BARBARA RUTH HOLLAND

1937 - 2024

(nee Carney) Passed away peacefully, at the age of 87, in Ottawa on Sunday, December 8, 2024, in the loving company of her four children, David, Bradley, Amy and Glenn. She was a beloved mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, aunt, cousin, niece and friend. Barb was born in 1937 in Meaford, Ontario, the only daughter of Elmer and Lillian Carney, and sister to Don and Robert. She was raised on a dairy farm in Peel Region and attended the local Brampton high school. A lifelong love affair with life, Barb showed us how to live with a fierce sense of independence, a strong work ethic, and a commitment to family. Her sacrifices, especially after losing her husband, were immeasurable. She was always there for her children, ensuring they never went without, and teaching them the importance of resilience and generosity. Married to the love of her life, Tony, her soulmate for 23 short years, they were the perfect pair. Together, they formed the heart and soul of the family, creating great memories of summers spent in PEI, country auctions, cooking and pickling/preserving at the kitchen table. Barb's life with him was a true partnership, their bond was unshakable. She dedicated her working life to teaching, having graduated from the Ryerson Institute of Technology (now the Toronto Metropolitan University), attaining her teaching credential in 1959. She spent the majority of her career working at the Peel District School Board. Teaching was her passion, and she was dedicated to ensuring her students had the skills to be successful in life. Her life was full of love for her children, grandchildren and many friends. She loved to spend time entertaining at her cottage on Pine Lake and home in Lorne Park. These times were always filled with laughter, and every family gathering was an open invitation to friends and loved ones, each occasion an opportunity to build memories that we cherish today. We can picture her right now on the cottage deck with a gin and tonic in her hand, holding court. Barb had a famously private side. Notoriously hard to read, she didn't wear her heart on her sleeve, but those close to her knew how deeply she cared. Her family was everything, and she made sure they knew that through her actions. She taught us that there is always room for one more, that you never show up empty-handed, and that a letter, a card, or a note was the best way to make someone feel special; each one of us has a responsibility to not only participate in but give back and contribute to our communities in a positive way. Barb was a true foodie before the term had been coined, known to be a stylish dresser, and became an avid traveller after retirement. Barb was also a passionate antique collector, and you could find her on most weekends at the closest market or auction. She never sought attention, but was often quoted by others as "classically elegant," "generous," and "funny." Special occasions, Christmas, Easter and Sunday dinners still required a formal plate setting with crystal, china and silverware - not to mention proper manners being the rule of the day. The family would like to thank the care staff at Courtyards on Eagleson for the care and compassion they provided to Barb in the last few years, and especially in her final days. She will be missed by her children, David (Lori), Bradley (Ruth Anne), Amy (Jamie), and Glenn (Kam); and grandchildren, Emma, Matthew, Andrew, James, Rebecca, Aidan, Owain and Merin; along with her nephews and nieces. Predeceased by her husband, John Anthony "Tony" Holland; her parents, Elmer and Lillian Carney; and brother, Donald Carney (Joan). Survived by her brother, Robert Carney (Karen). The funeral service will be held at the John Bell Chapel, Appleby College (540 Lakeshore Road West, Oakville) at 2 p.m. on Thursday, December 19, 2024, immediately followed by a reception – details to be provided. All friends and family are welcome. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Alzheimer Society of Canada or your local food bank at this time of year. Online condolences at www.koprivataylor.com.