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Paul STEFOW Obituary

PAUL IOTI STEFOW April 29, 1942 - October 10, 2018 A private soul, happiest at work, with his wife or his grandsons, Paul Ioti Stefow exited this world suddenly the morning of October 10, 2018 in the arms of Evelyn Stefov, his wife of 50 years. Professional engineer, lover of history, purveyor of dry wit and sarcasm, consummate professional, Paul was a man for whom two things mattered most: family and work. Paul was born in Macedonia, Greece to Draganí and Dimitris Stefou in 1942, the youngest of 4 sons following Antoni, Christo and Niko. His character was shaped by being forced to leave Greece for Romania in 1948 as a child, during the Greek Civil War, along with his brother Niko, whom he loved dearly. Romania provided young Paul an opportunity to study, perfect his beautiful penmanship, and cultivate a love of literature and the classics - which, later in life, turned into a love for spy novels and the daily news. Paul received a degree in mechanical engineering in Brasov, Romania, as a top student, and then retrained, alongside his wife, at the University of Toronto where he received a Master of Engineering. Despite his early years and migrations, Paul felt fiercely at home only in Canada. His few retreats among family included treasured holidays at the cottage in Muskoka and the condo in Hallandale, Florida. Unbeatable at backgammon and chess, his hobbies also included long neighbourhood walks and the peacefulness and satisfaction of riding the lawnmower at the cottage. His community of friends, for whom he felt quiet loyalty and love, were regularly subject to his straight-talk, humour and facetiousness. During his long and successful career, he rose from an entry-level engineer to Senior Vice-President - holding roles with Caterpillar, then the Urban Transportation Development Corporation - his first foray into light rail mass transit and city-building. He then moved onto Spar Aerospace, Alcatel and finally Hatch. At Hatch, he helped build Toronto's Sheppard Subway Extension, then the York University Line 1 extension - 'not bad for a poor immigrant,' as he liked to say. His refusal to retire led him to a third subway project, barely begun, but a symbol of his love and commitment to his work. He was a self-made man who always put 100 per cent into the projects to which he devoted his life, including the Canadian contribution to the International Space Station, robotics, and numerous works of public transit. Paul is survived by his wife, Evelyn; his daughter, Dana Stefov (Sébastien Maillette); and his two grandsons, Alexis and Sacha Stefov Maillette who he loved deeply and who lovingly called him Dedo. Paul's funeral will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Tuesday, October 16th, at York Cemetery, 160 Beecroft Road, Toronto. A viewing will be held on Monday, October 15th from 4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. at the same address.

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Published by The Globe and Mail from Oct. 13 to Oct. 17, 2018.

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Bosco Lai

March 19, 2019

Dear Evelyn,

This is Bosco, one of your MOL interns from years ago. I was just trying to look you up to reconnect and came across this. Sorry for your loss and I hope you and the family had recovered even if it's only a little. I am now in the US and hope that we can reconnect some day and share what's happened over the last decade.

Bosco

Larry Brown

December 3, 2018

Worked with Paul years ago. A man of honor. Will surely be missed. Thoughts and prayers with his family.

October 26, 2018

Evelyn and family, I'm very sorry for your loss. Sending you my sincerest condolences.
Audrey Birkbeck

David Masin

October 21, 2018

Dear Aunt Evelyn and Dana
I cannot believe that Uncle Ioti (Paul) has passed.
I have so many fond memories of him at my Baba and Dedo's house and at family gatherings.
Baba Slava and Dedo Slavo loved him very much as we all did.
I just became aware of his passing and unfortunately I had missed his funeral.
He will be forever missed as he was such a gentle sole to me always.
God speed
You both are in my thoughts and prayers.
With love
David Masin

October 15, 2018

Dear Evelyn and Dana

I am so truly sorry for your loss. Although I did not know Paul well, I knew he was a wonderful person. It feels like yesterday when you two came to our wedding - Your Paul and My Paul - both very handsome men and similar personalities. You and your family & friends will miss him dearly. Take care, Love Karen Liacos xoxo

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