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Brian FLOOD

1943 - 2023

Brian FLOOD obituary, 1943-2023, Toronto, ON

BORN

1943

DIED

2023

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Brian FLOOD Obituary

BRIAN MICHAEL FLOOD 1943 - 2023 Brian died peacefully, at St. Michael's Hospital, on June 8th, surrounded by family. He was deeply loved by his wife of 55 years, Patricia (Doohan); his sons, Michael (Jill Burgin) and Christopher (Kelly McRobie); and his grandchildren, Sam, Sarah, Charlotte, Alex and Carey. He was predeceased by his big sister, Patricia (the other Pat Flood). We are very grateful for all the lessons we learned from Brian and from reflecting on the way he lived his life. He had remarkable strength of character, commitment, and genuine kindness. He had an exceptional ability to engage, understand and support people of all ages and from all walks of life. He navigated challenges with quiet determination, generosity and humour. He has provided us with a clear and inspirational path to follow which will endure. Brian was raised in London, Ontario, by his parents, Norbert and Marjorie (Queenan) Flood, with a lot of help from the broader Flood family after the death of his mother when he was a teenager. He found focus and motivation through sports, particularly when he had a tennis racquet in his (left) hand. He was one of the early success stories from a participation-oriented tennis program established by Jack Fairs on London's public tennis courts, a program that produced some of Canada's best players of the 1960s. He won a scholarship to play at the University of Michigan, ultimately becoming captain of the 1965 Big Ten Championship team (Go Blue!). His time in Ann Arbor, and with Canadian tennis in general, proved to be a pivotal experience in his life; most importantly, he gained a community and group of friends that became a constant and enduring source of support, comfort and fun for Brian, and Brian for them, throughout his life. He continued his studies at the University of Western Ontario, graduating with a law degree, and later from Osgoode Hall with a Masters of Law. In his early years at Western, he re-connected with Patricia Doohan, a sophomore student, whom he first met many years earlier when Pat's parents asked if young Brian would walk their daughter to school at St. Martin's in South London. It was the start of a true love story and partnership in life that lasted 55 years. Together, they moved to Toronto in 1968 when he joined Kilgour, World, a small law firm that allowed Brian to learn all aspects of the law and leadership from wonderful mentors. He joined Torys in 1981, where he spent the remainder of his career as an exceptional corporate lawyer, ultimately being elected Chair of the firm's Executive Committee by his partners. He loved his partners and colleagues at Torys, especially a group of younger lawyers known as the 'Sons and Daughters of Brian.' Brian and Pat had a lot of fun getting to know many of his Torys friends, clients and their families outside of work, many of whom remained close to him to the end. Outside of work and family, Brian quietly battled the challenges of kidney disease, the same condition that took the life of his mother, which included 6 years of dialysis. Despite the health challenges he faced, we never heard a complaint. In 2000, he was given what he considered a second chance at life through the gift of a successful kidney transplant performed by an outstanding team of professionals from the St. Michael Hospital Nephrology Department, led by Dr. Jeffrey Zaltzman. He was forever grateful to the anonymous donor and his or her family. As inaugural Chair of the Trillium Gift of Life Network, Brian drove the concept, vision and early establishment of a world-class organization that has raised awareness of the importance of organ donation, improved access to organ transplants in Ontario, and given hope to others facing similar challenges. He was also a proud Chair of Covenant House Toronto. Brian made an impact in every community he was a part of. A special thank you to the Oncology Department, including the doctors, nurses and other staff on the 8th floor of the Peter Gilgan Tower, at St. Michael's Hospital, for their excellent and compassionate care over the past weeks and months. A Memorial Mass will be held on Thursday, June 15th, at 10 a.m. at St. Basil's Church, 50 St. Joseph Street, with a Reception to follow at The Toronto Lawn Tennis Club from 12:30-3:30 p.m. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to St. Michael's Hospital Foundation. For additional funeral updates please consult www.humphreymiles.com
Published by The Globe and Mail from Jun. 10 to Jun. 19, 2023.

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Richard Wernham

July 14, 2023

Brian was my office neighbour at Torys in the early 1980s. An experienced and wise lawyer, he was very considerate and understanding of my early challenges as a neophyte corporate solicitor. For that I will always be grateful. The frequent laughter from his office told me more than words
could that law practice could be enjoyed if only you brought the right attitude to it. Brian understood that business law was about people as much as legal principles and he was interested in the personalities that came though his office, taking the time to get to know them. I remember
how fascinated he was by a new client who was engaged in searching for undersea lost treasure and had survived a shark attack. The client was
delighted by Brian's interest and showed us scars from having had his arm nearly ripped off. I have tried to emulate Brian's enthusiasm toward work
and the people you encounter doing it throughout my career.
Brian also participated in our little private timeshare club on Pont Street in Knighsbridge. In that context all our interactions were an
absolute pleasure. He and Pat were extremely courteous and appreciative throughout.
Our mutual friend, Patricia Jackson, tried to arrange a dinner for us all this spring and I am so sorry that we were never able to make this happen, but I am very happy to have known such a good and a generous spirit.

Peter Wright

July 8, 2023

I was saddened to learn this past week of Brian´s passing last month, my condolences to Pat and the family. Since our days of touring on the junior tennis circuit as fellow Jack Fairs kids; the national tournament in Ottawa, the Orange bowl in Florida and the annual golf outing with Tony and George at the Chateau Montebello are all special memories. Brian was truly a gentleman, goodbye old friend.

Thomas Ewer

June 19, 2023

I was a younger understudy of Brian´s in Jack Fairs junior development program and remember Floody as a quiet, stoic gentleman with a huge capacity to lead. I rode in his old Chevy in the early 60 s enroute to Ottawa for a national junior tennis tournament . When it eventually broke down or ran out of gas about half way from London ,Brian cooly but quickly sent myself and Peter Wright on a short hitch hiking mission for help. We were successful in reviving the car and made it to our first matches on schedule. There are more warm memories but can´t be sure of their accuracy. Nevertheless it was a pleasure being associated with Brian and extend my sincerest condolences to all family members. Thom as (Tommy) Ewer.

Miriam Kagan

June 19, 2023

Dear Pat and Flood family,
My deep condolences to you. I had the great pleasure of knowing Brian and being mentored by him at Torys. What a smart, gracious and generous person he was, always eager to help us juniors along to grow professionally. His wonderful values set such a fine example. To continue seeing Brian at the tennis club over the years was an additional treat. I will miss him.

Geoff Creighton

June 16, 2023

Brian had a quiet confidence and grace that put people at ease, even in difficult situations. His understated sense of humour helped as well. In so many ways, he was a model for so many young lawyers. He will be missed but well-remembered by those who try to live as he did. I feel lucky to have known him.

Lisa McClintock

June 16, 2023

Dear Pat, Michael and Chris, I was very saddened to hear of Brian´s passing. I have fond memories of our times together. Brian and all the Floods were always so generous, fun and inclusive. His love and pride for all of you always shone through. May all your wonderful memories bring you comfort during this very sad time. RIP dear Brian with "the other Pat Flood" and mom and dad!
Lisa McClintock

Peter Tolnai

June 15, 2023

I was a client of Brian's at Torys and he was a superb lawyer in every way. He also invited me to join a group which attended a University of Michigan football game which I will remember for my lifetime! He was one of the great ones and I offer my condolences to Pat and the rest of the family. All the best

Peter Jewett

June 14, 2023

Brian was special. He will be missed by so many. I had the great privilege to be his partner at Torys for many many years and worked with him on the firm's executive committee for many of those years. He exemplified all that is good in people: patience, humility, humour, empathy, insight, honesty, perspective - the list just goes on and on! The world is a lesser place without him!

Pat Koval

June 14, 2023

My deepest condolences to Pat and the family. I was really fortunate to work with Brian when I was a young lawyer at Torys. Each time was a wonderful experience. I learned so much from Brian, and his work motto "lets do the right thing" became mine. A lovely man, who will be much missed by everyone who knew him.

Phil Payne

June 14, 2023

Dear Pat and the Flood family.
Growing up watching Brian teach in London was a treat.
We pass on our congratulations on your lives well lived.
Barb & Phil Payne

Michael Ball

June 14, 2023

A truly wonderful fellow. As all the notes that people have left say, just a really nice man. Our sympathies to Pat and family, you are in our prayers. Joan and Michael Ball

Sandra Dear

June 14, 2023

So long as one person remembers, it is not over. As we say in Jamaica "walk good my friend", we will meet again! I recall that Brian was the only lawyer I knew who would hug the furniture (o/c secretaries). Sons - you have big shoes to fill. Lovely, decent giant. Sandra Dear

Phill Lehrman

June 14, 2023

Brian was one of the nicest and most respectable people I have ever met. I always enjoyed his company and appreciated his welcoming and empathetic nature. I´ve missed him and it saddens me.

Margot Richardson

June 13, 2023

Dear Pat
We are sorry to hear the sad news about Brian. He was a super tennis player and always a gentleman. We have fond memories of you both at the Toronto Lawn Tennis Club.
We send our best wishes to you abd your family.
Hugs
Margot and Martin Richardson

Carol Shipton

June 13, 2023

John and I met Brian and Pat at the Toronto Lawn Tennis club in the mid-70´s. True to his giving nature, he served on the Board of Directors and as President. I will always remember his lovely, genuine smile, his quiet, calming presence, his voice of reasoning, his sense of humour: he was a wonderful man and his loss to family and community is immeasurable. My sincere condolences to Pat and his family.

Michael McDonald

June 13, 2023

I am so sorry to hear of the recent passing of Brian. He was my first mentor (along with the late Peter Ballantyne) when I joined Torys as an impressionable articling student in 1991. He was kind, generous and thoughtful. All of my interactions with Brian started and ended with his warm smile. He has been a consistent model for me throughout my career regarding how a partner and senior lawyer should work with and authentically care for the junior colleagues around them. My sincere condolences to Pat and family. I will miss him.

David Zender

June 12, 2023

I only worked with Brian for a short time in the 80´s, but he had a major influence. He was a strong advocate for his clients, while still being kind, calm, courteous and always acting with the utmost integrity. Brian showed me that law was a profession (not just a job) that required the highest ethical standards. We kept in touch over the years over lunches, and he was always a pleasure to be with. Brian truly cared and had a genuine interest in what was going on in my life. Brian was a great man, a great lawyer, and a true gentleman. My condolences to Pat and family.

Sharon Geraghty

June 12, 2023

I am heartbroken to lose Brian. He was simply the best - my greatest mentor and a dear dear friend. To have had the chance to work with him, learn from him and share his company was truly a gift. I will miss him always.

Andrew Hermant

June 12, 2023

Brian was a gentleman on and off the tennis court. He will be missed by all those who had the pleasure of playing tennis with him at the Queen's Club. Send my sincere condolences to the family.

Gillian E. Smith

June 12, 2023

Condolences to Brian's family. I met Brian while working at Torys. He was one of the nicest, kindest, people in a firm of nice and kind people. He was a very special person and will never be forgot.

Dan Donnelly

June 12, 2023

These words in the obituary perfectly describe the Brian I remember from Torys: "He had remarkable strength of character, commitment, and genuine kindness. He had an exceptional ability to engage, understand and support people of all ages and from all walks of life." My condolences to Pat and the rest of his family. He was a wonderful man.

Kathleen Keller-Hobson

June 12, 2023

So many fond memories of working with Brian at Torys, and get-togethers with him and Pat in Toronto and London. He was a friend to everyone and will be sorely missed. Deepest sympathy to Pat and the family.

Suh Kim

June 12, 2023

I have very fond memories of Brian. A wonderful colleague and a gentleman through and through. He once gave me tickets to a football game in The Big House--the one and only time I got to experience a Wolverines game. Thanks for that wonderful memory. My deepest condolences to his family. May he rest in peace.

Terra Rebick

June 12, 2023

I remember Brian so fondly from my years at Torys - his smile, warmth and kindness. Sending my condolensces to Brian's friends and family. He will be missed.

Roy Hogg

June 12, 2023

To Pat and family my sincere condolence. Highly regarded as a lawyer, tennis player, volunteer and board member at the Kidney Foundation and other charitable causes, but most importantly as a family oriented man of sterling character and practical faith. Peace, Roy Hogg

Amy Johnson-Spina

June 12, 2023

Brian and I got to know each other during his time in New York. His warm smile would light up a room. He was always so generous with his time for everyone in the office and he was truly beloved as a result! He was also a tremendous lawyer and a mentor to me as well as so many others. To say that he leaves behind a tremendous legacy at Torys would be a gross understatement. My love to all of his friends and family as we both mourn his passing and celebrate his life. Brian truly was one of the greats.

Kirsten Stacey

June 12, 2023

My sincere condolences to Brian's family. I met Brian at Torys through Peter Ballantyne. Brian was such a kind man with a friendly and welcoming smile.

Judy Wine

June 12, 2023

Such a loss. Brian was such a decent, lovely man. I met him at Torys when I was an articling student, over 30 years ago. I left Torys after a few years to spend quality time with my newly adopted son. About three years later, Brian contacted me: Tennis Canada was growing and looking for a lawyer that could devote more time (for less money!) and Brian remembered I was a tennis player/fan. It was such a thoughtful gesture and helped restart my career. I know he will be missed by so many.

Catherine Denreyer

June 12, 2023

My sincerest condolences to Brian's family. I met Brian when I started at Torys in 1983. Brian was such a kind and courteous man; the true definition of a gentleman.

Bill MacDonell

June 12, 2023

Great guy
Terrific athlete
Will be missed

Heather Burling

June 11, 2023

We were so sad to hear of Brian´s passing. My sister, Wendy Davis and I knew Brian when we played Junior tennis in
our teenage years. Just last week we were looking at old movies with Brian playing tennis with his good friend the late Tom Williamson. Great memories!

Heather (Davis) Burling
Newmarket

Fred Ollson

June 11, 2023

Brian was among my first friends in tennis when I started at 12 and he was 13. He was always someone I looked up to. Such a ray of light, laughing, positive in all ways towards everyone. I was privileged to have seen him one last time in Feb.
My condolences to Pat and their family.

Doryne Peace

June 11, 2023

Dear Pat. Andy and I are saddened to hear about Brian's death. Thinking of you and your family at this unhappy time. Doryne and Andy Peace

Marion Munro

June 11, 2023

Brian brightened every moment.
Love and Light to Pat and family.
Marion Munro,
Tennis friend since the 60's

Paul Dingle

June 11, 2023

Most sincere condolences to Pat and the rest of the Flood family.
Claire and Paul Dingle

Terence Robinson

June 11, 2023

I have many great memories of playing tennis with Brian and his willingness to share his deep knowledge of the game.His smooth strokes reflected his personality-always a class act.Condolences to his family .

Doug Sanderson

June 11, 2023

Brian was a good friend and tennis opponent at the Queens Club. Always hit some great shots, always a tough competitor but most of all a great personality off the court--We will miss him.

Marjorie Blackwood

June 11, 2023

Brian was always such a calm, classy person. he brought everyone around him up a level. His was a life well-lived. Condolences to his family, he will be missed by many.

Lisa Talbot

June 10, 2023

Brian was a wonderful colleague at Torys and someone I looked up to. He was always so kind, genuine, and warm. My condolences to your family.

Victor and Petra Routledge

June 10, 2023

We are very sad to hear of Brian´s passing. Our deepest condolences to Pat and family. We will miss his smile, wisdom, and conversations in the driveway .

Jim Turner

June 10, 2023

Brian was a wonderful friend and colleague who always had the firm´s best interests at heart. We relied upon him for so much over the years. When he joined the firm in 1981, the first matter he got involved with was a transaction working with me for Jim Baillie. It was a bit of an eye opener for him but he never looked back. Such wonderful memories. My condolences to Pat and the family.

Jim Turner

Bridget Dewyze

June 10, 2023

So sorry to read this. My condolences to all of Brian's family and friends. I will always remember Brian for his genuine kindness and humanity.

Lina Chiodo (Morrison)

June 10, 2023

To a truly amazing man and special friend .
I will miss our amazing chats , his intense interest in whatever topic imaginable, always listened with empathy , wisdom ,love and kindness. One of his favourite songs `young at heart ` which embodied him. We will forever miss you

Margaret Green

June 10, 2023

I've known Brian for years while working at Torys. He is such a genuine, kind-hearted gentleman. Brian took me along with my brother Kevin, who was 11 years old at that time (36 years ago) to my first football game at SkyDome, Brian was so patient explaining the game to me, we had so much fun, but up to today, I still don't understand the game. Brian had the most sincere smile, I will cherish his friendship forever. May Brian rest in peace.

Pat, my heart goes out to you and your family, at this difficult time. You are all in my prayers, my wish for you is having faith in God, he will provide you with peace, comfort, courage, and to instill in you lots of love at this time of sorrow.

Hugh Nevin

June 10, 2023

I met Brian Flood through Barry MacDonald, a fellow Michigan All-American (but in Barry's case in hockey). Brian impressed my wife (Eliza) and me with his quiet demeanor and a friendship which one could feel. Brian visited Naples (where we live) and we got to meet his lovely wife Pat. We were hoping they would purchase a winter residence here and join the large Toronto group here. But it didn't happen. We will miss Brian.
Hugh Nevin

Tom Zverina

June 10, 2023

Brian was such a wonderful mentor, teacher and friend. Always had a smile and story to share, and always had a way of making everyone feel welcome and comfortable. He was truly one of the good ones. He will be missed.

Dawn Scott

June 10, 2023

My deepest condolences to Pat and all of Brian's family. He was a lovely, kind and gracious man.

Gabby Tutak

June 10, 2023

My heartfelt condolences to the Flood family. My prayers are offered for the family at this difficult time.

Maureen Connelly

June 10, 2023

My sincere sympathy to the Flood family. Brian was a cherished patient at St Mikes. His strength of character and fortitude along with his kindness and humility was something to see. His immense gratitude to his nurses and doctors was so joyful to witness.
Sincerely
Maureen Connelly

Bob Wood

June 10, 2023

So saddened to hear of Brian's passing. I was a beneficiary of his seemingly unlimited kindness when he made a special effort to get me into the 1970 Junior Davis Cup Qualifying tournament. I never forgot what he did for me.

Robin Roger

June 10, 2023

It was my good fortune to have Brian for a neighbour for over a decade. He was always pleasant, responsive, supportive, and understanding. It's very true, as this obituary states, that he never complained about his health challenges, and always seemed to be embracing life with purpose and satisfaction. It feels as if a pillar has fallen even as a former neighbour so I deeply sympathize with the loss the entire family must be feeling now. Please accept my sincere sympathy.

C. Aguirre

June 10, 2023

My sincere condolences. I remember Brian from my years at Tory´s. A wonderful lawyer, very down to earth and authentic. This is very sad news. May he rest in peace. He will always be remembered.

Cristina

Lynn Graham

June 9, 2023

A truly kind, wonderful and genuine gentleman. Many fond memories of Brian from Tory’s days ♥!

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Memorial Events
for Brian FLOOD

Jun

15

Memorial Mass

10:00 a.m.

St. Basil's Church

50 St. Joseph Street, ON

Funeral services provided by:

Humphrey Funeral Home A.W. Miles - Newbigging Chapel Limited

1403 Bayview Avenue, Toronto, ON M4G 3A8