SERGIO BENETTI

1945 - 2024 He was the most charismatic man in the world, with the handsome face and those beautiful, mischievous dark brown eyes. He was larger than life, hilarious and eccentric. He also had the most completely inappropriate sense of humour. I'm not sure if it was the Italian accent or because he was so charming, but he got away with it. Sergio would have loved nothing more than to have his most racy stories printed here. I can't do that Sergio, but we did share them at the memorial service, and we know you heard us laughing. Most importantly, Sergio Benetti had the most kind and generous heart. He was a wonderful man and so accomplished. In 1983, he left a successful career at Air Canada after surviving a plane accident where he heroically saved the lives of several of the passengers on board. He would later be honoured with the title of Cavalieri from the government of Italy. A legend on Spadina Avenue for over 40 years, Sergio Benetti Inc. was the shop where you could find the most interesting Italian fashion in Toronto and the most unique owner. Known as "The Don of Spadina," he was an institution so respected for his special eye, talent and taste. His store became a gathering place where his loyal customers (and there were many) came to visit regularly, not just for his sartorial expertise, but to be regaled by his incredible and outrageous stories. He was a fabulous raconteur who would offer free counselling, cappuccinos and the loving companionship of Marcello and Roy, his beloved Golden Retrievers. Sadly, the pandemic would devastate his business. Serious health problems followed and in September of 2022, he suffered a stroke. Soon, there was a diagnosis of vascular dementia. In May of 2023, Sergio moved into Lakeside LTC where the remarkable staff took such special care of him in what would be the last year of his life. Though his illness progressed so rapidly, the light always remained in his eyes, even on the last evening. As the news of Sergio's passing spread and the tributes poured in, one of the most moving came from an old friend who phoned to express his condolences. Barely able to speak, he broke down and said, "I'm sorry. I just can't imagine the world without Sergio." Oh Sergio, there really was no one like you! What a beautiful and profound impact you made on so many lives. It's been one year and you are missed beyond words. Ken Murton was Sergio's partner for 30 years.