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Charlotte VALE-ALLEN Obituary

CHARLOTTE VALE-ALLEN 1941 - 2023 On January 12, 2023, at the age of 81, Charlotte Vale-Allen of Norwalk, Connecticut, passed away surrounded by her friends and loved ones. A world-recognized author and dedicated advocate for women's rights, Charlotte was born in Toronto in 1941 and lived in London, England, where she worked as a television actress and singer. She returned to Canada briefly in 1964, performing in cabaret revues until she immigrated to the United States in 1966. Charlotte appeared in theatrical productions and sang in nightclubs and on cruise ships, before settling in the New York metropolitan area. Shortly after her marriage to Walter B. Allen, Jr., in 1970, she began writing and sold her first novel Love Life (Dell) in 1974. Her memoir about childhood abuse and trauma, the acclaimed Daddy's Girl (Wyndham/Simon & Schuster), was the first book she wrote, but in 1971 it was deemed too controversial by editors. It wasn't until 1980, after she'd gained prominence as a novelist, that the groundbreaking book was finally published. As one of Canada's most successful novelists, with over seven million copies sold of her 38 novels, Charlotte was published in all English-speaking countries and has been translated into more than 21 languages, including braille. Her book, Destinies (Berkley), was a 1982 New York Times bestseller. Her writing dealt with issues concerning women at the time, offering an empathetic voice marked by a measure of optimism. "My strongest ability as a writer is to make women real," she once said, "...to take you inside their heads and let you know how they feel, and to make you care about them." As a trauma survivor with a generous spirit, her affinity for the underdog informed her perspective and she always sought to help and empower others who'd survived abuse. Charlotte was also a film buff and amateur photographer who enjoyed art, international travel, and adored spending time with her twin grandchildren. She eventually divided her time between Toronto and Norwalk, the two places she loved most. She found cooking and needlework therapeutic and was a shark at the poker table. Charlotte is survived by her daughter, Kimberly, and son-in-law, Timothy, along with her grandkids, Bodhi and Sloane. She was predeceased by her brothers, William Nobleman and Leonard Nobleman. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to High Watch Farm in Kent, CT, an organization that was close to her heart.

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Published by The Globe and Mail from Jan. 21 to Jan. 25, 2023.

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susie cloar

April 28, 2025

So sorry to hear this, wondered why I hadn´t seen any new ones. I have collected them over the years!

Patrick Egan

March 22, 2025

I taught her daughter, Kim when I was on the faculty of Low-Haywood in Stamford. Charlotte and I had many interesting discussions about writing and she gave me advice that helped me a great deal. I had only a brief time with her that year but I considered her a friend.
My condolences to her family.

Nina Ring Aamundsen

November 19, 2024

This is my "Charlotte bookshelf" - I still read and reread Charlotte´s novels.

Janet S

October 29, 2024

I only knew her as a fan of her books, but I wrote her a snail mail letter after reading one of her early books, and she wrote me back, which really impressed me! My condolences!!!

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September 30, 2024

My travels with Charlotte: I don´t remember if the mountains/hills in the background are English or Scottish (Ben Nevis?), but here we are on our way from London to the Scottish West Coast, through dales where suddenly, out of nowhere, one, two, three or more fighter planes thundered just above our heads - scary - but the scenery was breathtaking.

Luna

August 8, 2024

Gone but never forgotten, I just decided to re-read, "Dreaming in Color"... Travel well, dear lady...

Barry Wood

March 9, 2024

Charlotte Vale Allen was a wonderul friend to me. She taught me lots about writing short stories and used to edit them for me. She also sold my audiocassette on her website. This beautiful lady did this for me for free. Charlotte and I hadn't been in touch for some years as I was busy with work and she with her grandchildren. I absolutely adored Cee and may she rest in peace.

Judy Perron

September 30, 2023

I am so so sorry to learn of Charlotte's passing. Years ago she would respond to emails and was so down to earth. I still have copies as I was thrilled to communicate with her and loved her books very much.
Much loved.
Judy Perron
Porcupine, Ontario

gloria goodman

June 22, 2023

I only found out about Charlotte whom I worked with on several novels at Doubleday Canada. We became friends, she threw me a surprise birthday party years ago when my sister Judith came over from the UK. My sister passed away 15th December 2023 and read all of Charlotte's books. My condolences are with her family at this sad time. RIP Charlotte. The Goodman family...

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Linda Marks

April 6, 2023

Dear Kim and family. I just saw this. Loved your Mom and visited in Yorkville several times. Spent 9/11 with her glued to the TV. I was visiting Toronto to mend a broken heart and we ended up consoling each other. She loved you all so much. Linda Marks, Jackson, Mi

Edward Scaramell

March 22, 2023

She is my favorite author. She was so kind to her fans. I wrote her after I read Daddy girl. It´s spoke to me. She wrote
me back. So nice.

Morgan Murphy

February 17, 2023

Our powerful Angel saved many lives while she was with us. She will save even more now.
I send deep Love and Thanks to her family for sharing her with us so generously in so many ways.
Thank you Charlotte!
With tons of love and deep respect,
Morgan

Cecilia

February 11, 2023

I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know Charlotte, other than as a fan of her writing. I read Pieces of Dreams over 30 years ago and it stuck with me forever. It is my favorite book. I recently searched about getting a new copy and discovered her passing. I wish I had searched earlier so I could have let her know ho much her book meant to me. Especially since I am a nearly lifelong CT resident and a fan of Toronto. My condolences.

Renee Allen

January 31, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Nina Ring Aamundsen

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Nina Ring Aamundsen

January 31, 2023

I am so sad to read that Charlotte has passed away. She was a great friend. I met Charlotte in Oslo in 1982 when she came for the Norwegian release of "Daddy´s Girl". (Photo) We toured the best restaurants for dinners and lunches, all paid for by Oktober Forlag, the Norwegian publishing house, because back then I was married to the publisher. We talked and we laughed a lot, I laughed most, because Charlotte was very funny. Her week in Oslo passed quickly, and we kept in touch by letters. A year or so later I was invited to visit Charlotte and Kim in Norwalk, Connecticut. I came and stayed a month! We rented a lot of movies and drove along beautiful country roads, it was late October. Kim was extremely patient with me for taking up so much space, for so long. Thank you, Kim. I had a wonderful time.
Charlotte and I also met up in London and we always went to see musicals. Once we stayed in Helsinki, Finland, for a week - after a nearly a week in Amsterdam. From Helsinki we took a short trip to Leningrad (then) and visited Olga, a native of Leningrad and a friend of a friend of mine. Olga always made sure there was food on the restaurant tabel. Once, when we had dinner in the enormous - and nearly empty - hotel we were staying at, the waitress kept saying they did not have this, and they did not have that, "deficit" was the reoccuring word, but Olga nagged her into giving us food. I think Charlotte had some kind of soup, but I had vodka and caviar for the first and last time in my life. Awsome!
Another time, Charlotte and I rented a car in London and drove up to Scoland and stayed at an inn on a "loch", where the landlord always dressed in kilt.

The photo, taken by Kim, is from the time I visited Charlotte and Kim in Connecticut in 1983 (I think). I also visited Charlotte and Kim in Toronto, and Kim again was very patient with the foreign visitor. I have seen the Horseshoe Falls and the American Falls, I have been to New York and Toronto, I have had some great travels and I have had a lot of fun and laughter, all thanks to my friend, Charlotte.
Nina Ring Aamundsen, Oslo, Norway.

Elizabeth Hall

January 26, 2023

Charlotte you have always been my favorite novelist. I hold dear the personal responses to my letters. May you rest in peace.

Brian G. Le Blanc

January 26, 2023

Charlotte will be missed by so many. I am not sure that she realized the the true impact that she made around the world. Undoubtedly she changed lives of countless people. I enjoyed the many conversation over pizza or tea. She was true to herself, she walked the talk, and was true to others. To be her friend is forever.
Rest well Charlotte.

Gretchen LeBlanc

January 21, 2023

I have had the awesome honor to be in the life of this amazing woman. Words to express what she has brought to the world , with her spirit,books,support, I cannot articulate adequately... Will never forget this woman...

Colleen Hartnett

January 21, 2023

I will consider Charlotte one of my dearest and best friends. She could make me laugh until I cried.
Kim, Sloane and Bodhi you now have a guardian angel. I am so, so sorry for this great loss.

Kate Dickson

January 20, 2023

I met Charlotte at her brother, Bill´s house and we became instant friends, a relationship that lasted 46 years until her death. Charlotte was full of energy, thought, feeling and was always there for me as I was for her. I love her dearly as I do Kim who I had occasions to look after when Charlotte was on her book tours. I will miss her but I have a great store of memories that bring her back and make me smile.

Gail N and Curtis L

January 20, 2023

Curtis and I met Charlotte through a mutual group. She was a creative, unique ,fun loving and kind person with a definite joie de vivre Always fascinating to listen to, and also loved listening to others to learn more about others' difficulties and coping mechanisms. We are so privileged to have known her and to have considered her a friend and fellow traveler. Bless her for her talents and generosity in sharing them with others. We will never forget her unique specialness

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