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Ellen TRIM Obituary

ELLEN JOYCE TRIM 1930 - 2022 With sadness and love, we announce the passing of our mother and nana, E. Joyce Trim, on October 26th, 2022. Joyce (predeceased by husband, John) will be missed by her daughter, Heather (Stew); son David (Joanna); and grandchildren Kate, Court, Nicole and Stephen. Joyce was born in Toronto on November 22, 1930, and moved to Montreal at a young age with sister, Geraldine, and parents, Ivy and Gerry. A proud Montrealer, Joyce loved her Town of Mount Royal neighbourhood and especially her years at Town of Mount Royal H.S. A strong athlete with a competitive streak to match, she loved sports and excelled at many. Basketball was her favourite, only later surpassed by tennis and curling. After graduating from McGill University's Phys-Ed program (Class of '51), Joyce began teaching kids, mostly new to the country or otherwise from families working hard to enhance their own pathways. Believing sports and the outdoors added to life experience, she taught and coached enthusiastically and always stood up for her students. A favourite story was her coaxing money from the school principal to transport her soccer team to 'away' games without missing too much class time. Other schools used hired buses but her team navigated the many public transit connections. Known for her smile and laughter, Joyce was also determined, resourceful and occasionally politely persistent. The money was eventually provided, and Joyce piled her team into taxis. Joyce and John married in '57 and shortly after a career move brought them to Toronto. Children soon arrived and Joyce focused on raising her kids, all the while also committing her time to many local community organizations and several municipal election campaigns. Busy as she was, new Toronto friendships flourished with Cathy, Anne, Mern, Ruth, Mary, Barb and others. Cherished Montreal relationships and lots of laughter also lived on with fifty-plus years of bi-annual reunions with the Hams, O'Connors, Cresswells, and Hickeys. Joyce was fun, a good friend to many and a great host. Mom loved walking the parks in Toronto with her dogs, spending time at the farm in Heathcote, and travelling with John whenever they could. Most of all she loved her family - sometimes quietly, sometimes stoically, but always proudly. She will be missed! Our family has celebrated Joyce's well-lived life.

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Published by The Globe and Mail from Nov. 26 to Nov. 30, 2022.

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James Orr

November 30, 2022

Hi Heather and David - Sorry to hear about your Mom - a long life but the end of an era all the same.
I remember your Mom as fun and how that she helped me when our dog had puppies after yours.
It was a wonderful street to grow up on because of people like her.
I´ll be hoping our paths cross soon.
Best
James Orr

Janet Coleman

November 27, 2022

She truly was a great friend and host! Memories of sleepovers and Christmas eves will be forever cherished Love to the family

Mary Goldsmith Davis

November 27, 2022

Dear Heather & David,
Your Mom was such a warm & welcoming soul always with a twinkle in her eye. Living across the road from you and being the eldest of six, I was regularly engaged to babysit. Your mom laid out the best snacks a 12 year old could imagine. It had been years since I´d last seen your Mom when she spotted me at a function honouring another neighbour who had been lost. Your mom hadn´t changed one iota: mischievously direct and curious. No surprise that she was a great teacher loved by her students.
With my deepest condolences,
Mary Goldsmith Davis

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