You are now on Legacy.com. Your site use is governed by their Terms and Conditions and Privacy Policy. Any purchases are with Legacy.com. Learn More

Search by Name

Search by Name

Brian OLDS Obituary

BRIAN F. OLDS Brian F. Olds, a most extraordinary man, died on August 25, 2020, proving, in fact, that 2020 could indeed get a lot worse. Brian passed away after a long courageous battle with cancer that doctors said should have killed him a lot sooner if he hadn't been so damn tough. Brian's personality was larger than life. Many laughs were shared among his friends and many excellent adventures were had. Brian was a friend who would never hesitate to help and the last to complain about his own lot in life. He had an unwavering fearlessness in his pursuits and passions for life. He could also be quite stubborn in his beliefs which made it easy to get under his skin; providing hours of entertainment for his buddies who would sometimes treat it like a sport. Brian was built like a bear and went to St. Francis Xavier University in Antigonish, Nova Scotia on a football scholarship where he played offensive line centre. He graduated with a BBA from St FX and a MBA from St Mary's in Halifax. He was also a chartered financial analyst. Brian ran one of the largest bond portfolios in Canada in his day and was quick to be a mentor to the younger members of the investment community. Brian had a heart of gold. He was tough as nails, very intelligent, generous to a fault, had wicked culinary skills and loved to host his friends. He was also a fierce adversary to anyone who got in his way - especially bank staff who tried to give him the runaround. He was a man with principles and integrity and was thoughtful, creative and open to new ideas. This along with his unwavering positive attitude brought him success in many ways. He cherished his time with his friends and their children - who loved his laughter and big bear hugs. As hard as he worked, he played harder. A diehard cyclist, Brian was a member of Toronto's famed 'Doughnut Ride' before he decided to retire "way up North" to Thornbury for better climbs and less side mirror hits. Brian enjoyed draping his shape in spandex and riding 100km a day. Skiing, sailing, motorcycling and road cycling took him to the many corners of the world. He particularly loved skiing at Jackson Hole "back before it was tourist-y." He also decided to give up football for Rugby after his schooling as it "had more action." All women wanted him and all men wanted to be him. But there was only one Brian and he was legally claimed by the love of his life and best friend, Ellen, after a thoughtful courting. Although they met later in life, he often said 'it feels like longer.' Nobody was quite sure of the denotation, but we assume it was positive. Brian was the perfect husband, setting an unrealistic example for others to follow. It was often getting him into trouble with his friends as their wives would expect similar treatment. No one could compete with such a class act and Ellen will truly miss Brian every day of her life that follows until she can be with him again. Brian was also dearly loved by their cat, Walter, and his in-laws, Bob and Joanne, who spoiled him rotten. Brian will be fondly remembered by his dear friends, Gaurav and Surjit Marwaha, James Cadeau and Sarah Groen, Robert Lee, Nelson Chau, Andrew Schurer, Jim Schetakis, John and Sheona Ayles, Robert Mann, and Andy Mitchell and Jinny Thompson - all who have been a tremendous support for Ellen during her heartbreak - and by his Bay Street friends and colleagues. Brian did not want a funeral, especially during the Covid-19 pandemic, and instead wanted to be remembered by his friends in their own way on their own time - "whatever they want to do is fine, but preferably with a really good bottle of wine!" Everyone who loved him was very proud to count him as a friend. He will be sadly missed.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Globe and Mail from Sep. 10 to Sep. 14, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for Brian OLDS

Not sure what to say?





13 Entries

Brian Booth

May 31, 2021

Knowing Brian in the way that I did is something I have always cherished. Without Brian, I would not be the Brian that I am today. Having learned so much from him in the many years we spent together I still feel that I carry it all with me. Brian was a very important part of my family and with every special occasion that passes I still think of him. I wish I could share with him who I've become. I feel very fortunate to have always been the little Brian to his big Brian. Brian Olds really was larger than life to me.

Roger Aspinall

January 19, 2021

Just learned of this reading StFX alumni mag. So sorry and my condolences to family. I met Brian my 1st year at STFX 1976 - both on MacIsaac 2nd floor -I remember him as the obit reads but in addition I remember “oldsie” for being so welcoming to me and others - great athlete yes but he did not define himself as that as he was so much more.

Brian Manson

December 27, 2020

We were classmates at AY Jackson in the early 1970's. We spoke only occasionally in the school halls but he was always cordial during these brief conversations. My condolences go out to his family and close friends.

Samantha mcfarlane

October 3, 2020

I'm very sorry to hear about Brian's passing. I can only assume after reading that wonderful obit that he had lived an amazing life. He was best friends with my father in high school. They remained close for a long while, lost touch many years ago. I remember him well, always super nice and such a joy to be around. I always thought of reaching out and now. I only wish I had. God bless him and to everyone grieving.

Michael McFarlane

October 3, 2020

Brian was the best man at my wedding and my best friend for many years. We became close in high school and for many years after. He disappeared on one of his world trips and we lost touch. Glad to know that the rest of his life was happy as he certainly deserved it. I will miss him. Much love.

Sharon Nettleton

September 14, 2020

So sorry to learn of Brian's passing. Brian was larger than life. He had an infectious laugh, way too much energy for most of us, a kindness in 'being there' and helping so many others' out when a 'big strong guy' was needed. He was a big part of my sister's gang (along with Andy, Diane, Liz, and so many others) at AY Jackson High School, and in gatherings and friendships he kept for many years afterwards. I'm glad Brian found you, Ellen, and that he had a soulmate in you. My condolences to you, and especially to the Olds' family and Brian's siblings.

Andy Blenkarn

September 13, 2020

It is with heartfelt sorrow to learn of Brian’s passing. He certainly brightened our lives, challenged and enriched our children, introduced his love of sport and cycling to so many - including our oldest son who went on to complete a full Ironman. Only Brian wore a white shirt, tie, and suit jacket to his grade 4 class picture - not surprising that he was the principal’s favourite and put in charge of the AV equipment for the whole public school in grade 5. He had one of the largest Toronto Telegram paper routes - and carried those monster papers around with ease. He worked initially at Canadian Tire, assembling kids bikes, and saved for a non-parental approved summer trip to join me traveling around western Europe at 16. Although a fierce competitor on the field, he had a heart of gold. He helped so many of us on our cottage / home projects over the years. His home projects were legendary. Lowering the basement on Eastbourne Ave had to be the ultimate in challenges. He was so wonderful to our children, and was known as Uncle Brian and very much part of our extended family. He could swim like a fish - having earned his Bronze Medallion before any of us, and he could ski like the wind. I have such wonderful memories of skiing with Brian in the early years, in Collingwood and Barrie, and later at Tremblant and Whistler. He took up sailing later in life, and although it posed a few white knuckle moments, he loved the challenge. Although we sadly lost touch in later years, it is comforting to know that he found peace and love in Thornbury. Ellen, you must be an amazing lady. As your Mom stated below, he was larger than life in so many ways. We all will miss him dearly. He left us, and this world far too early !!!

Andy, Dawne, Corey and Patrick

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Mae Senick

Planted Trees

Dona Booth

September 11, 2020

To know Brian was to Love him. Thank you for being a part of our lives. You will always have a special place in our hearts and will forever be our Uncle Big Brian. God Bless. Dona, David, Brian and Madi

Iain MacDougall

September 10, 2020

It has been a long, long time, but I remember Brian as a great football player, a good poker player, but most of all a great friend, a fun and easy going guy. He will be missed.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Christine Ayles

Planted Trees

Joanne .... Mum

September 10, 2020

Brian was such an impressive guy. He was truly larger than life. His steadfast determination and his enduring positive attitude were qualities we all hope to emulate. Brian always amazed me with his wisdom and perspective about life and everything in it. I will be forever grateful that Brian was a presence in my life. Nothing can dim the light that he cast. I will always carry him in a very special place in my heart. I truly loved him. He was my favourite son!

Katie Krogman

September 10, 2020

Brian was a charming and caring individual. We were blessed to know him. He will be truly missed ❤

Showing 1 - 13 of 13 results

Memorial Events
for Brian OLDS

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.