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Gordon WARME Obituary

GORDON WARME Gordon Warme died on June 1, 2023 at the age of 90, exactly one year after retiring and giving up his medical license. He had a peaceful medically assisted death after living and fighting with Multiple Myeloma for the past 10 years, which is about 6 years longer than the prognosis he was given. He was surrounded by his three children, Paul (Maxine), Diana, and Karl (Jill); and his adored grandchildren (Alex, Jessica, Stefani, Mariah, Sasha, Miles and Chloe); and his companion of over 15 years, Chui-Ping Mak. He was preceded in death by his younger brother, Ernie Warme, who died only one month ago at the age of 85; and he is survived by his younger siblings, Gretel McGillivray and Rudi Warme. Gordon was born and raised in Toronto to German/Austrian immigrant parents, but moved east briefly during a part of the 3 years that his father was interned during the war. He spent many happy summers working at the Banff Springs Hotel as a bellboy in order to pay for his medical school tuition. He graduated from University of Toronto in medicine and then psychiatry, also attended the Universität Heidelberg in Germany, and then in 1961, moved to Topeka, Kansas with his wife, Barbara, to attend the Menninger School of Psychiatry for psychoanalytic training, and where he began raising his family. He settled back in Toronto in 1969, where he worked at the Clarke Institute of Psychiatry (now CAMH) for most of his career. He was the first director and one of the founders of the Child Psychoanalytic Program in 1976, and which is still up and running. He also had a private practice and was an academic in the Dept. of Psychiatry at University of Toronto for over 40 years. He wrote 5 books, and just completed one that is as of yet unpublished. A documentary was also recently completed about his professional life, which is yet to be released. He loved his cottage and his garden, was an avid cyclist, a keen tennis player, loved to travel, and was a lifelong subscriber to the National Ballet and Canadian Opera Company. He was also a voracious reader and one of Toronto Public Library's most enthusiastic customers. A celebration of life will be held some time in the fall.

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Published by The Globe and Mail from Jun. 17 to Jun. 21, 2023.

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Mikhail Epelbaum

June 5, 2024

In the beginning of my psychiatric training, 1982, I wanted to become a psychoanalyst. I approached Gordon Warme as he was a training psychoanalyst and worked with him for 5 years. As the analysis progressed, I learned about myself. Eventually, my intellectual interests, language skills, and personal background led me to practice in a different branch of psychiatry. Four decades later, this was a correct decision. I am immensely grateful to Dr Warme for sharing with me the tools that influenced my entire life - both professional and personal aspects of it (as if they could be separated).

Anne

May 25, 2024

Dr Warme was my analyst during his training days at Menninger. He showed me the way to becoming a functional adult and eventually a physician. Decades later we became friends and corespondents and he again gave me the courage to live honestly. An amazing mind, an amazing human; I´m glad to have come across this obituary and to have known him.

Sameer

November 22, 2023

Gordon was a mentor to me during my first year residency in psychiatry at UofT. He was an amazing man and one of only a few real teachers and thinkers there. I have all his books and he was a great inspiration for me in my career. I still remember a grand rounds he gave titled "Why Pluto is a planet and why Schizophrenia is not a disease". We had some deep conversations and he was a true confidante to me at that time and I was lucky to meet him.

Kathleen Byers

August 11, 2023

My condolences for Gordon Warme.
I didn't know Gordon Warme personally. Our paths crossed literally on Queen Street where Gordon asked if I would help him cross the street.
He said, "Would you mind holding my hand?"
As we strolled across the road it was the first time I'd met an actual psychiatrist.
Gordon shared that he had worked at CAMH for over 40 years, emphasizing how he didn't like what they had done to that place.
His main concern was prescription drugs and the over-medication of people with mental illness.
Gordon said he could send me this book if I was interested.
Thank you, I received the one titled Daggers of the Mind - Psychiatry and the Myth of Mental Illness.
Now I am intrigued to read all of his other books.
Goodbye Gordon it was lovely to know you.
Kathleen Byers - Crossing Guard

Jonathan

June 19, 2023

Dr. W and I used to hit up this pizza joint called Dante´s Inferno Paninoteca at Davenport and Ossington (now closed) where I'd grill him on psychiatric issues, his writing or anything he said in an interview. I ended up doing a documentary film on him which would've been completed sooner, but for the public health closures and his safety. We always had something to talk about and I'll miss the calls and getting random book chapters from him. I'll miss sharing my thoughts and creations with him. I'm terribly grateful our paths crossed and for his patience as I put the film together, trying different things and adding others. Take care Gordon, you are missed.

Suki Falkner

June 17, 2023

I was a member of the first class of the Child Psychoanalytic Programme, and while several people worked hard to bring it into being, I think it is fair to say that Gordon was indispensable. He really went to bat for it, and without him, it would not have happened, at least at that time.

Ray Freebury

June 17, 2023

I remember how Gordon enjoyed the brots at a market place in Lubeck Germany. We were both attending the first meeting of the International Psyhoanalytic Association in Germany after WW2. He took pride and pleasure in introducing my wife and I to the pleasures of German sausages.

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