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Neil BURNHAM Obituary

NEIL EUGENE BURNHAM Passed away on January 19, 2020 peacefully in his sleep at his senior home in Ancaster, Ontario Canada Neil was born on May 8th 1936 in Missoula Montana to Marie and Harry Burnham. His parents divorced and his mother remarried Lloyd Wise when he was in the 1st grade. Nancy and Joyce Wise completed his new family and his new sisters were the same age as he and his older brother Donald. They lived in Milltown, Montana for a year and then moved back to Missoula. Neil graduated from Missoula County High in 1954 and following his graduation he joined the Air Force and was stationed in Paris France as a secretary to a senior officer. He and his life long partner Jim moved to Canada in the 1960's, first to Montreal and then to Toronto where they both worked at the University of Toronto, Jim as a Professor of French and Neil in Human Relations. When Jim passed away, Neil began travelling extensively throughout the world making many friends, started playing more bridge and became a director for three bridge clubs in the Toronto area. He particularly loved bridge cruises, dressed beautifully, was always good to the ladies and loved to dance. Neil is survived by his sister Joyce Castonguay Smith and his sister-in-law Nancy Burnham, plus numerous nieces and nephews. His brother Donald and sister Nancy Wise Blake are also deceased. His beloved niece Renee has taken his ashes back for internment in Montana. He will be greatly missed by us all.

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Published by The Globe and Mail from Feb. 8 to Feb. 12, 2020.

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Susan Murphy

August 24, 2022

Dear Renee, beloved niece of Neil (Eugene Burnham). I have photographs that your uncle took of a retirement party at the University of Toronto and would love to return them to you. I live in Toronto, ON, Canada, but can send them to you wherever is most convenient. So sorry for your loss of such a lovely person in your life.

February 14, 2020

Neil was my boss when I worked in HR at UofT. I remember him as a very kind and caring man. He was especially sympathetic after I suffered a miscarriage, asking if I needed more at home to heal. At his retirement party, I remember him working the room chatting with everyone. Thank you Neil for being such a lovely man, I've thought of you often over the years.

Paula Strong

February 12, 2020

When Neil was around there was always lively conversation and laughter. My mom, Ruby, adored him, and so did all of her kids. He was so kind and thoughtful - a very great fellow. May he rest in eternal peace and love. Paula Strong

Steven Mosher

February 8, 2020

Although I have not seen Neil in over 39 years, I clearly remember him from our days at the former Kate Buckman's Bridge Club in the old Muir Park Hotel on Yonge St. A few of us were once invited to his and his partner's apartment on Maitland St. to play some rounds of duplicate bridge. Neil was always friendly and courteous to me and everyone else who knew him at Kate Buckman's. I extend my sincere condolences to his family in this difficult time.

Steven Mosher

February 8, 2020

Although I have not seen Neil in over 39 years, I clearly remember him from our days at the former Kate Buckman's Bridge Club in the old Muir Park Hotel on Yonge St. A few of us were once invited to his and his partner's apartment on Maitland St. to play some rounds of duplicate bridge. Neil was always friendly and courteous to me and everyone else who knew him at Kate Buckman's. I extend my sincere condolences to his family in this difficult time.

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