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SUSAN SHENSTONE Obituary

(nee Burgess) 1927-2024 Susan Shenstone died in Toronto on October 26, 2024, aged 97, of dementia. Her family cherishes the memory of a woman whose smile and sparkling intelligence would light up any room she was in. A devoted wife, mother and grandmother, she was also a caring and attentive friend to many. Some of Susan's strongest passions included lively political debate, historical research, the value of the arts, and the plight of Palestine refugees. She would have been the first to say she had a wonderful life. The only child of A.L. and Dorothy (Fairweather) Burgess, Susan was born in Toronto in 1927 and grew up largely in Ottawa. She studied English literature at Trinity College, University of Toronto. It was there that she met the love of her life, Michael Shenstone. After graduating, Susan taught in Paris and worked as a reporter for The Ottawa Citizen. Following her marriage to Michael and the start of his distinguished career with the Canadian Foreign Service, they embarked on postings in Lebanon, Egypt, the US, Britain, Switzerland, Saudi Arabia, and Austria. Susan brought to the demanding but unpaid role of diplomatic spouse a warm, generous spirit that was thoughtful, professional and engaged. While completing an MA in American literature at George Washington University in Washington, DC, Susan encountered the untold story of a New Jersey Loyalist and spy who settled in Nova Scotia after the American Revolution near the future Shenstone family cottage. Her biography of him, So Obstinately Loyal: James Moody, 1744-1809 was published by McGill-Queen's University Press. Susan was actively engaged in civic issues and social causes, such as saving public libraries and protecting the local environment. She enjoyed the outdoors (gardening, figure skating, swimming, fishing, sailing, canoeing), was a superb cook who hosted countless dinner parties, and relished her time at cottages in Quebec's Gatineau Hills and Smith's Cove, NS. Predeceased by Michael in 2019, Susan leaves her children, Thomas (Brenda Paul), Barbara (Belinda Duff) and Mary (Christopher Harris); grandchildren, Amy and Leith Shenstone (Kelsey), Sarah (Dylan) and Claire Shenstone-Harris; and two great-grandchildren. The family would like to thank the staff of Isabel and Arthur Meighen Manor for their dedication and devoted care. Donations in Susan's memory can be made to Trinity College or the Smith's Cove Historical Society (Smith's Cove, NS).

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Published by The Globe and Mail from Nov. 16 to Nov. 20, 2024.

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Nicholas Macklem

November 29, 2024

My family have been friends, classmates and comrades-in-arms of the Burgess and Shenstone families for four generations. My grandfather and Susan´s father served in the same unit in the First World War, and there´s a story that Private Hardy woke up Private Burgess when he had fallen asleep at his post one night, quite possibly enabling the later arrival of Susan. My mother Anne grew up in the nineteen-thirties hearing all the stories of "little Susan" that Archibald Burgess proudly related every time he dropped into the Parliamentary Library to visit my grandfather. Anne and Susan went on to school together at Lisgar Collegiate, where Susan routinely came top of her class. At Trinity College in Toronto they both met their husbands, both named Michael. and the four of them remained convivial friends for the rest of their lives. I grew up with Thomas and Barbara, at the same schools as our parents, and so did my children with Leith and Amy. And through all this time Susan was the rock at the centre of the circle, a lively laughing girl who was deeply serious about life. She was patiently tolerant of things like my father falling asleep on her shoulder at one of her dinner parties, or heading for the kitchen at another to wash up her dishes (he stuck his head back into the dining-room to ask, "Haven't you ever heard of SOS pads?"). Susan had a great many friends, all of them for the right reasons, and she was firmly loyal. She was a person of unshakeable principle, a gift that seems increasingly precious today.

Peggy Mason

November 19, 2024

This obituary is a wonderful tribute to a wonderful woman. I had the privilege of working with Michael Shenstone at then Foreign Affairs and subsequently came to know Susan through their mutual engagement in the Group of 78 after Michael's retirement. I fondly recall a working dinner on Canada's Middle East policy at their Ottawa residence. Susan was a gracious and capable host and a keen participant in our discussions.

My sincerest condolences to Barbara Shenstone (with whom I have also had the privilege of working) and the rest of Susan's loving family.

Gillian Humphrey Kijanka

November 18, 2024

Sending our love and condolences. I always enjoyed my lovely conversations with great aunt Susan and her warm and infectious smile. What lovely memories of a spirited and smart woman. Thank you Susan for your life´s work.

Nancy (Prescesky) Irvine

November 17, 2024

My condolences to Barb, Thomas, Mary and family. Your mom was a very special person in my life, growing up in the summers spent at Harbour View. I will always remember her smile and laughter, her positive outlook, and genuine interest in others. Our families have been connected through the generations and Susan will always be fondly in my heart.

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