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SIMONE MILLER Obituary

MILLER, SIMONE EMILY (nee VERHELLE) June 7, 1925 to May 24, 2019 It was near the end of the war when three medics from the Canadian Army stepped off a trolley in the village of Mouscron in Belgium. They spied some young local girls and Bill, always the smooth one, greeted them with an anglicized "Bonsoir, Mademoiselles". Fearing even worse ruination of the French language, one of the girls announced that "I speak English". The group chatted further and that night the medic known as John told Bill that he intended to marry the girl called Simone. The Canadians were billeted in Mouscron for 6 weeks and then they moved on into Holland. The war was ending and they were demobilized and shipped back to Canada. John and Simone wrote each other for two years and when he had saved enough, John left Canada for Belgium and he and Simone were wed. It was June 2 of 1947. They honeymooned in the Ardennes and then returned to Toronto to take up married life. Dad was apprenticing as a plumber and Mom quickly found work as a buyer in the Simpsons Department Store downtown. In the post-war years, people from around the globe were immigrating to Canada, and Mom's linguistic skills were put to good use helping the newcomers acquire all the necessities of a fresh start. In 1948, Mom joined with other Belgian expats to form The Belgo-Canadian Association. She was it's first Secretary. Some four decades later, she was again the secretary when the Association was dissolved. The children started appearing in 1950 with Rogette. Paul, Christine and Peter followed. Shortly after Rogette was born, Mom's parents, Alfred and Yvonne (our Mémé and Pépé) sold everything in Belgium and set sail to Canada to be with their only child. Our grandparents ventured into the restaurant business and Mom would often spend Fridays helping out at Freddies Fish & Chips on Gerrard Street in Cabbagetown and Pépé splurged on buying mom a used upright grand piano. We remember her filling the house with the wonderful music of Bizet, Liszt and Chopin. As kids growing up, we recall the elaborate (and noisy!) dinners Mom prepared on birthdays and holidays and the bags of gifts that Mémé and Pépé would spoil their grandkids with! Mom was always encouraging upon us the importance of education, something we owe her a great gratitude for. She herself was a strong academic. Although the War interrupted her post-secondary opportunities, she later attended University of Toronto at the same time Peter was there. The tragic loss of Christine at the age of 20 was something Mom never got over. A little of her spark went out. Then Dad succumbed to cancer in 1987, just three years after retiring. Fortunately, the two of them had returned to the old country, where the locals feted the returning Canadian soldier. Dad loved the attention! Mom continued travelling, on large trips throughout Europe and short trips across North America. She never met a bus she didn't like and she delved deeper into her art, creating wonders in both oils and watercolours. Finally, after 55 years in the house on Tower Drive, it was time for her next adventure. She sold the house and moved into Place St. Laurent in downtown Toronto. She could walk to the St. Lawrence Market, visit art galleries and restaurants and the Canadian Opera Company was just around the corner and as her abilities aged, there was wonderful care by the Centres D'Accueil Heritage (CAH) staff. Shortly before her 91st birthday, she moved into Trent Valley Lodge, to be closer to Rogette in Cobourg and Paul in Belleville. It was there that she passed away on Friday, May 24, 2019, just two weeks shy of her 94th birthday. Kudos to the TVL staff for their care of an old, occasionally crusty, Belgian lady. Simone leaves her three children, six grandkids and five great-grandchildren. All those, she would oft remark in wonder, from an only child. She also leaves many fond relatives in the Moreels and Verhelle families in Belgium. Cremation has taken place. Memorial visitation at PAUL O'CONNOR FUNERAL HOME, 1939 Lawrence Ave. E. (between Warden and Pharmacy), on Thursday, June 6, 2019 from 2-4 and 6-8 p.m. Memorial Mass at Precious Blood Catholic Church on Friday, June 7, 2019 at 9:30 a.m. in Precious Blood Church (1737 Lawrence Ave. E.). Reception afterwards at Paul O'Connor Funeral Home. Interment at Pine Hills Cemetery on June 7th. In lieu of flowers, please welcome an immigrant. That's what makes Canada what we are.

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Published by Toronto Star on Jun. 1, 2019.

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Glenn

June 24, 2023

Wish i could have met her once more :( , only met her when i was to young to remember. But heard many story about the brave aunt that left during the war to canada.

Led Andries

June 6, 2019

Will be missed by many but welcomed by many more in Heaven.A sincerely beautiful tribute that you wrote about this lovely lady, your Mother. Sincere condolences to the entire family. From the family Andries

Led Andries

June 6, 2019

Will be missed by many but welcomed by many more in Heaven.A sincerely beautiful tribute that you wrote about this lovely lady, your Mother. Sincere condolences to the entire family. From the family Andries

John and Shelley McCosham

June 5, 2019

What a beautiful tribute to your mother Paul. As you know, we only got to meet her in her later years but her intelligence, strength and independence were apparent even at the age of ninety. Although she was proud to share the story of how she made it to Canada, we were never made aware of the details of her life (and of your early family life) so we appreciate you doing so - so interesting! Our sympathy for your loss - we wanted to send flowers but will respect your wishes in that regard. Please know that you and your family will be in our thoughts on Friday.

david & linda cherry

June 2, 2019

A great tribute to a great lady. Your mother, my Aunt Simone, along with my mother Mary, visited Linda and I in California back in the days when they were both travelling. We all had a great time together. I always admired the amount of walking your mom put in; for instance, that trek over to catch the streetcar so that she could go wherever she needed to go. Along with her devotion to God and family, I'm sure her walking exercise kept her going to a long, rich life! We pray for you all in this time of saying goodbye to your mom that you may find strength in your memories and each other.

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Memorial Events
for SIMONE MILLER

Jun

6

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Paul O'Connor Funeral Home

1939 Lawrence Avenue East, Scarborough, ON M1R 2Y8

Jun

6

Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Paul O'Connor Funeral Home

1939 Lawrence Avenue East, Scarborough, ON M1R 2Y8

Jun

7

Memorial Mass

9:30 a.m.

Precious Blood Catholic Church

1737 Lawrence Ave. E, ON

Jun

7

Interment

Pine Hills Cemetery

ON

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1939 Lawrence Avenue East, Scarborough, ON M1R 2Y8