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Douglas William PATTERSON

1924 - 2022

BORN

1924

DIED

2022

Douglas PATTERSON Obituary

DOUGLAS WILLIAM PATTERSON Douglas William Patterson was born on May 7, 1924 in Portland, Maine, and died at Sunnybrook Veterans' Residence in Toronto on December 20, 2022. Doug was the younger son of William Davenport Patterson and Sarah Jane (Whyte) Patterson and was predeceased by his brother, John (d. 2015 in Holden, Mass.) Loving husband of Elizabeth (d. 2015); incredible father to John (Catherine), Gord (Alison) and Dave (Leslie). Engaged grandfather to Joanna and Ashlyn, Adam, Issie and Gill, and Merritt and Mackenzie. His great-granddaughter, Callie, was born in July 2022. Doug spent his younger years in Portland and Augusta, Maine and Worcester, Massachusetts. His first job was in Worcester where he helped a friend collect newspaper subscription fees (each issue was 2 cents) so that he could go to the weekly movies. He moved to Woodstock, Ontario to attend high school and lived with his Aunt Marnie (his mother's identical twin sister) and Uncle Finn. Doug's mother felt that Canadian schools would offer him the best education. At age 15, he came close to dying of spinal meningitis. He was saved by the quick thinking of his Aunt Marnie, a retired nurse, and the hospital doctor who drove through the night to obtain the new sulfonamide wonder drug, the precursor to modern antibiotics. Ever the adventurer, at age 16, he was dropped off at the north end of Algonquin Park with his best friend, Craig McKay. They canoed for a week, with no adults, no life jackets, no bug spray, and no communication with the outside world. His Aunt Marnie was there at week's end at a pre-arranged spot to pick them up on the south end of the park. Each summer, Doug would travel with his parents and brother to join his cousins and grandparents across the bay from Port Carling in Muskoka. He and his cousins would often portage their light rowboat over into Silver Lake to fish for bass. They would jump or pole vault over the canoe cut as no bridge existed at this time (now known as Island Park Road). They rowed over to Port Carling to see the big steamboats come in. They would collect the mail at the little post office at the corner of the town's swing bridge. Sometimes they would have an ice cream cone at Whiting's Drug Store on the Port Carling wharf, if they had money in their pockets. His Aunt Marnie and Uncle Finn bought a cottage (Ferncliff) on Lake Rousseau which was just across the island from his grandparents' cottage in 1939. Ferncliff would later become the Patterson family cottage. In 1943, Doug enlisted in the Royal Canadian Air Force. He received his pilot's wings and was commissioned as a Pilot Officer. He started training on Mosquito Fighter Bombers, but by then, the war was winding down. After being discharged from the Air Force, he went to University of Toronto to study electrical engineering. In June 1952, Elizabeth and Doug were married in London, Ontario. Over the next six decades, they lived in Don Mills, Etobicoke, and the Swan Lake community in Markham. Doug worked for his entire career as an electrical engineer, most of it for Canadian Chromalox. Doug was happiest taking care of the Ferncliff cottage. He painted the same outside, peeling wall every summer. He helped with his grandchildren, raked the paths, chased off the red squirrels, occasionally swam, and made sure to take at least one leisurely boat ride at dusk in the old wood launch. He always wore the same faded beige windbreaker and Tilly hat. Many happy nights would start at the point in front of the cottage - high up on a rock face between two towering white pines with only a few carefully placed large rocks acting as a barrier to the water below. Miraculously, each son and then subsequent grandchildren respected the warning not to climb on the rocks and no one ever fell! When Doug retired from the office, Elizabeth was fond of saying that she retired from the kitchen, so Doug happily took over preparing many meals. They had many friends from Elizabeth's Western days, the bridge club and their Etobicoke neighbourhood. Craig McKay continued to be Doug's very dear friend some 80 years after they first met. The family would like to thank the caring staff at The Claremont, especially Cathy and Arlene; and Imelda and Gibson, of Home Instead, who were so kind in making his final weeks much easier. We would also like to thank the wonderful staff of Sunnybrook Hospital and the Sunnybrook Veterans' Residence where Doug had just moved into prior to his passing. At Doug's request, there will be no funeral. There will be an internment in Muskoka in the summer.

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Published by The Globe and Mail from Jan. 7 to Jan. 11, 2023.

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Scott Young

February 6, 2023

Muskoka Conservancy would like to acknowledge Doug's spectacular life (the Algonquin canoe trip alone!) and thank those who made donations in his memory. These resources go towards nature conservation in Muskoka, something it appears Doug would greatly appreciate. With sympathy,

Joan Wilson

January 15, 2023

I visited Doug on behalf of Central United Church, at Swan Lake after Elizabeth's passing and we had some enjoyable visits, in person and on the phone over a few years and I wish to add my condolences to the family.

Vicky McQuirter

January 13, 2023

I taught both Joanna and Ashlyn at William Bercy P.S. The Pattersons came to the special Grandparent Celebration Day at the school. They were so kind and loving to their Granddaughters and so very proud of them. My sincere condolences to the Family.

Lynne Pulenzas

January 12, 2023

John, Catherine and girls. Our deepest sympathy in the passing of Doug. I fondly remember Doug and Elisabeth at church. They were such a sweet couple. Our deepest sympathy to you all. Blessings Lynne and Chris Pulenzas.

Hancock family

January 11, 2023

We have lovely memories of Doug and remember him as an intelligent, curious, humble, soft spoken, and kind man. He and Elizabeth made us feel so welcome and at home in Muskoka over several summers. We cherish those holidays and are grateful to them both for their generous spirits. I have fond memories of our 5 o'clock pre-dinner drinks at their cottage where we would hear about growing up in the US and Canada. We send our deepest sympathy to John, Gord and Dave and all of the grandchildren. Love the Hancocks xxxx

Ian McKay

January 8, 2023

My father Craig McKay, who is presently living at Oxford Gardens Retirement in Woodstock, is saddened to learn of Doug's death. Among other things mentioned in the obituary my father remembered Doug's Aunt Marnie. The canoe trip in Algonquin Park and paddling like heck because they were in rough water in the middle of Lake Opeonango. Like Doug my father also joined the RCAF and went to the U of T. Also my father remembers Port Carling and the steamboats. Later in life my father and mother reconnected with Doug and Elisabeth and enjoyed quite a few summer weeks at the Muskoka Patterson cottage. Ferncliff is very accurately named according to my father.. My father also said, 'the Pattersons, you could not ask for better friends.' Ian McKay .

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Nancy Hancock and family

January 7, 2023

Visiting with Uncle Doug and cousins at Muskoka for many childhood vacations provides me with many special memories. I well remember fishing for bass around the cottage and watching Uncle Doug and my father cleaning them in the shed adjacent to the kitchen at Ferncliff in preparation for frying them for breakfast. I can see in my mind's eye the two brothers smiling and enjoying those moments together. They were kind and considerate of others always, especially of the older generation, wonderful fathers, and remind us in these times when we feel their loss most, that life is precious and full of love.

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