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Graham CARTER Obituary
Proud, loving and devoted father to Dylan, Luke and Dallas Carter. He was preceded in death by his loving father, Victor; and his mother and father-in-law, Kitty and Mac McConnell. He is survived by his mother, Annie Mae; brother, Grant (Vanda) of Ingersoll, ON; and brother and sister-in-law Tom McConnell (LaTricia Turner) of Atherton, CA. Loving uncle to Zachary (Emily), Patrick, Aaron (Megan) and Emma Carter, and Will, Reed and Cole McConnell.
Graham grew up in Woodstock, ON and was an avid sportsman. He attended Penn and Harvard undergrad, and was captain of the Harvard hockey team. He received an MBA from the University of Western Ontario. After settling in Toronto, he married Marian, who he met through his Harvard network of friends, and they started their family. He also started what has become a very successful family-run life insurance firm, CAP Advisors Inc., achieving the pinnacle of his profession. He was a friend to many, who took a genuine interest in each person he met, drawing them out, affirming them, providing advice and encouragement, and finding something to joke about. Graham was a very humble, selfless individual who always put his family first. He will forever be remembered for his kind, caring, and generous nature.
A graveside service for immediate family members is being held in Woodstock.
A private Celebration of Life to honour Graham will be held in May.
In lieu of flowers, donations to the Michael Garron Hospital Foundation or to the Heart and Stroke Foundation would be appreciated.
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Memories and Condolences
for Graham CARTER
13 Entries
Steve Cathcart
October 12, 2024
I've known Graham or "Carts" since 1985. I met him via my late father at 15. There is not enough room here to describe him. Here are some words.....love, gentle, genuine, honest, kind, smart, dad, beautiful soul. I'm sorry to hear of his passing but all who knew him became better people. Love Steve Cathcart.
Libby Wildman
July 3, 2024
Marian,I am in shock about the passing of Graham. So young and so vibrant, and you two such a great couple and family. Sending my love and hope to see you and give you a hug in real life xox
Jeffrey Egan
May 22, 2024
So sorry to hear about Graham´s passing. A wonderful, easygoing, warm soul. Enjoyed all our conversations because Graham was funny, insightful, and showed genuine interest. He listened well and I was always a little better in some way after we spoke. I will miss knowing him. My heart goes out to his wife, kids, extended family and close friends.
God Bless.
Jeff Egan
Steve Rowley
May 10, 2024
So shocked and saddened to hear this morning of Graham´s death. Played hockey with him for years. He always had time to listen, a wonderful quality.
Roy Firth and Elaine Casavant
May 2, 2024
Dear Marian and family.
It was a shock when we heard of Graham´s passing. He was such a wonderful vibrant fellow, great businessman and good friend. Great sense of humour. I can´t say enough. Life is too short. Marian and family, our deep condolences go out to you all. May we all remember Graham for the great guy that he was.
With love
Roy Firth and Elaine Casavant.
Jenny & John
April 29, 2024
Graham's genuine kindness and wonderful sense of humor made him truly special. His absence will be deeply felt by all who had the privilege of knowing him. We will miss him dearly and have Marian, Dylan, Luke and Dallas in our thoughts. Jenny, John, Adam and Jordan.
CHRISTINE LENGVARI
April 22, 2024
It is indeed with sadness that I read of this loss. He was a star among stars.
I feel privileged to have know him.
My condolences.
Robert Maloney
April 22, 2024
I will miss Graham´s magnificent, if sometimes irreverent, sense of humor that paired perfectly with his impish grin. My favorite Carterian witticism, after a long night of drinking: "I´ve gotta pee so bad my back teeth are singing `anchors away.´"
Peg McIlveen
April 21, 2024
My heart is heavy with this devastating loss for Marian and the boys.
In reflecting about Graham today, I realized how much he gave to my family. He was there for me as I navigated a changing world during and after my divorce. His generosity of time and expertise helped me build a new foundation. Graham had a supportive kindness in all his interactions with me, and for that I will always be grateful. I´m so sorry Marian, he won´t be forgotten.
Kathy McCormack
April 20, 2024
So very sorry for your loss Marian. Our heartfelt condolences go out to you, your boys and your entire family. Our thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.
Dan and Kathy McCormack
Esme and Mark
April 20, 2024
Beyond his many accomplishments, Graham always extended kindness, interest and respect for all those around him. We feel privileged and grateful for time that we have spent with Graham. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. Mark, Esme, Liam and Alex
Lori Tersigni
April 20, 2024
I´ve only known Graham a few years but he was a beautiful man. So kind and thoughtful and truly interested in everyone around him. Frank has lost a best friend and the world has lost an amazing person. We are so sorry for the family and their loss. It is so hard. Love to each of you.
Trevor McIntyre
April 20, 2024
Marian and Family- so very sorry to hear this sad news. Graham will always be remembered from the neighbourhood and the rink. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Trevor McIntyre and Family.
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