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Debbie Esselink Obituary

ESSELINK, Debbie (nee Fricker) December 5th, 1964 to February 3rd, 2020 "She is clothed in strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future" Proverbs 31:25 This was Debbie right to the moment she went to be with her Lord. She lived each day with passion, grace, and purpose, continually running out of day before her plans were met. Her absence was felt deeply and immediately, leaving us in that hospice room gasping for air. We who called her "Honey", "Mom", "Oma", "Sis", "Daughter", "Auntie", and "Friend", will miss her dearly, and our present sadness is immeasurable. Deb's beauty never faded, and was only matched by her beauty within. She saw the best in everyone, and loved all those she knew unconditionally. She loved her Trinity Church family, hosting and entertaining, was an artist with her flower displays, and lost complete awareness of time when she was "playing" in the garden (as she called it). Thank you all for prayers and support over the past 15 months, and thank you Dr. Saltman, and your compassionate team for the care and attention you showed to Deb and the family. We will be celebrating Debbie's life on the first day of Spring, March 21st, 2:30pm at Glad Tidings Church, located at 1800 Quadra Street. Please stay and have refreshments in the gym next door. Ladies, will you consider wearing a hat in honour of Deb's memory (she would have loved it).
Published by Victoria Times Colonist from Feb. 29 to Mar. 2, 2020.

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Lois Mason

March 20, 2020

To Gerry, Katrina, Nick, Tamara and Isaac,
I am very sad to hear of Debbie's passing. I have such lovely memories of her bright smile and cheerful presence as she supported you all during your early years at McTavish School. She will be missed by so many and for you she loved the most we pray for comfort and peace.
Lois Mason

March 2, 2020

To Gerry, Katrina, Nick, Tamara and Isaac,
I am very sad to hear of Debbie's passing. I have such lovely memories of her bright smile and cheerful presence as she supported you all during your early years at McTavish School. She will be missed by so many and for you she loved the most we pray for comfort and peace.

Dori Somerset

March 1, 2020

Gerry and family, I'm so saddened to learn of Debbie's passing. My thoughts are with you all during this difficult time. Dori, former neighbour on James Island Road.

Stephen Gale

March 1, 2020

All my blessings to all your family Gerry. I am saddened by the loss of such a wonderful woman of God. She will truly be missed.

Daphne Gardner

March 1, 2020

Gerry, I am so sorry for your loss. Debbie was a lovely lady and always wore a smile. You both showed so much love for each other.
Sincerely

Sandy Griffey Bergeron

February 29, 2020

Gerry and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that we're thinking of you during this difficult time.
So many family angels together again❤❤❤❤

Sandy Griffey Bergeron

February 29, 2020

Gerry and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that we're thinking of you during this difficult time.
So many family angels together again❤❤❤❤

Jackie and Derek Wynn

February 29, 2020

What a loss for so many, a dear lady, my love and condolences go out to family, heaven has gained an angel. Godbless to all

February 29, 2020

Dear Joy and Eli and Rebecca and Eli and Rachel;
I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter and sister.
She will be so missed.
You are in our thoughts
Ingrid and Darryl Tanner

February 29, 2020

Gerry, Katrina, Nick, Tamara and Isaac;
I am so sorry for your tremendous loss.
Deb touched so many lives in a positive way.
So many memories that bring a smile that show what a wonderful person she was.
So many stories about how she made a difference or made someone's day
So many hearts that are feeling sadness, because she lived and because she was loved.
I will miss her immensely and she will never be forgotten
Sincerely;
Ingrid and Darryl Tanner

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