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1950

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2022

David SOBELMAN Obituary

DAVID SOBELMAN 1950-2022 It is with sadness that we share the news that our admired and dear friend, David Sobelman, died at his home in Oakville on November 7, 2022, while recuperating from surgery. David was predeceased by his beloved wife, poet and professor, Rishma Dunlop. Born in Haifa of an old French Jewish family, David was the son of Rivka Aboutboul and Izhak Sobelman. His brother, Nadav Sivan (Rena Kahn) of Atlanta survives him. David's early years were spent living and studying across Europe, in Holland, Germany, France, and England. In 1972, he immigrated to Canada to study film and literature at York University. David enjoyed a dynamic career in Toronto, not only as a screenwriter and editor, translator and poet (After The End), but as a writer-producer and independent director of film and television feature-length documentaries: Runaways: 24 Hours On The Streets, McLuhan's Wake, and Samuel Bak: Painter Of Questions. His television series included Marshall McLuhan's ABC, The Shuttle Years, and The Space Symphony. For this creative work he received a Gemini Award and a Prix Anik, and was awarded The Media Ecology's Praxis Award, and the Governor General's Michener Award for Broadcast Journalism. In a profound sense, David - from his beginnings - had set out to create himself, becoming a bon but melancholy vivant and scholar (he once taught courses in Thomas Aquinas at the University of Toronto); a kind of Baudelairean flaneur who was deeply rooted in isolation, an intellectual of acute philosophical awareness and unflinching integrity, who was open to thought-provoking shenanigans. In other words, he was a complicated, singular fellow.

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Published by The Globe and Mail from Nov. 19 to Nov. 23, 2022.

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Kathy Vance

April 20, 2025

Three years after the fact of death, I'm reading through papers and find David's script A State of Light, signed to me dated October 1996. I kept this all this time. A testament. An arrow needs to fly straight, carried on a precocious wind. I love that David could be both the wind and the arrow that flew.

Mary King-Lyons

April 1, 2023

To the friends and admirers of David who captured his unique essence in these beautiful tributes, you are invited to a gathering in his honour, at our home in Oakville, on Sunday afternoon , June 11.
Please email: [email protected] if you will be able to join us.
John and Mary Lyons

Terry Nusyna

March 17, 2023

David and I were good friends when we were in the Film Studies at York University and for a few years after. We spent many hours in discussions together. He had a deep view of everything he encountered. They were carefree times and we were both in learning mode. We had both seen much of the world already and this connected us even though we were still so young. I am deeply saddened to learn he is no longer with us. I have attached a photo I took of him in the 1970's. May his soul rest in peace.

Helena Bulens

February 7, 2023

rick de boer

January 16, 2023

we were lifelong friends and kept contact since we met in london 1970. f#k it now finally we could talk for free on the phone with messenger and whatsapp and now he's not there......i miss him

Sabrina

January 9, 2023

David had such a pondering, intriguing essence to him and I always enjoyed speaking to him, even though brief, and enjoyed his presence as a neighbour. Condolences to his family and friends.

Rudy

November 27, 2022

Halya Kuchmij

November 23, 2022

Photo of David Sobelman and Rishma Dunlop on their wedding day.

Halya Kuchmij

November 23, 2022

There will never be another like David Sobelman. For the time I knew him in the 70´s and then more recently, he always challenged me, in a good way. He was always `probing´ in that Marshall McLuhan style, endlessly curious and intense. David had a towering intellect that could intimidate, but I always admired and respected him.

We first met as film students at York University in 1975 and then resumed a connection about ten years ago, when I asked David to write the script for my feature documentary on the artist William Kurelek, entitled `The Passion of Kurelek". Almost instantly, Kurelek´s passion became David´s. To use a cliche, it was truly a " marriage made in Heaven".

David was gorgeous, so smart and so worldly. There were few who could match him, until the fates brought poet/writer Rishma Dunlop into his life. They married quickly. Tragically, Rishma died in 2018, David holding her in his arms

Rest sweetly beloved Prince of Israel and may you dance with Rishma in that other realm, surrounded by the Esperanza roses you both loved.

You were like no other David and it is hard to believe you´re gone. But you aren´t gone, are you?

Your star shone so bright amidst the chaos of this world and it still does.

Adieu.

John Lyons

November 22, 2022

I taught David Grade 13 English in Baden Senior School in Germany. His gifted mind and his skills as a film maker made him a natural for Film Studies at York University. It will comfort those feeling his loss to know he was not alone in his hospitalization (he hated the hospital food so a home-cooked meal came daily!) My wife and I feel privileged
having welcomed David to Oakville in 1972 to then have the opportunity to resume a lively friendship during his last years when he moved here. To have David as a friend was to be constantly challenged.

Vanessa Boone

November 22, 2022

I would see Mr. Sobelman while walking my dog, and he teased me about talking to my dog, asking if the dog ever answered back. He was pleasant to everyone that acknowledged him in the neighborhood. When word got out that he'd passed away many of his neighbors expressed sadness. His presence was felt, and he will be missed. My sincere condolences to his family and friends.

Rudy

November 20, 2022

David as best man at my sister´s wedding

John newton

November 20, 2022

David my dear. Yes we did love each other, through thick and thin, without any doubts for 50 years. I am not the same without you. Bless you dearest as you dance with Rishma.......john newton

Lisa K

November 20, 2022

A kind soul and only had known him a few months!

Rudy Buttignol

November 20, 2022

David and I were friends and colleagues since our university days. For ten years we were writing partners. We last spoke a day or two before his sudden passing. Although David wasn´t feeling well after surgery, he was in good spirits and looking forward to a visit. I will miss him.

Rudy

November 20, 2022

Rudy

November 20, 2022

Stuart coxe

November 20, 2022

I spent a few years very closely enmeshed with David and he impacted my life deeply. Like many who were close to him I think this obituary has a wonderful ring of truth. Farewell old friend - the fire and the rose are one.

Elvi Buttignol

November 19, 2022

Sending our condolences. Elvi Buttignol (Jan, Rosie and Nora Yates)

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