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EMILY MCLAUGHLIN Obituary

(September 26, 1955 – December 14, 2025) Emily, beloved mother of Jasper Allderdice; mother-in-law of Sherry Hussain; sister of Mundy and Hugh (Roger); ex-wife of Jacob Allderdice; and cousin, aunt, and friend to many, passed away peacefully, on a sunny morning, with her son, daughter-in-law, and sister by her side. Growing up in Don Mills, Ontario, with her sister and brother, Emily's long, lean physique led her to be a star runner on the track and field team at Greenland Road Public School. The family then moved to downtown Toronto, and Emily attended high school at Oakwood, and then Jarvis Collegiate. There, she developed an interest in fine arts, which would lead her to the arts program at Central Technical School and beyond. Ever curious, Emily discovered the spiritual teachings of Prem Rawat in 1974. Prem's message of inner peace and self-knowledge resonated deeply with Emily, and she was active in supporting his work throughout her life, attending, and volunteering at, many events in North America, Europe and Australia. In 1993, as part of a small group of volunteers, Emily helped to bring Prem's Peace Education Program to Toronto correctional facilities. Throughout this time, Emily's interest in art had not subsided, and she matriculated at the Nova Scotia School of Art and Design (NSCAD) in 1986. Studying fine art and art history, she graduated with a Bachelor of Fine Arts in 1989. Emily's paintings and drawings, recognized by an instructor as sophisticated, complex, and remarkable, are treasured by those privileged to possess them. During her time at NSCAD, Emily met Jacob Allderdice. Married in 1992, their son, Jasper, was born in Toronto in 1994. Emily returned to school in the early 2000s, graduating from Seneca College's Library & Information Technician program, and then worked at the Public Library in Aurora, Ontario, until the end of 2010. At the library, Emily was well served by her love of reading and educating. After retiring, Emily travelled extensively, continued to make art, read widely, took up pottery, cultivated her many friendships, collected antique furniture and artwork, and spent time creating beautiful spaces at her home in Toronto and beloved cottage on Stony Lake, where she enjoyed hosting friends and family. Emily was generous with her time and energy, had a wonderful sense of humour, and was unafraid of speaking her mind. In 2013, Emily was instrumental in bringing the Peace Education Program to the Vanier Center for Women in Milton. After the program was in place, Emily would drive to Milton every Tuesday to lead two workshops, picking up other volunteers on the way. Her compassion and gentle approach made a difference to the participants, and she appreciated most hearing their responses to the material. After seven years of volunteering, Emily was recognized for her work when she received a letter of commendation from Vanier's Superintendent. Emily will be deeply missed and remembered by all who knew her. A celebration of life will be scheduled for 2026.

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Published by The Globe and Mail from Jan. 3 to Jan. 7, 2026.

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Janie Upham

March 19, 2026

I have thought of Emily often since her passing. My daughter Liza and I spent many a weekend at the family´s farm and at the cottage, where the kids would play and we would try to figure out parenting. Emily was a generous and remarkable woman, and I admired her for her spunk and perseverance. My heart goes out to Jasper, Mundy and Roger.

Carolyn Bell Farrell

March 12, 2026

I was deeply sorry to hear of Emily´s passing. My sincere condolences to you all. Such a lovely, intelligent, and gentle soul. Although we lost touch as our sons were growing up, Emily was one of my closest friends in junior high. The photographs and narratives you´ve shared have filled me in on what seems to have been a wonderful life; thank you for this. I don´t have images of Emily to share, but her expressions and gestures stay with me. She was part of my story, and I hers. She will be remembered with love. Carolyn

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Evan Hosie

February 2, 2026

Oh, Emily, I thought we should reconnect (haven't talked to you since my Mum's wake in Toronto) and then came upon this awful news. You were much too young. I'm sure we'll meet again somewhere.

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jake allderdice

January 9, 2026

Remembering happier days from what seems not too long ago!
Emily was a gem, that's for sure. It was a privilege to share a corner of this life with her. I will always remember her.

Scott Clark

January 7, 2026

A deep, deep loss of a special, special spirit. I trust Emily is merged in the ocean of love she was so dedicated to bring an awareness of.
God speed Emily.

Lynn Bertie

January 6, 2026

My sincere condolences to all who knew Emily. I have fond memories of her and appreciation for her volunteer work.

Susan Doyle

January 6, 2026

I remember Emily as a beautiful young woman full of compassion and love for life.
May she be remembered with love and rest in peace.
Susan

Dennis Froese

January 4, 2026

Emily was a soul sister from many years ago when we were all much younger!... I'm sorry to hear that she shed this mortal coil...... seems like yesterday that we were laughing together!... RIP, Emily!

Ron Bator

January 4, 2026

Dearest Memories of Emily As A Soul Sister,in Our Community,&A Wonderful Prescence in My LifeSending Condolences To Jasper, &Family,Missing Her, &Holding Her Dearly in My HeartRon Bator

Gerald Cosgrove

January 4, 2026

What can I say? I already miss Emily!
She was special and unique.
I was always fond of her, and treasured the infrequent times we got to spend together.

Lynn Mackay

January 4, 2026

My heartfelt condolences to Mundy and Roger and Jasper and family. Emily was a very dear friend though we hadn´t been in touch for quite some time. I have so many fond memories from years together in Toronto. I´m deeply saddened to hear of her passing on. Sending love to you all. Lynn and Nicholas.

Doug Sage

January 4, 2026

My fondest memory of Emily is when I arrived at one of her many parties on the same day after returning to Toronto from my home town where I had attended the funeral of my older sister. I entered her house and she came to greet me in the vestibule. She asked me how I was doing and I told her that I had just come from my sister's funeral and I was very sad. She put her arms around me and gave me the warmest hug without saying much more. I still remember how that hug felt to this day.

Janet Wallace

January 3, 2026

Condolences Jasper, Sherry, Mundy, Roger and all the family and fellow friends of dear Emily.

The obituary aptly describes Em as a person and her many accomplishments, interests and efforts in life.

To me Emily was a special, dear friend. I am grateful for the many opportunities I had to enjoy her company. I treasure the memories, the sharing, the insights, the listening, the laughs.

I am left inspired by Emily´s strength and resourcefulness in the face of life´s final challenge. She met it with bravery, stoicism, resilience and grace.

I feel honoured to have had her as a friend. Emily will positively influence my life always by her character and no doubt the life´s of many others as well. She is missed but leaves a legacy of a life well lived.

Safe home dear Em.

Jonah Del Duca-Charny

January 3, 2026

Jasper, sending my love and condolences from Alex, Oisin, Deku and I.

I will always cherish the times I spent with you and your mom growing up. From a young age, I always felt so comfortable spending time in her care whether that was at your home on Russell Hill or at the cottage on Stoney Lake or our many trips to centreville on the island l. I can picture us piling into the tin boat with all our gear and having her drive us to have a great weekend of army men, tire swings, rattle snake hunting, jumping rocks and darts.

Also, I remember I slept over at your house and in the morning, we were eating breakfast and I wanted some milk but all your mom had was goat milk. I remember drinking it and thinking nothing of it and maybe even liking it. That day, when my mom picked me up, I asked if we could get some goat milk for our house and she said no and something about being able to taste the "barn" in the milk lol

She will be greatly missed. So sorry to hear this news today.

Love you dude!

Phyllis Kotzer

January 3, 2026

Emily was a dear friend for more than 45 years. She carried an ageless beauty and quiet elegance, was an attentive listener, loved live theatre and the arts, and always had a captivating story from her travels or daily life. She faced her health struggles with extraordinary courage and never complained-I always told her she was my hero. I will greatly miss her.

Colin and Mimi

January 3, 2026

I spent countless hours working with Emily whenever Prem Rawat came to Toronto. She always gave 100%.

Emily fought several lengthy battles with different cancers with dignity and courage plus amazing willpower. She constantly changed her diet to remove any foods that would be harmful to her, making it difficult to cook for her. However she gave us cookbooks that simplified things and we were able to create really nice meals that we all appreciated.

We spent many long weekends at her cottage and she at our home plus travelled with her in Costa Rica (twice), New Zealand and Australia where we went on amazing hikes together. Not to mention the Bruce Trail.

She was fun to be with, (despite occasionally speaking her mind - usually correctly) and was the perfect host at her many gatherings.

Emily will be missed but she was knew herself and had much gratitude for a beautiful life.

Lina

January 3, 2026

It´s just not fair that someone so bright and beautiful as Emily, so full of wisdom and experience, would have to leave. She reminds me to appreciate every moment, as it´s all we really are guaranteed. Happy Trails, Emily! You are greatly missed!

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