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Bruce Bingham ALEXANDER

1938 - 2022

Bruce Bingham ALEXANDER obituary, 1938-2022, Toronto, ON

BORN

1938

DIED

2022

Bruce ALEXANDER Obituary

BRUCE BINGHAM ALEXANDER Q.C. (B. Comm., LL.B., LL.D.) April 8, 1938 - June 1, 2022 After suffering a massive stroke only days ago, followed by a diagnosis of stage 4 pancreatic cancer, Bruce died in palliative care at St. Michael's Hospital in Toronto on June 1, 2022. We extend our thanks to paramedics and emergency staff, as well as neurology/stroke unit and palliative care professionals, for their excellent care for Bruce. Beloved husband of Andrea for 58 years; devoted father to Christopher; admiring father-in-law to Hedvig Christine (née Boserup); adoring Gramps to Selma (13 years), Elisabeth (10), and Julius (3); predeceased by sister Dr. Gail Madell and her husband Dr. William Madell, and by his brother, John. In Sudbury, he leaves brother, David (Judy), nephew, Matthew (Alesia); in India, brother, Richard; in Simcoe County, Elfriede (Michael), and nephew, Mark (Dr. Tara); in Brooklin, Durham Region, ON, his niece Pamela (Kevin); in Kimberley, BC, his Madell nephews, Andrew (Kim), Robert (Sarah), Daniel (Laura) - and all their families. Bruce was born in Montreal to Ruth and Clare Alexander; attended Hillcrest Public School and Oakwood Collegiate Institute in Toronto, and Oakville-Trafalgar High School; graduated from Queen's University (B.Comm. '60) and University of Toronto Law School (LL.B. '65); also attended the London School of Economics, Dalhousie Law School (Dunn Scholar) and the Advanced Management Program of Harvard Business School. His career was in government, law, private and volunteer sectors. He was an associate lawyer at Osler, Hoskin and Harcourt and later managing director (1987-91) of Fraser Beatty (now Dentons). For thirteen years he served in the Ontario government, first under Premier Bill Davis and Minister of Transportation and Communications (MTC) Gordon Carton, later as chair of the Ontario Highway Transport Board (1978-83), as well as in assistant deputy minister roles at MTC and the Ministry of Community and Social Services (1983-87). He was a vice-chair of the Ontario Workplace Safety and Insurance Appeals Tribunal (2000-16). At the federal level, he was special advisor to Minister of Constitutional Affairs Joe Clark (1991-93) at the time of the Charlottetown Accord, and a prominent 'no' organizer for the 1995 Quebec referendum. He was also a Principal in GlobeInvest Capital Management (1993-98) and Vice President of McCutcheon Steinbach Investment Management (1998-99). Bruce was a tireless supporter of Queen's University, serving as Alma Mater Society President in 1960 and on the Board of Trustees (1970-82) for over a decade, while championing multiple initiatives to promote advancement, diversity and outreach, as well as Queen's Gaels football. He was co-founder of the Kingston and Queen's Rowing Clubs and the Queen's Public Sector Management Program, as well as an inveterate volunteer in his local community, for law reform and countless Canadian community causes. He believed in mentorship, launching the 'Shadow Cabinet' in 2009 to multiply opportunities by "building bridges and making connections" for young Canadians from minority and immigrant backgrounds - a role that gave him unending satisfaction, as well as deep and lasting friendships. Bruce was devoted to sport, recreation and the outdoors. He enjoyed football and rugby, as well as alpine and cross-country skiing, tennis and squash. In 1953 he came 3rd in boys' tricks at the Canadian Water Ski Championships at the CNE. He was a lifelong champion of Canada's amateur athletes, our national teams and Toronto's Olympic bid. As a founder of the Boulder Buster Canoe Club, he shared white-water adventures with friends and family across Northern Ontario and Québec leaving a legacy of camaraderie, song and stories. Bruce had a preternatural ability to inject contagious enthusiasm into everything he did. He loved Canada; he connected spontaneously with people of all backgrounds; his creed was fitness; he marvelled at the healing quality of the arts, literature and wilderness. His sanctuary was the family cottage at Bingham's Bay on Lake Cecebe (Magnetawan River); almost seventy years ago, Parry Sound-Muskoka gave him the love of his life, Andrea Lough. He was devoted to his Alexander, Bingham, Madell, Lough, Copeland and Digby relatives across Canada and around the world, maintaining wide, inter-locking circles of loyal friends that defied the usual categories of network and connection. He is sorely missed. Please direct any donations in his memory to Queen's University. Cremation has taken place. Notification will follow for a celebration of life to take place this summer.

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Published by The Globe and Mail from Jun. 4 to Jun. 8, 2022.

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Ann Scully

October 12, 2022

Andrea and Chris I just heard this sad news. Deepest condolences from the Scully family. I have had the pleasure of talking Nordic skiing/coaching and rivalries between Western and Queens with Bruce over the years at the annual Copeland Oktoberfest. With all the accolades Bruce had earned at the heart of his personality was a simple and unwavering love for his family and a desire to help people any way he could. A bright flame has left this world. RIP Bruce.

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Robert Bingham

July 28, 2022

I will deeply miss Bruce, his wisdom, humour and generousity. He was truly a wonderful human being and the world needs more of people like him, more than ever!

Ian Brown

July 18, 2022

To Chris and all of Bruce's family, my sincerest condolences. My connection with Bruce was cross country skiing, including a few Muskoka Loppets, but our paths crossed occasionally over the years including recently as nearby neighbours.
He always had an interesting project, usually with a story and always helping. He will indeed be missed.

Ashwin and Kim Sangani

July 16, 2022

Dear Andrea and Chris,
Our deep condolences to the family on passing of our well respected neighbour and friend- Bruce. I always referred to him as our Elder Statesman on the street.
He was always engaging and very well respected by all the guys who went out for lunch or had a coffee with him. My regret is that we could not gather for a coffee prior to his departure. I am very positive he is already holding court wherever he is and already gathered a great following and a lot of admirers.

Bruce- you will be missed on the street and we will miss your wisdom and insight at our luncheon.
RIP my friend.

Laura Devenny on behalf of Queen's AMS

June 11, 2022

To Bruce's loved ones;

Please accept our deepest sympathy for Bruce's passing. He was truly the embodiment of what it meant to be a student leader and a member of the Alma Mater Society. Speaking with past colleagues it is incredibly evident of his passion, dedication, and love for student advocacy. The AMS is a long-standing organization at Queen's, and would not have had success without the guidance provided by Bruce, both as his time as AMS President, on the Board of Trustees, and as an alumnus and mentor.

We are so proud to call Bruce honoured AMS alumni. Please visit myams.org/ams-news for a small tribute to Bruce.

Regards,
The 164th AMS Team

Belinda Beaton

June 9, 2022

Bruce was a passionate Canadian who was cultivated, insightful, and who was not afraid of social change. His humour and his kindness will be missed by all those who had the pleasure of knowing him.
My heart-felt sympathy to Andrea, Chris and the family.

Jeff Feiner

June 9, 2022

Andrew, I just heard about Bruce's passing at a McGill event last night. Please accept my deepest condolences and I hope you are comforted by your family, happy memories, and the legacy Bruce left behind.
Jeff

Donald H.McDougall,Q.C.

June 8, 2022

To the Family and Friends of Bruce,
I have just returned from a small tribute where we raised a "jar" to Bruce from his former classmates at Dalhousie Law School,in Halifax.
Boy,did Bruce ever make an outstanding impression on us as law students and in the following years after he returned to Toronto. His enthusiasm for life and people from all walks of life was unique..Among other qualities was his sense of humour .In 1st yr. law where we all were nervous .Bruce came up with a way to relax us. .We had an excellent but very serious Torts professor. Bruce led our class in the midterm exams to all make the same reference to a decided case precedent which did not exist, Fortunately the professor,who we watched searching reference books,later shared a chuckle with us,.After returning to ON. Bruce, to make the celebration, one of a kind for his Bride ,waterskied away from his Wedding Reception.. Years later Bruce led a pan-Canadian group urging support for the "no" side voters in the Quebec Separation Referendum. He fully endorsed having N.S.'s Natalie McMaster, play her fiddle and do a highland dance into the room as a "suprise-agenda item" at a formal planing meeting in a Halifax downtown office-the point being that fiddle music was equally popular in rural Quebes as in N.S.. When my wife,Karen and I moved to Burlington,ON to help grandkids. We knew only one family in town,Bruce travelled to Burlington especially to have lunch with us and help put together other lunches to welcome us. His remarkable accomplishments in law, public service and helping disadvantaged young people, have been documented widely. I hope you will accept these light hearted memories.of a wonderful Canadian, helping so many people without ever taking himself too seriously. That will be one of the greatest memories of Bruce for this Atlantic Canadian. We extend our heartfelt sympathies to you all on your loss. Bruce,my friend, RIP. Don.

Kenneth Wong

June 7, 2022

We lived a few houses down from Bruce and Andrea for about a year and a half. We had drinks a few times and long chats when we ran into each other outside when I passed by on walks with the dog. I considered it an honour to have lived down the street from someone like him and loved exchanging "war stories" from the government and policy-making fronts. I even got to have brief talks with Chris when he would come for visits. We learned that we had a dear contact in common -- turns out that one of the two profs that were influential in my entering the Foreign Service, Peter St. John, the 9th Earl of Orkney, was a roommate of his at London School of Economics! I'm sad that the three of us weren't able to connect. Godspeed Bruce -- you are a spectacular role model for me and your kindness and wisdom will be missed at our end of Birch Avenue and beyond!

Sarah Band

June 6, 2022

Andrea Chris Hedvig
A sad day indeed
My sympathies my prayers my thoughts to you
Bruce was a friend a relative a great human
Kind generous thoughtful humourous and above all steadfast

Claudine Salama

June 6, 2022

Bruce was a wonderful colleague at the Tribunal. I am so saddened by his loss. He was such a positive and energetic person. I respected him and looked forward to being on a panel with him when he worked at the WSIAT. My deepest sympathies to the family. What a great honour to have met him!

Nathalie Des Rosiers

June 6, 2022

The Alexander family,

I want to offer our deepest condolences on behalf of Massey College. As a Senior Fellow of Massey College, Mr. Alexander contributed to mentoring many young people throughout their career. He will be missed by all of us.

Robert R Baker

June 6, 2022

What a wonderful and successful life Bruce created. Quite inspirational to all who knew him

John and Sonja Garlick

June 5, 2022

We are so sorry to hear of Bruce's passing. Our sincere condolences to Andrea, Chris and family during this difficult time.

Sandy Han

June 5, 2022

I am devastated to learn of Bruce´s passing. Affectionately nicknamed "Alumni Bruce" by the Queen´s varsity cheerleading team, which I coached for 18 years, he was our role model, biggest fan, and embodiment of everything that is to be achieved as a human being who graduated from Queen´s. A very bright light has gone out, and we can feel it. We love you, Bruce! Thank you for being our north star. To his family, our deepest condolences and our shared sadness.

Ron Bates, Com '60 classmate

June 5, 2022

I have been very proud to have attended ALL reunions
for our class at Q's (easy when you live in YGK) and I know that Bruce did as well. I have admired him from the very beginning & will do so forever. RIP my friend !

Susan Digby

June 5, 2022

My sincere condolences and deep sympathy to you Andrea, Chris, Helvie and all of the family. Bruce made the world a brighter place.

Ruth (McCausland ) murray

June 4, 2022

As An OTHS school,friend and Oakville neighbour , (now living in Scotland) I remember Bruce´s early leadership qualities and how important his school friends were to him .he will be missed by so many. Ruth murray

Debra Walker, President, Toronto Symphony Volunteer Committee

June 4, 2022

Andrea, our sincerest condolences for you and your family at this time. You have our deepest sympathy and unwavering support . We wish you peace, comfort, courage, and lots of love at this time of sorrow. Our members will always be grateful for Bruce"s support and encouragement to the TSVC.

Jack and Debra Walker

June 4, 2022

Andrea, may you find comfort in the love of friends and family and the knowledge that for 58 years you had the companionship and support of the love of your life. With much love and sympathy, Debra and Jack xo

Frances Fearman Cushing

June 4, 2022

Bruce was a wonderful person to be with in high school as he never looked down on any one and always saw the best in all of us. He was such fun and will be sorely missed.
My deepest sympathy - Fran

John C Bunge

June 4, 2022

So sorry to hear this Andrea. I was looking forward to catching up with you and Bruce this year. All the best.

Andrea & Gordon Robinson

June 4, 2022

The Memories are too Deep & too Many to share...the Friendship will never end.
May you Rest In Peace, dear Bruce.
Our deepest condolences to the entire family.
With Love,
GBR & ACR

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