Max WIECZOREK Obituary
MAX WOLFGANG WIECZOREK April 28, 1939 - June 26, 2023 On June 26, 2023, our Olympian hung up his oar and set off into the sunset. Max died peacefully and on his own terms, surrounded by a few close friends and family. He is survived by his loving wife, Val; daughters, Kerry and Katie; his grandson, Devin; and his step-grandson, Jacob. Max was a giant, in every sense of the word. He was compassionate, empathetic, determined and thoughtful. He remained an avid learner, humbly exploring many activities during his lifetime. After emigrating from Germany in 1952, Max played football and rugby for John Oliver High School. His athletic pursuits continued while attending the University of British Columbia. There, he was a member of the Thunderbird Rowing Crew. On April 28, 1963, which coincided with Max's birthday, the crew competed at the Pan American Games in Brazil and won the gold medal. The following year, Max and the Thunderbirds proudly represented Canada at the 1964 World Olympics in Tokyo. His passion for rowing combined with an encouraging spirit provided his special ability to coach and mentor younger rowers. After graduating from UBC, Max worked in the investment industry. A successful lifelong career in which he remained a trusted and highly valued servant. He was also pleased to mentor young people in business as well. Max was a multi-talented athlete. He spent much of his leisure time dedicated to athletic pursuits, particularly running, hiking, skiing and golf. He successfully completed the Boston marathon and several difficult hikes throughout BC, Alberta, Yukon and Nunavut. His athletic determination followed him onto the golf course and the practice range. In his younger years, he achieved a 6-handicap and he humbly got four hole-in-ones throughout his lifetime. During the winter months, Max spent his weekends with his family at their cabin in Whistler; skiing with his "girls" during the day and reading or playing board games in the evening. Max was an enthusiastic reader, passionate about politics and history. He had a thirst for knowledge and was an informed thinker. His wit combined with his keen mind prompted spirited discussion around a variety of topics with friends at the Vancouver Club, Capilano Golf and Country Club, and at most of the coffee shops in between. Once retired, Max was still engaged but at a slower pace of life. In 2022, Max fell ill. He was diagnosed with congestive heart failure and esophageal cancer. The Olympian fought the fight of his life with grit and grace, optimism and determination. When surgery was no longer an option, Max decided to hang up his oar. The family (and Max) would like to express gratitude for the quality of care and attention Max received from the Palliative Care team at Vancouver Coastal Health. Max left this world with dignity, grace, humility and surrounded by love - immense love. Max reached out to many friends in the past month to say goodbye. As per his wishes, there will be no formal memorial service or celebration of life. A verse from "Epitaph" by Merrit Malloy: "When I die, give what's left of me away to children and old men that wait to die. And if you need to cry, cry for your brother walking the street beside you. And when you need me, put your arms around anyone and give them what you need to give me. Love doesn't die, people do. So, when all that's left of me is Love, give me away."
Published by The Globe and Mail from Jul. 8 to Jul. 12, 2023.