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MATTHEW DANIEL BRANT KIRBY

MATTHEW DANIEL BRANT KIRBY obituary

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MATTHEW KIRBY Obituary

MATTHEW DANIEL BRANT KIRBY On November 24, 2014 our sweet Mattie began his new journey. It was far too soon for us but we trust Mattie knew his path. Missing him terribly are Alexandria Lusis, best friend and partner, his mom and dad Lynda and Daniel, sisters Caitlin and her husband Bill, Quinn and his brother Timothy. He will also be missed by grandma and papa Jim and Erma Hofford, aunts and uncles Sher, David, Deb, Jamie, Mike, Libby, Sean and Greg. His cousins Heather, Emily, Will, Adam, Mac, Alex, Isabel, Maryanne, Lucy, Katie, Melissa, Ben, his large extended family, and his many friends, will miss his unique sense of humor and clever antics. Mattie is also being missed by his new Australian family, who he welcomed so dearly at Caitie's wedding. Matthew will be joining his family in heaven: Uncle Chris, Grandma Mary, Auntie Cath, Uncle Ian, Kip, Sara, Nanny, Daddyhony and Alex's mom. Hockey player extraordinaire! Pet rescuer, sports memorabilia collector, thrift shop aficionado and champion of the underdog. Visitation will be held on Thursday, November 27th from 3-8 p.m. at the Morley Bedford Funeral Home, 159 Eglinton Ave. West (2 lights west of Yonge St.). Funeral service will be private. Mattie and his family also wish to extend an invitation to all those he touched and loved to celebrate his life on Sunday, November 30th from 2-5 p.m. at the Capitol Event Theatre, 2492 Yonge St., where Matt's extensive collection of hockey memorabilia will be auctioned with the proceeds going to a charity that is dear to his heart. In lieu of flowers, take a rescue dog for a walk or pray for the Leafs in Matthew's memory, as he shares just one beer with Pat Quinn. We wish to thank all of our friends and neighbours, the first responders, Sunnybrook Hospital ER and CIRU. Until you are calm enough to look directly at your anger, just enjoy your breathing, your walking, and the beauty of the outdoors. After a while, the anger will subside and you will feel strong enough to look directly at it, to try to understand its causes, and to begin the work of transforming it.

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Published by Toronto Star on Nov. 26, 2014.

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for MATTHEW KIRBY

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B K

August 3, 2017

Miss you Matty...think of you often brother.

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H Rose

March 8, 2016

I knew Matt because he was the boyfriend of my dear friend Alex. I clearly remember the time she took me to a party at Laurier a few years ago for St. Patrick's day.I barely knew anyone there and was feeling that hit of social anxiety when you first walk into a new situation. Matt came up to me, seeing that I was alone and standing awkwardly by myself,and struck up a conversation. Not only did he seem to actually know a lot about me from Alex (great listener) he actually took the time to get to know me further by asking me genuine specefic questions about my life rather than filling the space between us with fictious small talk (which seems to be the case a lot these days) He was so genuine. A few months later when I first moved downtown from my parents house when I started going to school at Ryerson, Matt sent me a really sweet message wishing me luck and suggesting places in my new neighborhood. He had remembered our conversation from that party. Absolutely he sent the message because he cares about Alex and her friends but I really feel he also did it because he is a person who isn't afraid to reach out and be personal which is something a lot of young people have a hard time doing or find weird when someone reaches out to them. I cannot claim to know Matt on a deep or intimate level because that would be false. But I do know one thing that is absolutely true -

Matthew Kirby took the time to reach out to other people.

And that is something that we do not do enough to each other. I have grown into myself a lot in the past few years and I have realized that people take each other for granted and we are too quick to let people go from our lives. It's the littlest things in life that can make your day or shed some light on the darkness we all feel. To me, Matt is a shining example of someone who never failed to care just like Alex Lusis. I am so beyond happy that two people with such big hearts were able to find each other. It makes my heart bigger just thinking about the two of them.

Jackson McCabe Gray

May 1, 2015

I may not have known Matt as well as I would have liked, but it was obliviously apprant that Matt had a kind, giving heart. Whether it was as simple as driving someone home from work far out of his way, it was done without question, and always accompanied with a smile. Small acts of kindness truly dipict who we are. Keep shining, Matt.

Frank Family

December 30, 2014

Our sincere condolences to you and your family. There are no words that can make up for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very sad and difficult time.

December 15, 2014

Our very sincere condolences to the Kirby family. Our thoughts are with you at such a difficult time..much love to your family..xo The Orr Family

Nan Okun

December 15, 2014

Lynda and family,
My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for such a devastating loss.

December 11, 2014

To the Kirby family,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful son Matt, he was part of my life through my son Alex and the boys from Northern and Waterloo. So glad to have known Matt, we miss him dearly and hope and pray God embraces you all in his love, and that he carries you through this dark period.
With love,
Sophie Giamos

Lynne Bridger

December 9, 2014

Dan and family: I am so saddened by your heartbreaking news. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Michael Barsky

December 8, 2014

Dear Lynda, Dan and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your sudden loss. We are thinking of you and wish you strength and fond memories,
Michael and Paula Barsky and family

December 4, 2014

My condolences. This is an unbearable, saddening loss.

December 3, 2014

Lynda, Dan and family
Our heart breaks for all of you at this very difficult time. All of the Loberto family extend their sincere condolences to your family.
Tom, Caroline, Daniel and Adam Loberto

Cori Jackson

December 2, 2014

so extremely saddened by this news. My heart and prayers go out to the Kirby family during this tough time!

Jess Skaftouros

December 1, 2014

Dear Cait, Bill and Family,

Thinking of you and sending all my love across the sea. So very sorry for your loss xxxxx

Ed, Lori & Eddie Dzingala

December 1, 2014

Just heard, our condolences Dan to you and your family. God bless Matt and your family.

December 1, 2014

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our condolences go out to all the family and especially to Jim and Erma.
Love, Anne and Ed Schut.

Adrian Girgis

December 1, 2014

Going to school with Tim, and Matt he was always uppbeat and just a great nice guy, always cracking jokes. When I left home for a brief period of time he talked some sense into me and helped me make some difficult decisions, always gonna remember that, I was very saddened to find out about the news. My condolensces to Tim and the rest of the Family, Matt will always be remembered.

Suzanne Kopyto

November 30, 2014

Lynda, Dan, Quinn, Tim, and Caitlin,
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain you must all be going through. Matt was such a wonderful person, always with a smile, and ready to help out anyone in need. He was a kind soul and he will truly be missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him.

With much love, Suzanne, Marc, Ella, Charlotte, and Felix Kopyto

Jean and Jim Atkinson

November 30, 2014

We are so sad for your loss. Please accept our sincere condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

November 30, 2014

My heart Aches, there are now words, May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. I like to think that Mathew was needed somewhere else....so very sorry for your loss

Bilal Khan

November 29, 2014

Matt, I could not be more hurt today that you are not with us. You were so different to anyone I knew, you were a brother to me, a heart so big you would give the world for anyone.

I don't know where I missed out, I wish i had stayed in touch with you more brother, this world has lost something very special, and we will forever remember that.

I wish things were different, I wish we could go back to the way things were, kill time and do what we did best. Matty, i will miss you dearly my brother. I cannot believe I am writing this right now.

My heart goes out to the Kirby family. Be strong Tim, I cannot imagine your loss, but I can tell you, he would want you to keep strong, he always admired you and was proud of what you were becoming.

We will all miss you Matt, Luna & Sosa too :)

Mark Denton

November 29, 2014

Dan and family,

Very sorry to hear the sad news. I hope you and your family are coping as best as possible at this difficult time.

November 29, 2014

Dear Lynda, Dan and family,
My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Mary Rykov

November 28, 2014

The Kirby family,
Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
With deep sympathy,
Greg & Pina Getty and family

Ian Flemming

November 28, 2014

I played hockey with Matt when we were kids and he was always an energetic, fun loving and kind person. My condolences go out to the family

November 28, 2014

Dear Dan,

Please accept our sincere condolences for your devastating loss.

Krystine & Graham Linttell

Mary Anne Shaw

November 28, 2014

Barry and I send to all of you our sincere condolences during this very dark time. Our thoughts are extended to the family. Our hearts are with you.

Mary Lynne Biener

November 28, 2014

Dear Lynda, Daniel, Alexandria, Caitlin, Bill, Quinn, and Timothy,
I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your beloved Matthew. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

November 28, 2014

Lynda and family,
So deeply sorry to hear of the passing of your son.
With deep sympathy,
Jennifer Elliott

Tamara and Grant McArthur

November 28, 2014

We are very sorry for your loss.

November 28, 2014

We remember Matthew fondly. Our hearts are with all of you. Much love, Nancy and David Fletcher

Katrina Mac

November 28, 2014

Matty's spirit always brightened everyone's day. The world is a little less without him with us. The AmsterFam misses you Matty! Thoughts are with the family at this difficult time. I'll always be grateful for the time we shared together.

November 27, 2014

I went to high school with Matt and have wonderful memories of him. Although we weren't close, he was one of the popular kids; well liked and had tons of friends. I am so saddened to hear of Matt's passing and hope that your entire family finds peace during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Danica Pinto

November 27, 2014

Dear Cait, Bill and the Kirby family,

Thinking of you all and keeping you in my prayers for strength through this difficult time.

Lots of love

Nathan Hewitt

November 27, 2014

Was a pleasure to meet this man, and his passion. My thoughts to his family and prayers to them. Was an honour to work beside him and share life.

Denise Stremler

November 27, 2014

Dear Lynda, I was so sad to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

November 27, 2014

Thinking of you in this difficult time. We loved his smile and his joy when he was on the ice.
The Hamiltons

Coralie Anderson

November 27, 2014

Dear Cait, Bill and the Kirby family - Sending you all my love, light and strength during this time. Thinking of you all xoxx

Hannah Drover

November 27, 2014

Sending all our love and best wishes from Down Under.. take care of one another during this difficult time, you're in our thoughts and prayers xx

November 27, 2014

Condolences to the Kirby family. Very sorry for the loss. My heart and prayers are with you. Sarah Stark xoxo

Darshana Patel

November 27, 2014

Dearest Cait, Bill & the Kirby family. Sending you so much love, light & strength. Om shanti, shanti, shanti xo

Tanya Perera

November 27, 2014

To Cait, Bill and the Kirby family - sending all our love, strength, and peace - Tans xx

Sheila Morrison

November 27, 2014

Dan, Lynda and family,

My sincere condolences to all of you. Such a beautiful obituary and tribute to your remarkable Matt.
I wish you much strength and even more love to carry you through and keep you all well. I wish you peace.

Matt will always be with us.

Sincerely,
Sheila.

Cathy and Stephen Stoney

November 27, 2014

Our sincere condolences, on the leaving of your son. Our prayers are with the family, may God be your comfort and strength during this most difficult of times.

Rachel and John Foss

November 27, 2014

May these few words express sincere sympathy to you, the Kirby Family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.

With all our love and support,
Rachel and John Foss

Daphne, Paul and Justin

November 27, 2014

Daniel and Lynda , so very sorry for your loss. Our hearts ache for you. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

Rick Schubert

November 27, 2014

i am so very, very sorry to hear of this....words cannot express the comfort i wish I could give to all of you.

November 27, 2014

Our hearts go out to you during this difficult time. Caitlin, you and your family are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Maggie and Stewart Somers

Simon Storey

November 26, 2014

Matt, because of you, Tango, our beloved Golden Retriever, became part of our family. If you wouldn't mind, please give him a hug for us. We miss him.

We're missing you too. You and Tom spent a lot of time together when you played at NT. You and your parents treated Tom like he was a Kirby; as I'm sure they did with any friend who entered your home. We're so grateful for that.

You know, there are so many great memories of you Matt. Yet the ones that stand out for me are when you and Tom were together on the ice. There was no other teammate who protected Tom like you did. If an opposing player skated anywhere near the blue ice, he paid the price. Ultimately, you paid the price too and you spent a bit more time in the box than most! But there was no doubt that you made sure that everyone knew you were there for your teammates, and your teammates, especially your goalies, knew that. They appreciated you.

Matt, the Storeys will never forget your sheepish smile and loving heart.

Rest peacefully,

Simon on behalf of Heather, Tom and Megan (and Tango) Storey

Ryan Dorge

November 26, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Kirby family.
For Matthew, an Irish Blessing:
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
Love you guys xo

November 26, 2014

Kirby Family,
Although I never knew Matt, I know a couple of his friends. I know that he will be missed terribly and I wish you my most sincere condolences.

November 26, 2014

Dan and family I am deeply saddened by the news of Matthew's passing. My thoughts and prayer's are with you and your family. Stan Butler

Getty Family

November 26, 2014

Dan,Lynda and Family:
Our sincere condolences. Our thoughts, love and prayers are with you all.

November 26, 2014

With heavy hearts, we send our love and most sincere condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God guide us all through this difficult time.

Denise & Chris

David Mumby

November 26, 2014

My deepest sympathies. Matt was a good soul and wherever a good soul has been there is a trail of good memories.

Anne-Marie Desjardins Jim Marko

November 26, 2014

We are deeply saddened by your loss. Please accept our sincere condolences.

Kit Lyon Still

November 26, 2014

Dear Lynda, Dan and Family,
Please accept our sincerest and heartfelt condolences for your loss. There are no words that can make up for your loss of Matt. Our thoughts and prayers are with you today and always. Kit, Charlie and Emily Lyon Still

Jim Black

November 26, 2014

I am certainly at a lack for words but can't imagine anybody expressing things any better then you guys have. My thoughts are with you all.

Nadia Osman

November 26, 2014

Dear Quinn and family,
May your confidence stand in the face of loss and give you the strength to rebuild.
May peace of heart fill all your days, may serenity grace your soul.
May tranquil moments bless your life and keep your spirit whole.
With much heartfelt love, Nadia and Danielle Osman

Dionne Hoo Anckle

November 26, 2014

Sending out lots of love and prayers Kirby Family. May the memories you shared be a source of comfort during this sad time

Barry,Sonia,Kyle and Alysha Lockyer

November 26, 2014

We are deeply saddened by the news of Mathew's passing. Please accept our sincere condolences.

Dane Thibodeau

November 26, 2014

I'll never forget playing puck with Mattie and watching him line up some of the most beautiful hits and tape-tape passes. Skilled player and a great human being with lots of friends and a good family. See you again for sure one day Mattie !

John Lyon

November 26, 2014

Please accept our most sincere condolences at this most difficult time.

John, Laura, Sarah and Rachel Lyon

John Lyon

November 26, 2014

Please accept our most heartfelt condolences at this difficult time.

John, Laura, Sarah and Rachel Lyon

Javad Khosravi

November 26, 2014

Matthew, I remember you as it was yesterday, playing hockey at North Toronto with my son Armon and more recently when helping to fix the front steps to our house. Your warm, caring, and respectful personalities touched my heart, and hope to have the pleasure of seeing you again, when I am on the other side. Love, Javad khosravi

November 26, 2014

We are so sorry for your loss, and extend our condolences to the large extended Kirby family - including cousins, aunts, uncles and friends.
With love,
Dorie (Lennie) and Lorne Preston and family

Gayle Wilmot

November 26, 2014

Lynda, Dan, Tim, Quinn, Caitlin, Bill, Alexandria:
As Matt begins his new journey, you can be sure that he knows that he has been, and will always be, very very very loved. Gayle and Kim Davidson

Gayle Wilmot

November 26, 2014

Lynda, Dan, Tim, Quinn, Caitlin, Bill, and Alexandria: As Matt begins his new journey, you can be sure that he knows he has been, and always will be, very very very loved. Gayle and Kim Davidson

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