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Sandra Boutilier
October 25, 2024
Waylen and family, you have our sincere condolences. We each have such fond memories of Roy from our childhood days, and are sending our love at this difficult time.
Sandra and Patrick
Claire Fogal
October 22, 2024
Hi Waylen, I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. I remember him as a kind, scholarly presence during childhood visits to your home. All my best wishes to you and Slavia and Elisse.
- Claire Fogal
Elizabeth Hawkins
October 17, 2024
To Slav, Weylen & Ellisse, Please accept our sincerest condolences, Our thoughts & prayers are with you in your time of grief. We have known Roy for 57 years & realize we were the luckiest people to have had such a beautiful soul grace our lives. He was a consummate gentleman who embodied all the positive qualities of the best of men. He was a kind gentle soul, always humble, a 'Gentle Giant', who made a very big impact on alot of people. To know Roy was to love him. The lives he has touched are many & varied & he always left everyone feeling better for having known him. We all have such a high regard for Roy, not only as an accomplished scholar & writer, but as a wonderfully balanced person of his wisdom, kind demeanor, & so deserving of all the awards & recognition of accomplishments he received. More importantly, he was a truly exceptional human being with integrity, compassion, friendship, yet never judging. He will be missed by anyone blessed to have known him. Thank you Roy for being such a bright spot in our lives-you were one of the best & now Heaven has gained an Angel. According to: Adrienne C Moore - "The loss of your husband & father will always sting, but now everything that you do is in honor of him & celebrates his life". Liz, Shannon & Mychelle. May his memory be a blessing. He will be missed but not forgotten.
Sook
October 12, 2024
I remember Roy in all his radiance. Remembering the twinkling eyes when we talked about poems, about Roy Kiyooka and the gnarled pear tree, how the weekend at Kananaskis with the free-flowing fruit juice was such fun and quietly amazing for children with wartime memories. Of things we had to do just to live another day. Of almost being bowled over by the iron ball while restocking the pins before the next onslaught. Of bonus popsicles if the wheel that moment favoured you. Of the misplaced keys around the city. Of being simply seen and heard; and never objectified nor commodified. Of touch in the best heart sense, in the world of spirituality while moving through this mundane plane. It is Agape, and it continues. Please continue to guide me from the other side. With my always respect that also alchemised into love arising from recognising an extraordinary man, inside or outside the academy. RIP Roy.
Sook C. Kong
Vancouver, BC
erstwhile, Malaysia & Singapore
M.A. UBC English
ABD, UVic; English Department Fellowship; Theory Book Prize Nominee
Co-Author, LGBT Healthcare Access book
Jim Moore
October 12, 2024
"These poems are to be 'interleaved into the final bound copy of Martyr 7 &." --bpNichol"
I remember that Roy mentioned that bpNichol's wishes hadn't really been carried out by the pocket in the back of our complimentary copies of gIFTS: The Martyrology Book(s) 7 &. These unbound poems were written shortly before the surgery that Nichol didn't survive in 1988. An excerpt from one of those poems strikes me differently twenty-six years after I first read it:
so if the poem's line
the body (that metaphor)
it falls apart--right?
awkward bits
relationships
that don't work out
(between words &
where does fear fit in all this?
anxiety?
terror that we might not
grow older
At the end of my time as an SFU student, I realized how fortunate I was to be taking a course on bpNichol from a man who had known him well. I remember that Roy played a recording he had made of a Vancouver bpNichol reading at R2B2 Books, a store I had visited a couple of times as a teenager. Roy's teaching brought bpNichol's work to life for me. I wish I had thanked him in this way at the time. I send my condolences to his family and friends.
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