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1933

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2022

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Welland, Ontario

Frank Hilbing Obituary

March 4, 1933 - December 26, 2022
Passed away peacefully in his sleep at Rapelje Lodge in Welland, at the age of 89. He is survived by his
loving wife Mary (nee Durliat), and his four children and 13 grandchildren. Mathew (Anna) with Loretta,
Domenic, Maria, and Michael. John (Allison) with Nicholas, Brady, Ceara, and Mackenzie. Mary Ann
(Jonathan) with Landon, Ethan, and Grayson. Joe (late Melissa) with Josh and Aaron. Frank was born in
Vreden, Germany and came to Canada in 1956. Predeceased by his parents, Heinrich and Maria Hilbing,
his brothers Gerard and John, and sisters Gertrude, Anna, Maria, Elizabeth, and Hedwig. Survived by his
sister-in-law Christine.
Frank was always interested in soccer, having played for many years, for Club Heidelberg in St.
Catharines and Club Rheingold in Port Colborne, as well as coaching many teams. He started minor
soccer in Wainfleet in the late 1970, with 40 children and today more than 400 youngsters are playing a
couple nights a week in the summer. Frank will be lovingly remembered by his family and by the many
people in the community who knew him.
Thank you to the staff on House 300 at Rapelje Lodge for their love and care of Frank over the last 3
years.
The family will receive friends at the JJ Patterson Funeral Home on Young St in Welland on Monday, January 2 from 2-4 and 6-8. A Mass will be held at St. Elizabeth Church in Wainfleet on Tuesday, January 3 at 11:00 a.m. Interment to follow at Maple Lawn Cemetery on Smith St in Wainfleet.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Elizabeth Church, Wainfleet or Rapelje Lodge, Welland or a Charity of Your Choice. Share memories, photos and condolences online at www.jjpatterson.ca

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Published by St. Catharines Standard on Dec. 29, 2022.

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Terry Grand

January 3, 2023

I wish to say Thanks Coach for teaching us the game of soccer. My brothers and I were young teenagers when we joined Club Reingold and Fr as no was our first coach
We played for him for years and greatly appreciated this opportunity.
I remember when he had us over to his house for a corn roast and to introduce his new bride.
God bless you Frank!
Terry Grand

Peter Skowronek

January 3, 2023

Frank was a true friend and fellow farmer to my Father Ferdinand (Fred) and myself
His passion for soccer as a player and a coach is is unsurpassed. He took a young hockey player who thought he knew everything and made him a proud soccer player who loved the game... impacted my life .. Thanks Frank
God Bless You

Joe and Ann Nori

January 1, 2023

Mary, Matt, John, Joe and MaryAnn:
We can attest that Frank Hilbing was a fervent, practising Catholic. We often chatted and got caught-up after mass on Sundays at St.Elizabeth church. We will miss your smile and warm thoughts, Frank. We know that you were a hard worker and gave back to the community through soccer. Congratulations on a life well-lived. Rest in peace, Frank.
Joe and Ann Nori

Bryan Skolnik

January 1, 2023

Mrs. Hilbing, Mat, Anna and family:

I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Hilbing´s passing. From the way back, always talked about his father, it is obvious to me that he will not be replaced. May his memory be a blessing to you all.

Bryan Skolnik

January 1, 2023

Mrs. Hilbing, Mat, Anna and family:

My sincere condolences on the passing of Mr. Hilbing. From the way Mat spoke of his father, it is clear that he was a treasure who will not be replaced. May his memory be a blessing to you all both now and forever.

Marion Lundy

December 31, 2022

Mary & family. My condolences on you loss of Frank. He was a great & gentle man. He will be missed.

Helen

December 30, 2022

Our deepest condolence from Jim and Helen Matyas

Tom Grand

December 29, 2022

I've always been thankful for meeting Frank as a teenager. He took a number of us under his wing as a soccer coach for Club Rheingold. He was a great coach but even a better human being. He led by example teaching us to be good sports and to treat everyone with decency and respect.

Tom Grand

Ed & Olga Schafrick

December 29, 2022

So sad to hear of Franks passing. our sincere condolences to you Mary and your family.

Paul Bailey

December 29, 2022

Frank and I had many interesting conversations during our farming days in Wainfleet. He will be missed. My sincere condolences to Mary and his family.

Frank Fohr

December 29, 2022

I will always remember Frank for his dedication and heart-felt love for soccer. He helped introduce soccer to myself and a number of friends who formed the Club Rheingold "B" Team.

Barbara Lavallee

December 29, 2022

To Mrs Hilbing Matt, Joe, John,
and Marry Ann my deepest sympathy and condolences to your family from ours Barbara Scott, Tyson and Angie .

Denise Bourque

December 29, 2022

My thoughts and prayers are with the Hilbing Family, especially for Mary at this very sad time. Spending some time with Mary and John on Christmas Day was very special for me and I will remember Frank´s friendly handshake when I visited him and his deep and abiding faith. God bless.
Denise Bourque

Ange & Ann Moccia

December 29, 2022

To : Mary, Matt, John, Joe & MaryAnn;

Our thoughts and friendship goes out to you and your families over Frank's passing.

Many good memories, meals, and music will truly be remembered.

Our thoughts and prayers will be with you all.

Ange & Ann Moccia and Family.

Brenda (Mole) Gaudreau

December 29, 2022

Sincere condolences to the Hilbing Family for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Garry and Sandra Balicki

December 28, 2022

Mary Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family .

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Memorial Events
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2

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

J.J. Patterson and Son

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Jan

2

Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

J.J. Patterson and Son

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Jan

3

Funeral Mass

11:00 a.m.

St. Elizabeth Church

Wainfleet, ON

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19 Young Street, Welland, ON L3B 4C5