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Martha Bean
December 22, 2021
Dear Cathy, Debbie and Janet, (nee Duguid),
I am so sorry for you for the loss of your Mum. ( it was never Mom in our house. That connected to grandparents and our "hail Britain" stuff). My memories of us all, living on Douglas Drive, are still vivid. The memories of you and your Mum, Mrs. D, and your father, who I always referred to as Mr. Duguid.
That your father built your house. Beside Mrs. Fish´s house.
Your above ground pool in the backyard. When no kids around, Mrs. D would wade round and round. circulating the water, while also keeping herself in such beautiful shape.
In the patioed backyard area, an apple tree. In the kitchen, a lazy susan, Cathy and I used to try to hide inside there. In the fridge freezer, well hidden, a pack of cigarettes. So Mr. D would not know, someone smoked. In the basement, a painting of your father and other musicians. Before he like most everyone determined, he had to focus on making a living. I cannot remember your Mother without remembering your Dad. The black and white tiles in the basement, in front of the TV. Trying on nail polish. Then trying to take it off, and the stuff spilt on the floor. Ruined the tile. Mrs. D. never reprimanded me. She was forgiving.
The Airdales. The dog shows. I went to at least two.
The time I got so really mad at Cathy, and at school, pip squeak me, pummeled her. There was a discussion at our door. Your Mom and my Mum. I went over and apologised. In those days, we did that in person, face to face.
The beautiful clothes she had. Fancy shoes. Jewellry. Sparkly. We never touched the more precious stuff. (tho Cathy suggested yes. I flatly said No). Cathy & I and my younger sister Sarah used to try her stuff on. It was fun. We always put it all back neat, though I suspect she had an inkling. She never let us know it´s a no to try on. She was generous this way. And a lot of fun. She laughed. And worked hard to not only support her husband´s business, but to help her daughters have some freedom, fun.
The time she called to let us know our dog Barney had returned to the house after we had moved.
She was a gatekeeper, a good woman. She was Mrs. D. And every kid on the street knew her, with respect. She was vibrant and beautiful. I loved her. With love, Martha B
Steven Fitzgeral
December 13, 2021
My sincere condolences to the Duguid family. I'll always treasure meeting you at Ronville Lodge.
Cathy Campbell (nee: Buffam)
December 11, 2021
So sorry for your loss. She was quite an instrumental influence in my teen years. I lived at 40 Douglas Drive and remember when they built their house on the vacant lot where we all played baseball. They owned the first TV on the street so I and my friend Tish, who lived at 21 Douglas, were thoroughly delighted to babysit which we did many times. On week days we could be found often after school watching Howdy Doody, The Lone Ranger with Mrs. Duguid, also Kate Smith who opened and closed her show singing "When the Moon Comes Over The Mountain" and Mrs. Duguid would make get us sing along with her. Her door was always open and her cookies were legend. Both my Mom and my (much later) Mother-in-law bought their meat from Mr. Duguid for many years. He was often at our door on his way home from work with our evening meat or poultry. She even taught us how to pad our bras when we were developing. She always claimed that "What nature has forgotten you can always stuff with cotton". Being considerably younger than our Mothers, she was a wealth of knowledge regarding things our more old fashioned Moms didn't talk much about. She claims some very vivid and wonderful memories for me. I was delighted to read about all the great years and experiences she has had since we grew up and moved away. May she rest in well deserved peace. Cathy
Tom Heyes
December 11, 2021
I have known the Duguid family a very long time. I am filled with memories of spending a lot of time with all of them. Great memories. Indelible memories. And Mrs. "D" was always a joy to be around. A wonderful woman. A marvelous person. And with Mr. "D," a terrific couple. And all those memories will live on.
To Janet, Debbie, Cathy, Alan and all who will miss Mrs. "D" always, I send my condolences and heartfelt thoughts. Goodbye Mrs."D."
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