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Robert HARPER Obituary
Bob passed away peacefully on November 7 at Eden Care Home, Chilliwack, B.C. from Alzheimer Disease with his family by his side, and his favorite music playing. Bob will be lovingly remembered by his wife Jennifer (Jenny) of 45 years, son Paul (Sasa) grandsons Jacob and Eric, son Martin (Layla), and his many dear friends in B.C. and Ontario and relations overseas.
Bob was a wonderful husband, dad, grand dad and friend. He loved soccer, golf, sailing, skiing and singing.
The family would like to thank the staff at Eden Care who took care of Bob so well.
Special thanks to dear friends, without whose support through the past two years, this would have been a lonely road.
A celebration of Bob's life is planned for the Spring.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Alzheimer Research.
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Memories and Condolences
for Robert HARPER
17 Entries
November 29, 2010
There's a Piper Doon.
Hemlock Valley, Bob, sprawled in a twist of skis on the snow, in front of a crowd of onlookers, bellowing in a Scottish accent, "There's a piper doon!!!"
Part of our memories of one of the nicest guys we know. A hard working man who loved his wife and family, a loyal friend, and a serious party boy.
Bob loved life and lived it to the full. Soccer, golf with buddies, camping, skiiing at Hemlock, and noisy house parties were all part of his world.
Whether he showed up, frequently dressed in full Scottish regalia, or more simply in a housewife's apron with a tray of hors d'oevres, we all knew that, sadly, there would be a complete lack of underthings. He was known for that particular style.
John remembers the fun times at the Hay's cabin. Once when he had turned in for the night, dozens of us, Bob and Dudley included, conga-lined around the cabin, climbed up into the loft singing and clambered over John in bed. I could go on with other cavorting stories but I would be wisely censored.
Bob taught us and our four children, by his example, not to take life too seriously - with his cheery manner and humour.
We have frequently thought of Bob during the time of his poor health and we have missed him a lot in advance.
Jenny and Bob had a dream of travelling down the Baja coast with a camper and did actually have one vacation in Loreto, Mexico. We are heading down to Cabo San Lucas shortly and will grab a Corona and toast that larger than life man. Adios!
Well my friends, there is a piper doon!!!
Lots of Love,
Chris and John Warltier and family
Chris and John Warltier
November 29, 2010
There's a Piper Doon!
Hemlock Valley, Bob, sprawled in a twist of skis on the snow, in front of a crowd of onlookers, bellowing in a Scottish accent, "There's a piper doon!!!"
Part of our memories of one of the nicest guys we know. A hard working man who loved his wife and family, a loyal friend, and a serious party boy.
Bob loved life and lived it to the full. Soccer, golf with buddies, camping, skiing at Hemlock, and noisy house parties were all part of his world.
Whether he showed up, frequently dressed in full Scottish regalia, or more simply in a housewife's apron with a tray of hors d'oevres, we all knew that, sadly, there would be a complete lack of underthings. He was known for that particular style.
John remembers the fun times at the Hay's cabin. Once when he had turned in for the night, dozens of us, Bob and Dudley included, conga-lined around the cabin, climbed up into the loft singing and clambered over John in bed. I could go on with other cavorting stories but I would wisely be censored.
Bob taught us and our four children, by his example, not to take life too seriously - with his cheery manner and humour.
We have frequently thought of Bob during the time of his poor health and we have missed him a lot in advance.
Jenny and Bob had a dream of travelling down the Baja coast with a camper and did actually have one vacation in Loreto, Mexico. We are heading down to Cabo San Lucas shortly and will grab a Corona and toast that larger than life man. Adios!
Well, my friends, there is a piper doon!!!
Los of Love, Chris and John Warltier
margaret Neville
November 24, 2010
In memory of a lovely man who sadly we knew only for a short time but long enough to know that he was a very special person. A candle also burns in Gloucester Cathedral for you.
Margaret and Joe Neville xx
Donna Moulton
November 22, 2010
We send our love and thoughts to you Jennifer and your family at this time, Layla has told me how wonderful you are, and we would of loved to of met Bob .. truly sorry for your loss.
Donna and Damien
November 22, 2010
Fond memories of Bob, he used to make us laugh with his stories from when he was a boy in Barnet, England. He will be missed by everyone here, a dear cousin and nephew. Thinking of all the family, lots of love always from Janet, Simon, Carlo, Joyce and Andrew.
Anne and Danny Keeble
November 21, 2010
We were sad to hear about Bob passing and hope he is at peace now. Our memories of Bob are full of fun and laughter, 'mooning' on New Years Eve, the life of every party! Our thoughts are with you Jenny and your family.
Rita & Allister Keith
November 19, 2010
We have known Bob and Jenny close to 30 years and we have never seen Bob in a bad mood. What a great happy and fun loving man he was and still is in our hearts. We have partied and laughed in all 5 houses they have owned in the lower mainland. We really enjoyed our visits to Chilliwack for a weekend of golf and to indulge in a little plunk oops i mean a lot of plunk. We truly believe that we have seen more of Bob's backside than his face. He really is one of a kind never to be seen again and we miss him.
Jenny it was wonderful to see how you cared and looked after Bob though his horrible ordeal. He is now at peace and he goes on his way knowing how you and his kids and grandkids and friends loved and cared about him.
We send our love to you Jenny, Paul and his family and Martin.
November 19, 2010
We have know Jenny and Bob close to 30 years and we have never seen Bob in a bad mood. What a great happy and fun loving man he was and still is in our hearts. We have partied and laughed in all 5 houses they have had in the lower mainland. We so enjoyed our visits to Chilliwack for our weekend of get together and golf and in indulge in a little plunk oops i mean a lot of plunk. We truly believe that we have seen more of Bob's backside than his face. He really is one of a kind and we miss him.
Jennny it was wonderful to see how you cared and looked after Bob through his horrible ordeal. He is now at peace and he goes on his way knowing how you and his kids and grandkids and friends loved and cared about him.
We send our love to you Jenny, Paul and his family and Martin.
Rita and Allister Keith
November 19, 2010
We knew Bob from his visits to Geneva to our friend Eileen, Jenny's sister. He was such a likeable, warm character, with a good sense of humour and it was a real pleasure to have known him. In this difficult time, our thoughts are with Jenny and her family.
Pauline and Bob, Geneva
Chester Spink
November 18, 2010
The world has lost an outrageous, fun, competative, gregarious man to a truly horrible disease, and we have lost a very, very dear friend.
Bob, or "Ginge" as he was sometimes called by me, was a very competent sailor, he played racquet ball like a demon and was a great "stink bidder" at bridge. Bob was not shy. He had a penchant for removing his clothes and dressing-up. He loved to shock people, but it was always in fun. Lynn fondly remembers Bob's love of music and his great dance moves.
He has been a wonderful friend to me and my family since 1974 and we sorely miss him.
Our love to Jenny, Paul and Family, and Martin from Chester & Lynn Spink and Family
Helen Tattersall
November 18, 2010
Bob - you and Jenny have been such a big part of my life. Especially my teen years. I loved coming over to your place. Again when I moved to Vancouver there you both were letting me stay with you. We had some wild times in Vancouver and I'll never forget them or you. Always a lot of laughing - I also enjoyed my time babysitting the boys. I won't forget you Bob, I'll bet right now you are having a pint and a good laugh. Say hi to Arnie for me OK. Cheers
Love Helen
A breath of fresh air xxx
Jon and Nanci Owens
November 16, 2010
Beloved Bob, how wonderful it was to be part of your life. Thankyou for sharing your life with us, we will always remember the first visit, meeting you in Sear's car-park, Chilliwack. So many happy memories, never a dull moment, always a smile and a giggle. We'll raise a glass or two to you. Rest in peace Dear Bob, always in our hearts. Thankyou, to you Jenny as well, he was a wonderful man. We are always thinking of you. We look forward to seeing you and all the family in 2011.
Bill Cooke
November 16, 2010
Bob was the first person I met when coming to Canada in 1964 and he typically took me under his wing to show me the ropes in this new adventure. I remember so much about those early days. Our stay at the "British Embassy" on Caroline Street, getting married within a month of each other, the many good times at local nighteries, the list goes on and includes those trips we made to Vancouver. We have all lost a great friend in his passing.
My thoughts and prayers are offered for Jenny, Paul and Martin and families.
Eileen Dyer
November 16, 2010
I was pleased that I had a chance to say farewell to Bob on my recent visit. He is now at peace and is in a better place. Hopefully, one day there will be a cure for this dreadful disease and in the meantime I will continue to donate to research.
Rosaleen Evans
November 16, 2010
If life is about 'leaving your mark' then Bob did his job. Never a dull moment, what a great guy. My love and thoughts are with you Jenny, Paul, Martin & family. Your friend Rosaleen xx
Janice Cox
November 15, 2010
Jennifer,
I only knew Bob through our many correspondences over these lonely years for you. I know you missed him a lot and will continue to do so. The suffering is over for him, thankgoodness. I hope the healing can begin for you.
Margaret Duncan
November 15, 2010
To a loved cousin Bob,who came from a large,great Scottish family, who hailed from Portessie,Buckie,Banffshire,Scotland.They all loved life @ a good laugh,@ Bob like us all carry this on.
It is sad that Bob is the first of our generation to pass on,but will be remembered to me as a great loving cousin,who made me laugh with his e-mails.(thank God for e-mails,we are the richer for them.)
Love to Jenny @ family.From
Cousins Margaret,George@ families,Shetland @ Aberdeen
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