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JOHN PRETSELL Obituary

JOHN STEWART aka "PRETS" PRETSELL Mississauga, Ontario (Hamilton born) April 23, 1956 - October 23, 2012 In his "Beddian" Birthday Year Peacefully surrounded by his family and loved ones after an incredible battle with cancer, which he accepted and handled just as he handled his whole life, "straight-up". A wonderful, loving and devoted husband to Catherine (Cathi Piva) for over 35 years. Proud and solid father to Thomas John and Tyler James (Amanda). Supportive and amazing brother to his little sister, Mary Ann (Johnston). Much loved son-in-law to Gino Piva. Terrific "brother" to Rob, Paul and Wendy, Michael and Candy, Dennis and Kim and David and Lori. Lifetime buddy and brother to David and Susan Andrews and special uncle to Godson, Michael (Lauren) and Richard. Fun-loving and proud uncle to Godson and nephew, Michael Johnston and exceptionally supportive uncle to Godson and nephew, Marcus Levy Johnston, his sister Mary Ann and Rob Johnston's amazing 14 year old son and younger brother, Michael. John has always showed such compassion and love for this special young man in his life and one of his first thoughts was that he wouldn't be here to be of help to his sister Mary Ann, for her, for Marcus, and for their whole family. Respected and level-headed uncle to Eddy and Lindsay, Godson, Christopher and Mindy, Paul Jr. aka Ace, only niece, Nickie and Shawn, Brian and Alli and Joshua, Zachary, Jarod and also Jamie and Philip. Great-uncle to Aislyn, Brayden, Nate and Kara. Proud nephew and Godson to Jack Pretsell (Carol), Mary and Bill Tisdale and Lil Pasternak and many cousins and extended family. Prets will be sadly missed by his cherished lifelong family friends, "The Hamilton Gang" and their families, his numerous golf buddies, his Thursday morning and Sunday night hockey team buddies, the LP and Braves Hockey Families, all the 20 VIC families, colleagues, peers and tenants, at both his Toronto and Mississauga offices and all our neighbours and friends. Predeceased by his parents, Jim and Alma Pretsell and Margaret Piva and many special aunts and uncles. John exemplified a life well lived, albeit shockingly shortened, cultivating his strong character values and the drive to succeed in whatever he did with integrity, as a devoted family man and well respected businessman, with his keen mind, positive attitude, competitive disposition, sharp wit and clever sense of humour. Always the gentlemen. John was a longtime member of Markland Wood Golf Club where he shared his love of golf with many of his golf buddies, family and/or business friends, taking their toonies, playing poker and stacking up his chips, dishing out one-liners, sharing his hearty laugh, huge smile and contagious personality and seemingly, constantly winning a draw or prize of some sort. Lucky at life. Loved and respected by many. John especially enjoyed the times when his sons would join him at the Club for a round of golf or poker night with the guys along with the numerous family functions enjoyed at Markland over the years. John was a loyal, dedicated and proud employee of the 20 VIC Management "Family" where he established many amazing long term mutually-respectful relationships not only with management, being in the industry for over 30 years, but with his support staff and colleagues that he loved and shared a wonderful repour with, and numerous business friends and acquaintances that he admired, respected and took many golf trips with over the years, that have become an extended part of the Pretsell Family. As expressions of sympathy, in lieu of flowers, the family is requesting that donations be made to "The Marcus Levy Johnston Trust Fund" in support of Marcus' future autism care and needs or to a charity of your choice. Visitation will be held at Turner & Porter, Peel Chapel, 2180 Hurontario St., Mississauga, ON L5B 1M8 on Sunday, October 28, 2012 2-4 and 6-9 p.m. from where Funeral Services will take place in the Chapel on Monday, October 29, 2012 at 10:30 a.m. Interment to follow at Assumption Catholic Cemetery (Tomken and Derry Rd.). Reception to follow at Markland Wood Golf Club. We will carry your hearty laugh, huge smile, positive attitude and zest for life in our hearts always and forever. God blessed us with you! Your legacy will live in each step we take. God speed. Online condolences can be made at www.turnerporter.ca

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Published by Toronto Star on Oct. 26, 2012.

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October 23, 2013
Dearest John - My Love - My Life - My Everything! There are times when I can't believe it's been a year since you went to God and so may other moments when I feel it was only yesterday. We miss you more than words can say - suppose that will be the case for a long while....but we're doing it - knowing you are only a step behind us. Thanks for giving us that. Until today, I wasn't sure of just how much I could endure - But now I've found, with thanks to you, I'm stronger than I ever knew!
You must be so content and filled with pride of what you are seeing from up above.. Thom n Steph settling into their new home n how happy our #1 son is! .... And our other #1 son Tyler n Amanda n how happy they are too! Me - I'm OK - don't worry ...Everyone of those amazing people in our lives have been there to help me get through each and every day. George and Jim have been more than patient and understanding! In fact, unbelievably so. Just like you asked of my bros n family and amazing friends n especially Dave n Sue, Jim n Robin, Mary Ann n Rob, Paul n Wendy, Mike n Candy, my Dad n other bros, n r awesome 20 Vic Family n Friends -they couldn't possibly do more to help all of us through this..for the past 30 plus years they were always in your corner hon with love, respect n gratitude ... and they r still doing everything they can to help make our grief journey lighter. So so many people miss you big time I have been feeling cut in half or half a person hon without you ... how can I not - you've been my life's inspiration...know I'm feeling your love n gaining strength each and every day from the vibes of your positive attitude and genuine love for me and our sons - I'm always delighted and comforted... thank you for that...when I see your smile, hear your contagious laugh, feel your touches and your consoling guidance and expressions of pride - they r my happiest and contented moments and I will treasure them forever and ever. Thanks for sharing your life with me Wouldn't change one single moment of our life together. Thank you for your last P.S. Have to tell you - it does take three people to change a light bulb ..seen it for myself. Guessing you saw it too and either shook your head and dropped your chin in embarrassment or laughed out load. Hoping it was the latter of the two. Thanks for listening babe. WE/SO MANY OF US miss you Big Time. We can't thank you enough for the gift of the fun laughter-filled times we have all shared with you. Night night hon - til we chat agan! xoxoxo

Coleman Swartz

November 5, 2012

My condolences to friends and family. I dealt with John in the commercial real estate world and he was an absolute pleasure and a professional to deal with each and every time. Sorry to see him go.

October 29, 2012

May your light shine bright in our hearts forever.

The Gallagher Family

October 28, 2012

Dear Pretsell family,
An Angel took John by the hand and said, "Dear it's time for us to go",
For on this earth you've suffered but there is something you should know.
Though your time on earth has ended, your painful body you must leave,
Don't worry I'll watch your people, I know it hurts to see them grieve.
They won't forget the memories, all those moments that you shared,
In their hearts you're always with them, knowing how much you cared.
So take my hand and walk with me, let me lead you through the light
Knowing one day they will join you and everything will be just right.

Dear family and friends of John,

We are at a loss for words to express our heartfelt sorrow.

John has genuinely offered everyone his unconditional love and true self.

You are his life, his love and at this time his leaders.

You will love each other for ever, it will never lessen, but remain pure and a true link between all of you.

I hope you can take at least some small solace from the knowledge that he is no longer in any pain.

He will be desperately missed.

Your neighbors,

The Gallagher Family

October 26, 2012

I was shocked and so saddened to hear of John's untimely passing. He was such a great guy and I have only good memories of him from the retail leasing business. He was always a pleasure to deal with. My sincerest condolences and prayers are with his family.

Sandi & Rick Hymans

October 26, 2012

Cathi, Tyler & Thomas and your extended family, our hearts go out to all of you all. We are so very saddened to hear of the loss of John, what a wonderful man. Cherish the wonderful and loving memories of John. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. Love Sandi, Rick, Richard & Robert Hymans

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