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George Reed Sanderson NELSON

George Reed Sanderson NELSON obituary, Toronto, ON

George NELSON Obituary

GEORGE REED SANDERSON NELSON After a life well lived but far too short, Reed passed away on December 27, 2020, at the age of 61. His wife, Jill and daughters, Meredith and Jennie are heartbroken to lose such a great husband and father. He leaves his loving mother, Frances and sisters, Francie and Tibbie (Fraser Clark); Jill's parents, Rosemary and Dick Crawford; and her brothers, David (Barbara) and Rob. Reed is missed by many wonderful aunts and uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews, and friends. He was predeceased by his father, David Nelson. Reed was an avid athlete and dedicated himself to excellence in whatever he did. With grace, power and speed he moved through the ranks of the Toronto hockey leagues, eventually becoming a coach. At Forest Hill C.I., he was a prefect and played on the competitive golf and hockey teams, and as a young adult, played for the Granite Club in the Toronto & District Men's Squash League. At his family cottage on Lake Simcoe, he golfed at Big Cedar and Big Bay golf clubs, and was an enthusiastic participant in the annual regatta. He really found his groove with running, completing two marathons and many, many 20 - 30K races, off and on road. He loved to run, especially with his Granite and Second Cup groups. Reed's many friends from all areas of his life remember him as a "class act", thoughtful and kind, empathetic and wise, with a sense of humour that would leave people in stitches (especially during long morning runs!) He had an incredible memory, especially for sports history, birds, and music from Gregorian chant to indie rock - his knowledge base was huge and eclectic. Reed provided guidance and goofiness to support his daughters through their athletic, academic and professional endeavours, helping them to develop intellectual curiosity, confidence, and independence. Reed's lifelong love of music led him to the church of St. Mary Magdalene, which became a second home. Over 24 years Reed took on many roles including Churchwarden, Vestry Clerk, Server, and Sub-Deacon. But it was in his role as Sub-Cantor of the Ritual Choir where Reed found his greatest joy. He became passionate about singing chant and devoted his legendary self-discipline to become the singer he wanted to be. A graduate of the University of Toronto, Reed went on to become a CPA-CMA and spent most of his career at RBC Capital Markets. In 2018 Reed joined OSFI as a senior supervisor in the small and medium size banking group. Despite the relatively short time he spent there, he was valued as a colleague and made firm friendships with some wonderful people. With courage, perseverance, and the incredible support of friends and family, Reed lived with and defied advanced pancreatic cancer for 17 months. There were so many health professionals in the Princess Margaret Cancer program who gave us more time with Reed, including Drs. Raymond Jang, Michael Allen, Rebecca Wong, Ahmed Al-Awamer and Eric Massicotte (TWH), as well as the many fine people behind the scenes at UHN. In particular, we are grateful to RNs Jennifer Petronis at PMH and Irene from Paramed. Reed was able to be at home in his last weeks, thanks to the compassionate support of the Temmy Latner Centre for Palliative Care, especially Dr. Susan Thouin, and the nurses and PSWs from SE Health (especially RNs Ziwei, Mark and Sarah). At his request, a service to honour Reed's life will be held when Covid restrictions are lifted, so we can all gather. If you wish, donations can be made to one of the following: www.ThePMCF.ca, the Wallace and Margaret McCain Fund; www.tlcpc.org; or www.stmarymagdalene.ca.

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Published by The Globe and Mail from Jan. 2 to Jan. 6, 2021.

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Neal Stacey

January 15, 2021

I am absolutely gutted to hear about Reed passing. He was simply an awesome human being. I have known Reed for a few decades and have worked with him, complained about work with him, played hockey with him, complained about hockey with him and just really enjoyed talking to him. He was always quick to talk about the church and his amazing family. My condolences to Jill, Jennie and Meredith and the rest of the family

Ana Ramirez

January 8, 2021

Dear Jill and family; please accept my deepest condolences as you grieve. Words cannot take away the hurt you’re all feeling, but I want you to know you’re are in my thoughts and prayers in this time of loss.

Niraj

January 6, 2021

I worked with Reed during his time at OSFI. He was a true gentleman and always carried himself with class. His intellect and ability to connect with people were the first aspects I noticed about him. Having lost my own father earlier than expected, I know the pain all too well and hope his family finds the strength needed to get through this.

Peter Corry

January 5, 2021

I worked with Reed for many years at RBC and remember fondly speaking to him on so many topics, he was always well informed and ready to engage and discuss nearly anything. Mondays always had a tale of weekend running, hockey or chanting or especially his family.
My condolences to Jill, Jennie and Meredith – I’m sure you have many great memories to sustain you.

Ashwin Ranjit

January 5, 2021

It was great getting to know Reed over the last few years. While his time at OSFI was short, our conversations were always meaningful and he really was a true gentleman. I was also fortunate on occasion to run into Reed in the neighbourhood, after his choir time at the Church of St. Mary Magdalene and connect with him over the phone. Reed spoke fondly of the family, especially during this last year together - please accept my deepest condolences and take care.

Asanka de Silva

January 5, 2021

I had a handful of interactions with Reed at OSFI. He was always polite, kind, engaging and happy to share his knowledge and experience. I was looking forward to having him back at work. My deepest sympathies to his family.

Deborah Hawkes

January 4, 2021

Jill, Meredith and Jennie, We are so saddened to hear of Reed’s passing. It has been a while since we have seen your family on your visits to Nova Scotia, but we remember our encounters fondly and know how much Dick and Rosemary enjoyed your stays. We send our love and condolences. Deb, Rob and Bronwyn

Tim Allen

January 4, 2021

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. I will always remember Reed fondly.

Shelly

January 4, 2021

My deepest sympathies to Jill, Meredith and Jennie. I worked with Reed for many years at RBC and although I never met any of you it was evident from the many stories he shared that he adored, loved and admired the three of you. Words always fail at times like this. Keep his memory in your heart and one day it will bring more smiles than tears.

Arielle

January 3, 2021

I did not know Reed personally, but felt as if I knew him from the wonderful stories and bits of information gleaned from his wife, Jill. I'm not surprised to read just how much he contributed to so many in his life. It is clear he was an amazing person, and will continue to leave behind a beautiful legacy. My sincere condolences to Jill, Meredith, Jennie and all those who will dearly miss Reed.

Wayne Rudson

January 3, 2021

Reed was my fraternity brother in Pi lambda phi at the university of Toronto in 1980.

He was a great brother - happy, supportive, enthusiastic and kind.

It was a privilege to be Reeds brother. Not 4 years but a lifetime.

Rest In Peace Reed.

Jay B Scolnick

January 2, 2021

I grew up with Reed at Forest Hill Collegiate. We were good friends through high school. When he went to the University of Toronto, I brought Reed into the fraternity at U of T called Pi Lambda Phi. We had several good parties. At the time, 1983 we had a "Who Shot JR", that attracted a few hundred guests at our house on Robert Street. Needless to say, the landlord was not very happy about that party and our unbridled popularity. Reed was a super guy, a complete gentleman, very friendly, and everyone liked him. I am so sorry for the family's loss. My sincere condolences to the family. Sincerely, Jay Scolnick

Amanda Swiniarski

January 2, 2021

I never had the pleasure to meet Reed, but I am so lucky to have one of his daughters as my close friend. The influence he has had on Meredith is evident in the way she chooses to live her life - with curiosity, vigour, and grace. My deepest condolences to Jill, Mere, and Jennie. Keeping you close in my heart.

Maureen

January 2, 2021

So very sorry to hear about Reed's passing. I worked with him for many years at RBC. We had many conversations about running and I remember him practicing his gregorian chants! He was fun and very knowledgeable about many topics. My condolences to his family.

Tom Blackmore

January 2, 2021

Reed and I played a lot of squash together years ago...We had a large group of regulars that he was a part of.
He was a good player but more importantly he was always a good person...always interesting and always interested in what you were doing..I know he had been in ill health for a long time but I am very sorry to hear this news

Kevin Smith

January 2, 2021

Very sorry to hear the news hear in Chicago. I have many fond memories of spending time with Reed at various family events and also playing recreationally hockey with him - a true gentleman!

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