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RICHARD MACKENZIE LAY

RICHARD MACKENZIE LAY obituary

RICHARD LAY Obituary

December 27, 1949 - November 13, 2024 Richard Mackenzie Lay, a husband, father, grandfather, community member, and renowned engineer, passed away in Revelstoke, BC, on November 13, 2024, after living fully and bravely with cancer. He passed surrounded by loved ones in his beautifully renovated Revelstoke home, his final project. Born in Montreal to Harry Morison Lay and Margaret Adele Thompson, Richard was educated at UTS, Yale University and at the University of Guelph (Engineering). He will be forever loved and missed by his wife, Lee Wisener; daughter, Adele Lay; son, Lyon Lay; son-in-law, Sam Rousselle; daughter-in-law, Magnolia Kai; grandchildren, Zoya and Ellie Rousselle-Lay; and siblings, Helen Kucey, Janet Hardy, Alison Thornton, and Harry Lay jr. In the Ontario hamlet of Eden Mills, Richard was hailed as a consummate volunteer. He was internationally known for his professional expertise, principally at Enermodal Engineering, receiving many awards in the fields of energy efficiency and building science. Richard was the recipient of the University of Guelph Engineering Medal of Achievement, the Energy Globe World Award, and the Tree for Life Award from the Canadian Consulting Engineering Council. Richard lived a full life, pursuing many sports and outdoor adventures, as well as raising two children with Lee. As a founder of the Eden Mills Jackrabbit ski club and coach to the University of Guelph ski team, he taught a village to cross country ski. Richard's passion for cycling took him across North America, South America and Europe. His puckish sense of humour shone when Richard mimicked Donald Duck, a gift that always reduced his audience to hysterics. His intelligence and playfulness will never be forgotten. A Celebration of Life will be held for him in Spring 2025 in Eden Mills, ON.

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Published by The Globe and Mail from Dec. 14 to Dec. 18, 2024.

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Alix Mabee

May 25, 2025

Dear Lee,
I am very late in connecting. In fact, I am aware that you are holding Richard´s celebration of life today in Eden Mills, May 25, 2025. Linda Sw has kept me posted on you and your loss of wonderful Richard. What a terrific contributor to life was he! Impressive. My heart is with you and your family as you cope and adjust. Wishing you well deserved peace.

Your friend and co-volunteer, Alix Mabee

Dave Vanstone

January 30, 2025

I knew Richard through cross-country ski events. He was my course conductor when I was taking my level 2 Technical but he also became a friend in the ski world. Working at events or just helping out he was always there , his knowledge was incredible. An icon in the ski and volunteer world. He will be missed! Condolences to his family. Please let me know when his celebration is.

Lars Neuman, Timmele, Sweden

January 17, 2025

I got to know Richard at Guelph, united by the interest in cross country skiing and orienteering. Later, with a whole ocean between us, we did not meet very often. When we did, it was with great joy. Richard was a very nice and interesting man. My condolences to Lee and family on their great loss.

Chris Giannou

January 14, 2025

Richard and I were together at UTS. When I returned to Toronto to visit family after working in various battlefields as a surgeon, Richard would look me up and call to get together. I was touched by his humane interest in what I had been through. I will always remember his sense of humanity and his humility. A wonderful human being.

Paul Wright

January 13, 2025

Always the consummate gentleman. Always an inspiration through the endless hours of swim practices and retakes on the stage of UTS.
Pretty much everyone looked up to his wisdom.
Altruism on steroids.

Wayne Maddever

January 13, 2025

A shocking and sad announcement. Although our contact had been seldom since leaving UTS, Richard and I had more frequent interaction in recent years. I know he was extremely pleased with his move to Revelstoke and his house project.

I am sure that his family feels a great loss. He was a kind and gentle man.

Tony FULLER

January 1, 2025

Richard was a good and noble man. He was always the very last shopper at Macondo Books in Guelph on Christmas eve. He was a good friend of Lars Neuman, Timmerle Sweden; another engineer and environmentalist.

Chris Walker

December 18, 2024

I was a classmate of Richard´s at UTS from 1961 until we graduated in 1968. He was one of the good guys - never putting people down and always remaining just a normal easy to talk to fellow in spite of his strong academic achievements and privileged background. He also never took himself too seriously. I only met him once after university when his sister Janet and I worked for the then Metro Toronto and Region Conservation Authority. I am very sorry to hear he is no longer with us. He certainly had a life well lived!

* could I pleased be informed by email as to the memorial service details. I live in Burlington and would like to attend.

Dale and Nianne Foley

December 17, 2024

We knew Richard through cross-country ski races and roller-ski events, as co-founders of Hardwood Hills and of Fit Company ski club. Although not close friends, we appreciated his contributions to the sporting world. We send condolences to his family on their loss of a very nice man.

Jeff Greuel

December 16, 2024

I know Richard and Lee from the old Guelph Food Co-op days. I skied in Eden Mills and enjoyed a winter sauna many years ago.

I tapped Richard´s air to air heat exchanger expertise in the 90s when we lived in Sudbury and his advice made our winters much more pleasant.

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