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WILSON JOHN HAMILTON SOUTHAM

WILSON JOHN HAMILTON SOUTHAM obituary

WILSON SOUTHAM Obituary

1932 - 2025 It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of beloved companion, father and grandfather, Wilson John Hamilton Southam, on January 17, 2025. His daily lunches with family and friends and his love, inspiration and insight shared in the "Garage Mahal" while enjoying a Monte Cristo #2 cigar will be deeply missed by many. In his words, an "ILK" (Idealist Little Known), Wilson was born in Calgary in 1932, earned a BA in History from McGill University, an MA in Politics, Philosophy and Economics from Oxford University, and served as president of the McGill and Balliol College debating societies. From 1960 to 1963, he was a reporter for the Hamilton Spectator, where with fellow reporter, Ron Hands, he increased news coverage by installing a police scanner in a spot news car. During that time he served as president of the Hamilton Press Club. From 1963 to 1966, he was a writer-director-producer of public affairs television programs for the CBC, creating and producing "Seven and a Half Citizens," an innovation in participative community broadcasting. From 1967 to 1990, he was President of The Group at Cox, a pioneer in team-based work practices profiled by Sandy Ross in "The Risk Takers," Don Nightingale in "Workplace Democracy in Canada" and by the National Film Board of Canada in "Profit by Design." Cox designed work stations, office layouts, team workshops, consulting services and processes for working together participatively. A member of the board of directors of Southam Inc. and the Southam Newspaper Group between 1972 and 1995, Wilson was a key player in the company's Readership Task Force and Infolab, the latter a seminal initiative which predicted the disruption of media in the digital age and proposed groundbreaking alternatives to traditional newspapers. From 1996 to 2002, Wilson developed ERTHN or "Environments Responsive to Human Needs," a group devoted to modelling collaborative work and living systems and habitats. During the same period, he was a member of "Diversity of Voices Everywhere," a group of former publishers and editors dedicated to the continued independence of Canada's media. Wilson lectured at the Carleton and Western University schools of journalism and served on the Ontario Council of Health. He was founding director of a network of high school ski clubs, a university school of industrial design, a city winter sports park, a community business group, a home for women in flight from violence, and a national children's magazine. He also alluded occasionally to his days as a golf caddie, cowboy, student protestor, mountain guide, ski racer and instructor, hitchhiker, race car driver, printing estimator and dance teacher. In 1959, Wilson married the late Beverley May Neil, with whom he had two sons, Timothy (Eda Holmes) and Antony (Margo Pinault.) He is grandfather to Antony and Margo's children, Neil and Louise. Wilson is survived and deeply missed by his beloved partner and best friend of 30 years, Anika Pileski, Interior Designer. Wilson is stepfather to Mark (Hellen), Julia, Adam (Rebecca); and step-grandpapa to Kyle, Lydia, Olive and Sawyer. LOVE ENDURES ALL THINGS

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Published by The Globe and Mail from Jan. 25 to Jan. 29, 2025.

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Laurence Hewick

May 31, 2025

My condolences to the family and friends of dear Wilson. Where of where have the past 30 years gone? I remember Wilson and Anika's first visit to our farm in North Burlington, the dinners, chats in his garage, the lunches and of course the smell of his Monte Cristo cigars. All sadly missed. "Now cracks a noble heart. Good night sweet prince, and flights of angels sing thee to rest."

Bill Campbell

April 8, 2025

I am saddened to hear of the passing of Wilson. I was a clinician at the Group of Cox and was responsible for the sales and marketing of our dental equipment on the West Coast of the United States and Canada.
Wilson was a remarkable and unforgettable character. His command of the English language, this presentation style, his confidence and his desire to help and educate people were amazing. Travelling with Wilson was a total whirlwind of activity: meetings, presentations, plane rides and preparations. An awesome experience. Wilson was a complete man. I shall never forget the years I spent under his leadership. He was a wonder !

Douglas Hamilton

March 16, 2025

Wilson Southam was a very important man in Dentistry. I am a dentist, and I count him as one of my most important mentors. I was very fortunate to meet Wilson when I was in dental school and followed him as he offered his consulting services over the years. I did a comprehensive management consultation and took many workshops with the Group at Cox. He was very innovative.

He was a pioneer in our field in manufacturing of dental cabinets, yes, but most importantly in his contributions to management of dental offices.

Many dentists across Canada and the US took his courses which offered an innovate comprehensive construct in the management of dental teams and patients by dentists. His work helped many Canadians achieve much better dental health, by improving the functioning of dental teams.

His ERTHN concepts were groundbreaking in Dentistry.

He was challenging, funny, brilliant, charming and kind. He did not suffer fools.

He was a remarkable man. for whom I have immense respect. I am very glad to have known him. He made my life and the life of my dental team and patients so much richer. Thank you Wilson.

I offer my heartfelt condolences to the family. If he was able to give you a tenth of the gifts he left for us, I know he will be greatly missed.

Linda (Ritchie) Thomas

January 28, 2025

I was saddened to hear of Wilson's passing. I have so many fond memories growing up and working with Wilson at the Group at Cox. I worked in the office and factory every summer while I was in high school. He wrote me the most amazing reference letter when I was moving to Toronto. He loved his cigars and fast cars. You will truly be missed!

Ron Dennis

January 27, 2025

My late brother Steve and regularly lunched with Wilson, followed by his cigar and a glass of wine in the Garage-Mahal -- a name I suggested to Wilson's great mirth. The conversations ranged widely in subject matter -- from politics to the environment and beyond. We often laughed and sometimes expressed anguish with current events. I'm forever blessed to have known you, Wilson, and will miss you deeply. To his family and friends, may fond memories help lessen your grief. They broke the mold.

Neil Allingham

January 26, 2025

Very sorry to hear of his passing. I worked at Cox Systems 1970-1985 and Wilson was a very interesting and supportive employer have many great memories from then. I did see him last 2008 at his home. Sincere condolences to the Southam families aka Biggs

Michele Roy

January 25, 2025

I so enjoyed our conversations. I had the good fortune of walking around Coney island with him, after my father's wedding to his second wife Anne at the Waldorf in New York. Wilson took charge of me after the wedding and we decided to have some fun before flying back to Montreal together. We went on rides at Coney Island dressed in all our finery after the wedding ( I was dressed in a full length yellow dress, which I made myself). Of course on the plane home ( in those times planes had ash trays). Wilson lit his cherished cigar and the flight attendant quickly came over to let him know cigars were not allowed to be smoked on the plane. I remember him describing that it wasn't just any cigar....... He lost that argument, but tried his best to convince her. I don't believe he actually put it out, just let it smoulder in the ashtray. I was a good thing the flight from New York to Montreal was short. He got me home safely and created a great memory that I will have forever. Thanks Wilson!

Christine Sivell

January 25, 2025

Thinking of you and time on rivers fondly Ant, and with sympathy to you and Tim on the passing of you father. Alister's death notice is also published today.
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