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Brett Enemark Obituary

BRETT ALLAN ENEMARK (1948-2017) On World Poetry Day, March 21, peace came to Brett, surrounded by closest family members. Second son of Spike and Margaret Enemark, Brett was born and raised in Prince George, B.C., returning to work there on several occasions as a surveyor. A Ph.D. student of Interdisplinary Studies at Simon Fraser University, Brett taught film, specializing in early Canadian cinema. He subsequently found his most satisfying work teaching a writing group and editing a newsletter at the Burnaby Mental Wellness Centre, a drop-in centre for persons facing mental health issues. A Renaissance Man, Brett early on wrote poetry and edited Iron, a poetry magazine. He was a talented visual artist, returning to it full-time in his final year at the Powell River Brain Injury Centre. Brett made bread, as his Grandmother and Mother had taught him, up until his final health challenge and joked, when his speech was playing tricks on him, that he could still open a pizza parlour. In his thirties, he delighted in applying his surveying skills to building roads for the Nicaraguan Revolution & collected "copy" for many short stories while building roads in Tumbler Ridge and other points in North East B.C. Always a "leftie", Brett did his time as a somewhat reluctant steward in the BCGEU. When facing health challenges in his last 15 years of life, Brett frequently remarked that he had never expected to live past thirty, but that he was so grateful for his life with loving wife Candace (which commenced when he was 42), and his good fortune to become a father (at 48), of two daughters, the Lights of his Life: Lucy in 1996 and Marta in 1998. His first brain tumour came 4 years later, but he never let the challenge of six recurrent brain operations, and the development of a seizure disorder, slow him down. With his girls, he made a beautiful playhouse on stilts in the back yard, after his first surgery, and continued to build trellises, lay hardwood floors, build decks and remodel the kitchen, and anything else that needed to be built or repaired. Although he always remained modest about his ability to make anything, his contributions to the households in East and North Vancouver, then Powell River, were continuous (e.g., at least one bookcase in every room). His only expressed regret was that he had never finished his novel, but he still hoped to sail at his new home in Powell Riviera, recalling his earliest happy times at the family cabin on Cluculz Lake, sailing and canoeing. Brett valued his many close friends in the poetry, mental health, law and Brainiac community, who have been a great source of comfort to Candace, Lucy and Marta. Brett is survived by his mother, Margaret, brothers Gordon (Peggy) and Tex (Sandi), sister-in-law Marianne and nieces and nephews Delia and Adrienne (John), Kiersten (Fred), Tasha (Peter) and Ashleigh, Blake (Alexa) and Bret, Goddaughters Alexandra and Jacqueline Renate Candace, loving cousins, great nephews and great niece. The family wishes to thank Dr. A. Mutat, who performed all of Brett's brain operations with kindness and skill, Dr. A. Howard, his neuropsychiatrist over approximately 11 years (ever supportive and available), and the empathetic and skilled nurses at the ICU at Lions Gate Hospital, who cared for Brett in his last three weeks as he fought meningitis, but succumbed to a stroke. In lieu of flowers, donations would be appreciated to the Powell River Brain Injury Society at 101-7020 Duncan St., Powell River, B.C. V8A 1V9 or through Paypal on their website: www.braininjurysociety.ca Karin Reinhold read Rilke to Brett in the hospital. Rilke's aphorism about Loss, as translated by Karl Siegler, follows: "One must never despair when something is lost: a person or a joy or a blessing; everything returns with a magnificence even greater. What must fall off, falls away; that which belongs to us, stays with us, for everything proceeds according to its own laws which surpass our understanding, and with which we merely appear to be in discord. One must live within oneself and think upon all of life, all of its millions of possibilities, distances and futures, against which nothing shall prevail that is either past or lost." Celebrations of Life will be planned for the late summer in Vancouver and Powell River.

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Published by Prince George Citizen from Apr. 1 to Apr. 3, 2017.

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Roxanne Henderson

July 29, 2018

He was a very kind and caring man, I will miss him a lot. I am sorry for your loss.

January 1, 2018

HE IS MY CANADIAN BROTHER,, ALWAYS IN MY HEART!! CHEERS BRO!!XXXOO. gaston ugalde

Frank Karau

November 28, 2017

It was a pleasure to have known and worked with Brett up in Tumbler Ridge back in 1981. He was a truly unique and lovable person. As a surveyor one of my favorite work stories I still tell is when Brett as my helper and I laid out our first point together. I told him how far the point was from the instrument rounding it off to the nearest couple meters. He insisted on knowing the exact distance. Okay Brett it's 328.768 meters away from the instrument, I chuckled. He picked up his stake bag and with his beloved razor sharp Oxhead axe and prism pole in hand started pacing away from the instrument up the BCR rail grade. When he stopped and gave me the shot he was within 5 centimeters of the distance! And it was always that way. He was a great surveyor and incredible friend. My condolences to the family.

June 15, 2017

Just to let you know, Brett's Celebration of Life will be held on Aug. 22, 2017 at 2:00 pm at the Unitarian Church in Vancouver. There will also be another Celebration of Life for Brett at the Brain Injury Centre garden in Powell River, B.C. on Sept. 17, 2017 from noon to 4:00 pm

Christine7Robert Cooper

April 20, 2017

To all of the Enemark Clan,our
heartfelt condolences and thanks for an inspirational tribute to a remarkable human being!
With fond memories,

Elaine Perry

April 3, 2017

I'm sad to hear this news about my old Prince George friend who recently reconnected with me through Facebook after 60+ years. I was touched by his honouring of our family and hometown connections. Condolences to Candace, Lucy and Marta.

Anne Wiebe

April 3, 2017

I worked with Brett at Burnaby Mental Wealth and could not have chosen a better cohort. He advocated and supported many of the members that needed that extra bit of understanding or help. The writing group that he started there was always well attended because he was so good assisting our members in expressing what they needed or wanted to say.
A true humanitarian in every sense of the word. Will miss him.

Jan Schmitz

April 3, 2017

I knew Brett well years ago when we were both at Vancouver Coop Radio. He is one of the most talented people I've known. His writing was exquisite.

"Every artist dips his brush in his own soul, and paints his own nature into his pictures." ~ Henry Ward Beecher

An afternoon on Brett's deck with the BMWS crew.

Bob Sparks

April 2, 2017

Thinking of Brett. A good man.

Susila (nee Gail) Bryant

April 2, 2017

Loving condolences to Candace,Margaret, Gordon, Tex, and each of your family members at this time. I am sorry for your loss. Thank you for giving such a full
accounting in the obituary of Brett's rich life. He would come to our MMC concerts at St. Andrew's Wesley, and always make a point of connecting. I must find the photo of us taken at Jamie Reid's memorial at the Wyse Hall. Our fathers, Spike and Gordon, were great pals. God bless your soul, Brett; and thank you for your open-hearted spirit.

Andrew Howard

April 2, 2017

What a person he was.
Tender, humble, strong, loving.
Best wishes to all whom he adored.

April 2, 2017

A lovely tribute to a kind, generous, loving, talented and witty guy.
Adieu dear Brettsky.
Heartfelt condolences to all of Brett's loved ones.
Pat Feindel

Claudia MacDonald

April 1, 2017

It is a special gift to read the lovely story of Brett's unique and accomplished life.....and all the love. My condolences to his family, friends and all those he touched, as he moved through his life.

Alexandra Twigg

April 1, 2017

Lots of love. Hope where ever you are you free and happy Brett. Jacquelyn Proctor and I are lucky to be your goddaughters xoxoxoxo

Jackie Swanky

April 1, 2017

Enjoy the new adventure, Brett.
Your parents were folk whose friendship I valued greatly.

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