would be OK. And if he had any part to play, it usually was OK. His presence and laughter at Walley & Marietta's Kelowna house in the summers will be missed. Many Blessings, Peace and much Love to you all. Davy & Chriss Janko - Kelowna
Andy Hillhouse
February 8, 2023
To all Pete's family and loved ones, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Memories of time spent with Pete are precious - that twinkle in his eye, that smile, his intelligence and wit, his thoughtfulness - just a beautiful gem of a guy whose sudden absence has left us with this Pete sized hole in our hearts. Simply one of my favourite people on the planet, no exaggeration. You will live on in our memories, my good friend.
Karen Katz
February 8, 2023
Dear Family of Peter, I am so sorry for your loss. I recently met Peter in his capacity as a lawyer with Lakes, Whyte LLP. I had a fondness for Peter and he was a brilliant man. He helped me immensly by sharing his with knowledge.
Gladys
February 7, 2023
To Brenda, your beautiful girls....that he was so very proud of... and the entire Lightbody clan... words cannot express my sorrow for your loss. This picture was taken by sister Sarah, Oct 9, 2022 the last time I saw Peter.... sharing beach sunsets as we had many times over the years... chatting and listening to music....usually Neil Young. The night of this picture, he's on my left.... we danced on the beach.... Good bye my neighbour, Rest In Peace
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for Peter LIGHTBODY
Feb
15
Memorial service
11:00 a.m.
St. Andrews United Church
1044 St Georges Ave, North Vancouver, BC