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Patricia O'BRIEN Obituary

O'BRIEN, Patricia Diane It is with unimaginable heartbreak that we announce the passing of our Patty, who died suddenly on November 15, 2020 at 45 years of age. Patty was a true life force, a light and joy to the many people she held close. She had such a big heart and so much love to give, which she did so freely and fully. Her bright smile, great sense of humour and enthusiasm for life will leave a hole in our lives that cannot be filled. Most especially for her husband and business-partner, Derick McChesney, with whom she just celebrated her 10th wedding anniversary and to her very young sons, 2-year old William and 4 month old Bennett. Joyful daughter and friend to Bill and Jane O'Brien, Patty was the true middle child of five and leaves behind her sisters and brothers, Erin (Dave), Shannon (Dan), Conor (Michelle) and Casey (Sonia). Patty was the heart of our family, keeping all of us together in every way. A warm daughter-in-law to Arlis MacCallum (Brant) and Laurence McChesney (predeceased) and sister-in-law to Karla Clarke (Doug) with whom she was very close. Before Patty was a mother, she was the best aunt and will be missed by her nieces and nephews, Annie, Rachel, Eileen, Dylan, Aidan, Nathan, Liam, Kerry, Taylor, Kalan, Elyssa, Tommy, Maddy, Harper (predeceased), Isabel, Grace and Ruby. In our close extended families, Patty will be forever missed by her aunts, uncles and many cousins. Patty had so many friends and she deeply treasured and nurtured these friendships throughout her life, especially Sarah Cuff who she was best friends with since Grade 3 at St. Gregory's. Patty was a wonderful mom having tried for 6 years to have children. It is with Patty's immeasurable love for her sons that her family will carry her spirit and show William and Bennett how much their mom wanted them and adored them. Our dear Patty left us on November 15th which is World Day of the Poor and so in memory of her generosity and giving nature, we ask that you donate to the Society of Saint Vincent de Paul Toronto by visiting her memorial tribute page: www.canadahelps.org/en/pages/patty-obrien-memorial-tribute Due to COVID restrictions, there will be a small family funeral but in the coming months, in brighter days, we will prepare for a fitting celebration of Patty in the way that she would want and appreciate her zest for life and love for a good party in her honour.

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Published by Toronto Star on Nov. 20, 2020.

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Thelma

January 10, 2025

Dear O'Brien family,
Our prayers and thoughts go out to you. Be strong as you are assured Pat is watching over you all and the little angels.
With love and God's blessings
Thelma, Michelle, George

Marlene (Sigel) Reeve-Newson

January 8, 2025

Dear Bill, Jane and Family,

Through Niel McQuaid, Tom Sagar and the obit, I just learned (Jan. 2025) of your daughter's death. May she Rest in Peace. Amen.
My prayers are with you & your family.
A grade school classmate, Marlene & family

Kerry Russell

November 14, 2024

Hi Patty, it is almost hitting 4 years without you. Tomorrow is the four year mark and there isn't a day going by where I am not sharing stories of you to my boyfriend which you would've absolutely loved him. I am still honouring your legacy every single day and singing any chance I get like you did. I miss you so so so much and I love you so so so much. I know you are here by my side. I just wanted to talk to you and tell you that I miss you and I hope you are proud of me. I just wish I could hear your voice just one more time.
Love your Goddaughter Kerry.

Vince Deleo

December 10, 2020

I haven't seen Patty since 1994, our final year at MPSJ, but I remember her as a sweet and charming person who would engage with everyone around her. She will be missed by many. May the family hold strong during this sad time.

Virginia & Ferit Tecimer

November 30, 2020

We were deeply saddened when we discovered of Patricia's passing...Our deepest sympathy to the family, friends, and loved ones. She was taken from you too soon.

Virginia & Ferit Tecimer

November 30, 2020

Our deepest sympathy to the family, friends, and loved ones of Patricia... We are saddened to discover her passing. She was taken too soon.

Kim

November 28, 2020

Patty was such a positive beautiful and beautiful person . I worked with her many years ago and have such great memories of her . I am so sad to hear of her passing. My condolences to the whole family !

Radi Jelenic

November 28, 2020

We are all so devastated and sorry for your loss. Thinking of all of you during this tough time and sending our deepest condolences. From the entire Jelenic Family and the staff at Sweet Gallery we are sending strength and love xo

Thelma D'Cunha

November 26, 2020

To dear Jane and the extended family.
Our heartfelt condolences to each one of you. You are blessed with the boys left by Patty to love and cherish in her memory. Special hugs to them. May the good Lord give all of you the strength and courage to bear this loss. Our prayers are with you. God bless. Thelma D'Cunha

Patricia M. Williams

November 25, 2020

Sending my condolences to the O'Brien family at this difficult time. I will keep you in my prayers, especially when praying the Rosary which I know brings you peace. I hope the memories of your precious daughter will give you some comfort.

Patricia Williams

Melissa Abate

November 25, 2020

My deepest condolences to the O’Brien family. I grew up in the area, went to St Gregory’s (I was in Conor’s grade), and then MPSJ. Throughout the years in our post-school days, I would see Patty occasionally in social settings. While it’s been an incredibly long time, I only remember Patty as a kind, magnetic, fun-loving, strong woman —- and see that she continued to live as such through her life. May these attributes of her carry on in the memories of her friends and family. Rest In Peace.

Cathie Shaughnessy Fedak

November 25, 2020

Sincere sympathy.

November 25, 2020

A bright light gone way too soon. Your light will continue to shine through your boys and all those you touched along the way. You were always so kind and warm hearted. Your smile says it all. You will be missed but always cherished in loving memory. Praying that God’s eternal love and grace be with you and all family and friends who are grieving during this difficult time.
LZ

Janine

November 24, 2020

I worked with Patty very briefly many many years ago and I will always remember her warm smile and demeanor. My deepest condolences to her family and friends.

Jensena Parish

November 24, 2020

I just cannot believe the world has lost you. You were a lovely soul who had such an an incredible impact on so many. To Patty’s family and friends, my deepest condolences, my heart breaks for you all at this incredible loss.

John and Joanne Madden

November 23, 2020

Our sincere condolences to fellow St. Gregory's parishioners Bill and Jane O'Brien on the loss of their daughter Patty.

Jill Huhta

November 23, 2020

Derick, what absolutely heartbreaking news. I have such warm memories of you kids as neighbours, felt like my daughter Matti and Patty went through so much together trying to have their babies. I'm sorry, words seem inadequate.

Theresa de Souza

November 22, 2020

Dear Jane and Bill,
Sincere sympathy on the sudden loss of your beloved daughter, Patty.
My thoughts and prayers are with you both, your entire family, her husband and their precious young family.
Love and prayers,
Theresa de Souza

Julia Waller

November 22, 2020

I'm so sorry for your shocking loss. I worked with Patty years ago and remember her vibrant energy and incredible determination. I followed her journey to have her family and was so thrilled for her to finally have her boys. My heartfelt condolences to her family and friends. I'm so very sorry. May she rest in peace.

Marie Pace-Asciak

November 22, 2020

So sad and sorry for your loss of your daughter, my condolences to you and all family we will pray for her may she Rest In Peace

Teddyanne Hunt

November 22, 2020

Dear Janie and Bill
We were so sorry to learn of the loss of your beloved daughter, Patty.
Our condolences to her husband and babies, and to all your family. Can’t imagine the grief you must be feeling at this very difficult time. Although we don’t live close or see each other often, we do think of your family often and we’re so saddened to hear this news. Remembering all of you in our prayers.
Love, Teddyanne Hunt (cousin)
& Joe Nolan

Matteo Del Sorbo and Family

November 22, 2020

Many many years had gone by when I saw you last at Matthew and Elizabeth’s annual Christmas party, yet nothing seemed to have changed since our days at St Greg’s. A big smile, happy soul and a positive approach. We sat outside and smoked a cigar and caught up on decades gone by as if time was on our side. Deepest condolences.
Rest In Peace.

Janice Gritti

November 21, 2020

Jane and Bill I’m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. Your family is in my prayers

Keith Farrugia

November 21, 2020

May Patty Rest In Peace

Julie Hall

November 21, 2020

I was so saddened & of course shocked to hear of Patty's passing. My deepest sympathies to the entire O'brien family and to her husband and baby boys. I haven't seen Patty for years but felt like I got to know her again through her wonderful Facebook posts, sharing her life's journey. She was obviously loved by many and will be missed. Rest in Peace Patty.

Sandy Tecimer

November 21, 2020

I’m so sorry to hear about Patty. She was always a fun person to see and such a loving mom. I know we will all make sure her boys know how much she loved them.

Amy & Chris Szwez

November 21, 2020

Our most sincere condolences on this unimaginable loss. Our hearts ache for all of you.

Dianne Acri-Clinton

November 21, 2020

I am sending my deepest sympathies to the entire O'Brien family, her husband Derick, her two beautiful boys William and Bennet, and all of her dearest friends. Words cannot truly express how sorry I am for your sudden loss.

I knew Patty from MPSJ, as she was a grade above me. Her close friend group and mine would cross paths plenty over the years, having many, many, laughs and good times. We would look up to them as they paved their way through high school, university, and life beyond. What a life lived!

Patty was such a good listener - and had a gift for communicating with people on all levels. We connected in recent years as we were on similar journeys to motherhood. She was a huge inspiration and confidant which helped so much in tough times. I will never forget her honesty and support for me even if we did not speak often. I am forever grateful for that!

Cheers to you, Patty, for living your life honestly, happily, and to never giving up on your motherhood journey. So many hearts are broken, but I believe that you were the happiest you could have ever been. May this belief bring a ray of light to the darkness that has been left behind.

Rest In Peace.

Frankie Attard

November 21, 2020

Patty was such a wonderful human being. My heart goes out to her Family and all those who were graced by her presence. May you Rest In Peace Patty❤

November 21, 2020

Dear O’Brien Family,

Heartfelt condolences to the family during what’s seemingly an impossible time. As long as it’s been since we last spent time, her cherished smile and energy echo strongly. It will live on through you.

The Gallardo Family

Suzy Porter

November 21, 2020

Words cannot express the deep sadness I feel for your tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Louka

November 21, 2020

Dear Patty.
Words can’t begin to express the sadness and shock of your passing. You were such a vivacious and beautiful spirited soul inside and out.... the fun and laughter we had shared will live on in my memory of you.
Your song was always one of my favorites and even more special to me now. It was an honor to have had you in my life. Hearts are breaking and your loss will leave a big void in our lives...
Till we meet again on the flip side babes...
Love you always ❤

Heather Back

November 20, 2020

All my love light and hope to Patty and Dericks Family and her two little babes.
My heart breaks for you all
Sending all my love

Kucher, Michael, Elsa, Christiaan and Steven

November 20, 2020

Condolences to the entire O Brien family. We send you strength and love always. Patty’s memory will be everlasting.

Patrizia and Robert Piccolo

November 20, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Corine Johnson

November 20, 2020

My heart is broken for you all. I wish there was something I could do or say that would help with the pain that you are feeling. My condolences go out Patty’s family, friends, and all those that loved her. We will pray for you today and the difficult days to come.
Lots of love Corine and the staff of Wisdom of Nature!

Matthew Simone (& Daniela)

November 20, 2020

I remember the first time we met in the school yard of St Gregory. My visiting class had “home education”. You were so out going and confident. Sarah was with you. You were cracking jokes and laughing. Then we had grade 9 music together, first period, Power, south portable. You were always the same cracking jokes and laughing. You have one of the best personalities I have ever known. Although we lost touch after around 25 years of age, I can tell from the social media response and comments, clearly you had not changed. You will be missed by all. Your family is in our prayers. Tons of Love from the Simone’s

Les Petriw

November 20, 2020

Our deepest condolences to you Derick, your two wonderful sons, William and Bennett and to your whole family. Patty helped us in our time of need without hesitation and you were a rock of support as well at that time.

Her kindness and generous spirit will be truly missed. She will always be in our and everyone's hearts.

Sending you all our love.

Kate, Cam and Les Petriw

Nicole (Honour) Marshall

November 20, 2020

Our family lived in the house across the street from the O’Briens and I had the privilege of babysitting Patty and her siblings. She often played with my sister and I remember her as an extremely cute, energetic, and friendly little girl. I’m so very sad to hear of her passing. My deepest condolences to the whole family. I have you all in my prayers.

Marcella Honour

November 20, 2020

I am heartbroken to hear this sad news! The Honour family sends condolences, love and strength to the O'Briens who we all grew up with. Patty and I were childhood friends (Marcella Honour). So very sorry for your loss

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Lisa Luca

November 20, 2020

Dear Jane and Bill,
words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. Patty was such a joy. Her laughter, her smile her warmth are things that I can never forget. May God give you strength to get through this tragic and heartbreaking time.

David and Elaine Speyer

November 20, 2020

We were so sorry to here this heartbreaking news. GOD BLESS the family. Sincerely, David and Elaine Speyer and June Cappallani from St. Gregory's.

Tony Steadman

November 20, 2020

My deepest condolences to all the family and friends, a true devastating loss to all.

Tony Steadman

November 20, 2020

My deepest condolences to all the family and friends of patty. A truly devastating blow and loss to all.

Ari Safos

November 20, 2020

A wonderful soul has left us. My deepest condolences to your family, husband and children. You will be missed and celebrated for the happiness you spread.

Helen vastis

November 20, 2020

We are sending our most heart felt condolences for your loss. Patti was an amazing person who will truly be missed but never forgotten May her beautiful soul Rest In Peace and her memory eternal.
Love Helen Manny and the family

November 20, 2020

A heart with love left to give
A soul with life left to live

Gone too soon my friend

John Partchenko

November 20, 2020

So sad. Such a beautiful person. Rest In Peace Patty...

Steve C

November 20, 2020

My heart felt condolences going to her entire family ,her many friends ,her Husband and her to beautiful boys.

Virginia Marini

November 20, 2020

The Marini family sends our deepest sympathy at this difficult time.
Guido Marini

Virginia Marini

November 20, 2020

The Marini family sends our deepest sympathy at this difficult time.
Guido Marini

Cindy Kitcher

November 20, 2020

To the O'Brien Family,
Words cannot say how much Patty will be missed. Patty always had a huge smile on her face anytime I saw her and that is the way I will always remember her. Our thoughts are with the entire family. Sending hugs to all Cindy & Mark Kitcher

Jamie

November 20, 2020

Rest In Peace to my dear friend, Patricia. Patty. Patts. P.O.B.
Such an amazing human being.
I can’t even begin to describe how devastating this is for everyone you have ever met... because your endless love and overwhelming joy made everyone you met better.
My most sincere condolences to all of the O’Briens and McChesneys.

Doreen Sazunic

November 20, 2020

Dear Jane, Bill and family
There are no words to express the unimaginable grief that you must be feeling at the sudden loss of your beloved daughter Patty. My thoughts and prayers are with you. “Eternal rest grant unto Patty Lord and let the Perpetual light shining from the merciful and loving face of Christ shine upon her and may she Rest In Peace” amen

Doreen Sazunic

November 20, 2020

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Dear Jane, Bill and family
There are no words to express the sorrow that you must be feeling at this time at the sudden loss of Patty your beloved daughter.
My heart is broken just thinking about it.
+ “Eternal rest grant unto Patty Lord may the perpetual light shining from the loving and merciful face of Christ shine upon her and may she rest in peace amen”

Nathan Hutchinson

November 20, 2020

What a Beautiful human being inside and out. My condolences to all of her Family and Friends. Derick, you and your boys are in our thoughts and prayers. Sending much love,
Nathan & Jen Hutchinson.

Lynda Melady Campbell

November 20, 2020

Patty was a grade younger than I when we attended MPSJ. I remember her smiling, lovely Irish face and that pleasant, fun personality. What beautiful words written that encompasses her love of life, family and friends. How fitting that her giving spirit lives on helping the less fortunate, where the need has increased so much during these times. To her family - please accept my heartfelt condolences and sympathy for your loss. Patty will live on in everyone's hearts always.

Vita

November 20, 2020

My deepest condolences to Derick and the boys, the entire O’Brien Family and all her very dear and closes friends she had.

Patty was a force to reckon with. She was a light and joy to be around. We have many wonderful memories together... and although I didn’t see her as often as I would have liked...since moving out of the city, we were still there for each other’s biggest moments... wedding showers, baby showers, weddings etc.

I loved Patty with all my heart and appreciated the beautiful soul and fire she was. She will be deeply missed... and our fun and crazy times together will never be forgotten. One that will stick out in my mind forever - our Miami Trip 2002 when Brazil won the World Cup.

Pats I love you and will miss you.

I pray for peace and healing for all those you’ve left behind

Until we meet again, may you rest in the arms of God.

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