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David and Laura
November 1, 2019
Hello Friends and Family of Paul. We want to share our love and respect for our dear friend. We have so many stories and rembrances of Paul but a couple stand out. Paul, as you all know, was very organized and focused. He was always making lists of conversation topics that he would bring to visits with his friends. We would be having dinner, or coffee and he would pull his list out, formed into an agenda and point by point we would have an in depth and well rounded conversation. Through those lists he showed how much thought he had put into the visit, how the time spent with friends were more than momentary occurances, how he stayed connected when apart. This wonderful and unique aspect of him rubbed off on us and we created and would bring our lists to the table as well. The visit couldn't end until we each had gone though the lists.
October 31, 2019
Hello friends and family of Paul. We want to share our love and respect for our dear friend. We have so many stories and remembrances of Paul but a couple stand out. Paul, as you may know, was very organized and focused. He was always making lists of conversation topics that he would bring to visits with his friends. We would be having dinner or coffee and he would pull his list out, formed into an agenda or page of sticky notes, and point by point we would have an in depth and well rounded conversation. Through those lists he showed how much thought he had put into the visit, how the time spent with friends was more than momentary occurrences, and how he stayed connected when apart. This wonderful and unique aspect of him rubbed off on us and we created and would bring our lists to the table as well. The visit couldn't end until we each had gone through the lists.
The other significant story we want to share about Paul happened during this past June. Paul was experiencing trouble sleeping and would be awake in the early hours of the morning. We are also often awake at that time and started exchanging early morning emails, sharing our thoughts. Paul observed that he wanted to acquire more descriptive words for that time of day as there seemed to be many more words for the other end of daylight. So we started sharing our words to express what we saw and felt in the early morning light. That emerged into using Haiku poetry, which involves three lines. The first line is five syllables, the second line has seven and the third line is back to five syllables. It was a beautiful time of connection and inspiration. We are sure that Paul wouldn't mind if we shared one of his haikus:
The early dawn light
a soft whisper in my ear
at the end is dusk
We will leave you with a haiku that we have created for Paul:
Paul we send you off
we'll join you another day
get your lists ready
With love and full hearts,
Laura and David
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