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Bruce BAIRD Obituary

BAIRD, Bruce Douglas May 2nd, 1932 – October 23rd, 2012 Bruce was born in Calgary into a very musical and artistic family. During World War II, the family relocated to Victoria. A gifted athlete, Bruce excelled at swimming, diving, and gymnastics, much of his skill developed by swimming in the waters and diving off the bridge of the Gorge. He was coached by Archie McKinnon and turned down an offer to train for the Olympics. Bruce was an imp and a clown with a keen sense of humour. He put all these traits to good use when he and a pal used to entertain people at the Crystal Gardens performing as an acrobat and clown. The acts included trapeze, riding bicycles off the diving tower, showing off his considerable diving skills and many other feats. His future wife, Cecile, remembers seeing the act as a teenager and wondered what kind of idiot would attempt those things. Little did she know then! Bruce attended Victoria High School where he apparently was a magician. He knew how to make all the chairs in a classroom disappear while the teacher was out of the classroom for a minute or two. There were some other mysterious happenings alluded to in the yearbook for the year 1951. Why did the classroom doors fall inward instead of opening out and what about that mysterious explosion? Alas, the answers to those questions have gone with Bruce, although we do know that the chairs were tied to the pulls for the Venetian blinds and hung out the windows! Bruce achieved his career goal when he became a member of the RCMP on January 9, 1952 and was posted to Saskatchewan. During his first five years of service he travelled around the province providing coverage where necessary, sometimes only spending a few days at a particular detachment. They were interesting times and he reckoned that he worked in almost every detachment in the province at one time or another. The years spent in the RCMP resulted in many life long friendships. Bruce always sought to improve himself and earned diplomas in Municipal, Business, and Personnel Administration through UBC. He studied at Rutger's University, the Johnson Institute for Chemical Dependency, and became a Registered Social Worker. Bruce had an inquiring and forward mind; throughout the years of his various careers he received numerous awards for his innovative ideas from designing a better diary date system for the RCMP to significant cost saving strategies at the Ministry of Health. During the early 1970s he identified concerns within the RCMP and he was tasked with implementing the first Employee Assistance Program (now known as MEAP). In typical fashion he committed 150% to this pioneer program. Bruce was extremely proud that this program has grown from him being the single coordinator, to having employee referral agents and resources throughout the national organization. He worked against the social mores and culture of the organization, which at that time took a toll on his health. As he felt that this was his true vocation, it was to his great disappointment that he had to leave his work in 1979. Bruce was honoured to be a member of the RCMP and retired with the rank of S/Sgt. Subsequent employment found him as a counselor at Gillain Manor and later as a hospital insurance investigator with the Ministry of Health. He loved both jobs, the first which provided him with opportunities to use his considerable counseling skills, and the latter which took him back to his roots; he loved the opportunity to use his intrepid investigative skills. Throughout his various careers and endeavours, Cecile, his wife of 55 years, supported and encouraged his goals. As parents of 4 girls Bruce & Cecile were busy. Among other things, Bruce built backyard skating rinks in the prairie winters, taught them to swim and dive, wrote essays, taught math, delivered telephone books and cookies. He and Cecile were just as supportive of their girls as adults and contributed in no small measure to the lives of their 8 grandchildren. Pets came and went in the household but none so special as his beloved dog, Jackson, who has been anxiously awaiting his master and will be truly happy to see him. Bruce pursued his interest in technology to his final days. He recently purchased a new iMac, learned and documented how to type the Greek alphabet, had Twitter, Facebook and Skype accounts and regularly trounced his daughters and grandson at online Scrabble. His girls came from far and wide and Bruce died peacefully, surrounded by love in their presence. He leaves behind his wife, Cecile, daughters and families; Gwen (Pete Hardy), Jim (Shawna) and Alix Baldwin; Brenda (Frank), Reilly and Marshall Passmore; Donna (Shane) and Michaela Baird; Jane (Trent), Tyson, Vienna, and Tiggy Abbott; his sister Joan (Bill) Bryson; brother-in-law Charles Clayton; sister-in-law Geri Clayton and many nieces, nephews, and cousins. Bruce was hospitalized briefly at Royal Jubilee Hospital where he was attended to in the most professional and caring manner. His family especially thanks all of the nursing staff on 4-South as well as Dr. Cheek and Dr. Coppin for their compassionate guidance. Thank you also to BC Ambulance, the Victoria Epilepsy and Parkinson's Centre, in particular Maureen Matthews, for ongoing support. A private family memorial will be held. Flowers gratefully declined. In lieu, memorials gifts may be made to Canadian Cancer Society, Parkinson's Society of BC or the Victoria Hospice Foundation.

Published by Victoria Times-Colonist on Oct. 27, 2012.

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Emily Gail Gatehouse

October 24, 2013

Hello dear Cecile - a year (and a day) since your Bruce died so am thinking about you and your girls and grandchildren.
That was an amazing obituary
about a life well lived ! LOVE
to you dear friend (and for so
many years) Love, Gail

October 22, 2013

Love Brenda

Marion Bedingfield

November 8, 2012

Sorry to hear of your family's loss Donna. It has been a rough week of losses. Your dad was quite an exempliary man. He will be dearly missed. I remember when he took us up to Youbu and how he let us swim all the days away. I don't even remember eating I think we were in the lake so much. All I remember is that he was so easy going and relaxed compared to my dad. I know it won't be easy but just know that he will always be with you in spirit. Take care dear.

November 7, 2012

Dear Cecile, girls & families. We were saddened to hear that Bruce had passed away. It brought back lots of good memories of when you were in St. Walburg. Sincerely, Ursula Trotter & Daughter, Eileen Dean.

hazel frost

November 6, 2012

Dear Cecile Gwen and family. I am so sorry to hear that Bruce has passed away. The thought that he is now at peace will help you all with your grieving love Hazel xx

Laurel Bryson

October 29, 2012

Dear Auntie Cecile, Gwen, Brenda, Donna and Jane,
So sorry to hear that Uncle Bruce has left you, but I love that image of him and Jackson playing together again. What a wonderful tribute you have written for Bruce. It makes me wish I could have worked with him, or been his friend myself.

Love and hugs to you all at this challenging time. Take care of each other.

Margot Galozo

October 29, 2012

Thinking of you all during this difficult time. Nice to think of Uncle Bruce finding Jackson again. Lovely obituary. Margot

MICHELLE BARWICK

October 29, 2012

Dearest Cecile, Gwen,Brenda, Donna & Jane,
So sad to hear of your husband & Dad's passing.So glad we were email friends in recent months, not to mention cousins in law.I will miss our little discussions by email.
I will contact you again soon.
All my love from Michelle, Ray & family xxxxx

Barbara Passmore

October 28, 2012

To dear Brenda and family,
My sincere condolences to you all - I hope you can take comfort in the fact that we never really lose the people we love, even to death. Bruce will continue to participate in every act, thought and decision you all make. His love leaves an indelible imprint in your memories, and you will find reassurance knowing that your lives have been enriched by having shared his love.
With love to you all - Barb

Nick Owen

October 28, 2012

Donna and Family: Sorry to learn of your Father's passing. I remember him fondly as the good and kind Dad at the top of St. Patrick Street. Always, keeping a careful eye on us kids. What a wonderful obituary.

Sharon Sibthorpe

October 27, 2012

To Brenda and family - thinking of you at this time...much love

October 27, 2012

Sending you all much love as you say good-bye to your dad and husband. I remember Bruce well from the times that Donna and I were up to no good!! Now I can understand why he was always one step ahead of us, as he had just as much fun when he was young as well. You were all very lucky to have been together at the end - it creates such a wonderful support and I'm sure that it helped him enormously. Love to you all, Kira Dales.

Enid Kulesh

October 27, 2012

Dear Cecile and Gwen (and indeed all the family), My sincere condolences to all of you on the loss of your husband and father/grandfather. I did not know that Bruce had been so athletic and such a 'card' when he was in school, so I appreciated getting to 'know' him when I read the paper this morning. I did not meet Bruce until '52 when you brought him to a party at our house, Cecile. He had been so very kind and thoughtful at that time, and I appreciated his actions so much.

Now is a difficult time, but you can be comforted knowing that Bruce is now resting in peace.

To each of you, go well, and know that many people are thinking of you.
With love, Enid

Emily Gail Gatehouse

October 27, 2012

Dear,DEAR Cecile with so much LOVE to YOU and your and Bruce's family and Thankyou for this very fine obituary of his extraordinary life. Bless YOU and again, LOVE from your old friend Gail... I treasure your friendship!

Ken Sudhues

October 27, 2012

Bruce, thank you for taking me under your wing back in 1987 (?) when I first came to your home group. Your guidance and patience were much appreciated - perhaps more so now than then. You helped steer me in the right direction - you and Cecile, what a team!
Thank you, thank you, thank you.

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