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Shirley Ann STOKES

1934 - 2020

Shirley Ann STOKES obituary, 1934-2020, North Vancouver, BC

BORN

1934

DIED

2020

Shirley STOKES Obituary

Shirley Ann Stokes (nee Croll) passed away peacefully at Lions Gate Hospital the morning of August 8, 2020, from pneumonia, following surgery a week earlier. During the last year of her life, with dementia, Shirley received loving, excellent professional care at Berkley Care Centre.

Shirley was born to Nora Roberts and James Croll in the small town of Lutterworth, England, four years after her brother Jim (d.2013). Her young life, and that of her family, was impacted by the Great Depression and the years of the 2 nd World War. At Rugby High School she excelled in academics and in competitive sports, grass hockey being her favorite. She followed her mother's path into nursing, graduating from Guy's Hospital in London in general nursing, midwifery, and finally as a Registered Nurse.

In 1961 Shirley emigrated to Canada with two nursing colleagues, who were 'adopted' by Felicia and George. Shirley soon formed lifelong friendships with Marian, Elizabeth, Alex, sister-in-law Shirley, Sui, Gladys, Jeri, Sheila, Phil, Henry, Grace, Sally, Jim, Pauline, Brenda, Carol, Robin, Jean, Fran, Peter, Emma, Katy, Cassandra, Eve, Glen, Ender, Becki, Sandra, Jill, Louis, Carole and many more. In 1961 she also met her future Australian husband Russ on the ski slopes at Whistler. They spent a 'working holiday' for a few years in Australia, where Shirley made firm friends with her sister-in-law Marlene, and got to know other family members including
numerous nieces and nephews. She and Russ loved to travel and embarked on a 'honeymoon' world tour before settling on Canada. They loved nature, and supported many charities, including "Variety – the Children's Charity".

Shirley lived in Lions Bay for more than 50 years, a strong quiet voice in the community. Her husband and life-partner died in 1997. Shirley lived on in the home they had built together so many years earlier. She moved to her 'paradise sanctuary' on Bowen Island in 2013. Until recently, she was an active member of the Irish Wolfhound Club of Canada BC Branch. Her passions were her succession of gentle wolfhounds Misty, Georgie and Bellagh, and special friendships made through the Club.

Shirley showed a superlative dedication to her nursing career at Vancouver General Hospital, for which she was recognized on many occasions. Shirley was active, productive and full of energy. As a nurse educator, she was a volunteer medical trainer for the volunteer firefighter and ambulance teams in the early days of the Village of Lions Bay. She was always a friendly, helpful neighbour that new and established residents could count on in times of need.

Donations as a Memorial in Shirley's memory may be made to the Bowen Island Health Centre Foundation, PO Box 316, Bowen Island, BC V0N 1G0, or on-line:

https://bowenhealthcentre.com/donate-online/


Submitted by Louis Peterson,
in cherished and loving memory of our friend, Shirley.

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Published by Delta Optimist from Sep. 11 to Oct. 10, 2020.

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Graham Wickham

May 22, 2021

As a young Biomedical tech in 1974, I was immensely fortunate that my first “call”was to Shirley, who ran VGH’s “Cardiac Monitoring Teaching Unit”. In that 1/2 hour visit Shirley taught me some of the most important lessons I’ve drawn upon in my 47 years since. Thank you Shirley!

Leslie Laing

November 21, 2020

Shirley and Russ .. aka Auntie Shirley and Uncle Russ ....thank you for Christmas memory games , Lions bay summers at the beach and being such great friends we miss you . Xoxo Leslie , Mark, Gladys , David
Thanks for being such wonderful folks and great friends

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