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Gary Douglas MAWER

March 14, 1955 - January 27, 2025

Gary Douglas MAWER obituary, March 14, 1955-January 27, 2025, Victoria, BC

BORN

March 14, 1955

DIED

January 27, 2025

Gary MAWER Obituary

With heavy hearts we announce the peaceful passing of Gary on January 27, 2025. Under bright blue, crisp sunny skies, he decided it was time, his pain disappeared when angels gently wrapped him in their warm loving wings and carried him to a beautiful heaven. He leaves to mourn, love and cherish his memory; his loving and devoted wife Patti and best furry friend Zoey; son Steve (Tessa); daughter Tawny (Chris): grandkids Aly, Wyatt, Mikyla and Carlee; sister Debbie (Ted), brother-in-law Kevin, nieces, nephews and cousins; VanBuskirk and Evans families; extended families; many life long friends and his best buddy Phil.

Sincere gratitude to Dr Robert H Brown, Dr Kara Schneider, the Home Care Nurses and Victoria Hospice staff and volunteers for their compassionate and loving care over the past months and weeks.

In true Gary fashion, rather than focusing on him, his wish is to acknowledge, thank and honour those who provided unconditional love, mentorship, compassionate relationships and genuine support to him throughout his life. With heartfelt gratitude, he attributes his successes to all of you!

From Gary (aka Pogo, Puddinhead, Dad, Babe)....

SO MANY THANK YOU'S TO......

My Mom, Dad and sisters, Debbie and Susie, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, Nieces and Nephews, the Van Buskirk, Evans and Colonna families; extended families and friends

My wife Patti, for our beautiful life together, we made a great team and lived our best life together. Your loving, compassionate and dedicated care for me over these past 18 months helped me live the best end of life possible, I love you Babe!

My son and daughter, I'm so incredibly proud of you both, you've achieved success in everything you do. Steve (Tessa), Tawny (Chris) and grandkids, I love you to the moon and back and I'll always be with you in spirit.

My best buddy Phil, his wife Patty who passed away far too young and their beautiful daughters, Carla and Katie. We shared so much life and adventure together....spur of the moment trips from Field to Calgary or Golden for an A&W burger to satisfy a craving; exploring the sewage processing plant in Golden, maybe a little too close....stinky, stinky Land Rover; hunting trips and so many late night stories (if only the walls could talk!), staying toasty warm by the fire in your shop..... great times! I love you Phil!

Peter and Pat, you are always willing to help us out in any and every way, no questions asked, you just show up!

The people from Field and Golden BC, all the Colonna's and so many more, too many to name, you know who you are. You helped guide me (Pogo) from being a big shit-rat to not too bad of a shit-rat and kept me on the right side of the tracks.

My Firefighter family at Dockyard, Belmont Park and Rocky Point, you always had my back, all the way to the end with getting all the paperwork done for my Worksafe claim which alleviated a lot of stress allowing me to focus on living my best end of life.

My Ledcor family in Kitimat, both the Chevron and Shell sides of the LNG plant. You were my out of town family and helped me be okay with being away from home for extended periods of time.

My locksmith family at Prices Lock & Safe, thank you Wally for your support. Sadly, no more hot dog days....I know all of you will miss them, hopefully less than you're missing me, lol!

All my suppliers and customers through the many years I was a Professional Independent Locksmith.

My fishing buddies, mentors, charter customers, we enjoyed many adventures on "Reel Fun" out on the wild West coast waters, from somewhat calm to white knuckle trips, always bringing in our daily limits.

Everyone who encouraged me in photography by inviting me to photograph your weddings, individual and family portraits, it truly was an honour. I was always interested in nature and wildlife so naturally your positive feedback and sincere appreciation of my photos inspired me on many trips to photograph black and grizzly bears, owls, eagles, wolves, big horn sheep, elk and our beautiful natural outdoor landscape. I was honoured to share the photos with you.

Peace out b_t__es!

Gary lived his life in full speed ahead, a self taught, life long learner, achieving success wherever his desire and passion led him....CP Rail, Professional Firefighter, Photographer, Fishing Charter Guide, Auxiliary Coastguard Coxswain, Professional Locksmith, servicing and fueling heavy equipment, mentoring....

He was a big man with a big heart and he lived a big life. He leaves us with rich legacies of beautiful photographs of memorable moments, nature and wildlife; the power of believing in yourself to be able to achieve success in whatever you choose; generosity, friendship and most importantly genuine love.
We will truly miss him and will cherish him in our hearts and memories forever.
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Published by The Times Colonist from Feb. 11 to Feb. 13, 2025.

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Kerrie Ralph

March 14, 2025

I am shocked & sad to just find out today (his birthday) of Gary's passing. He was always one of my favorite relatives & have many fond memories of him.. from the days when I was a little girl & always looked forward to his visits when he would come over & talk in his "Donald Duck" voice to me, when I used to babysit Steven & Tawny and spend the weekend at their house,to the days when we were older & got together for family occasions. He always had a way of making everyone laugh & feel loved. I'm sorry I never had an opportunity to see him over the last few years. He will be sorely missed by our family.

Isaac Wing

February 20, 2025

Sorry for your loss. Gary was a wonderful and talented man. I loved killing time at work swapping stories of wilderness adventures and making each other laugh. Gary is the only person I know that trained two ravens to recognize his face and come to him to get snacks!

Thaylin Parrish

February 19, 2025

Patti, my condolences on this tragic loss. You are in the thoughts of many, as you navigate these very difficult times.

linda schroeder

February 19, 2025

Dear Patti - I am so very sorry for your loss. The grief journey is an extremely hard one. I talk to my guy everyday it seems to help. Thinking of you, Linda

Dan Dougan

February 19, 2025

Gary was such a giving person. Always willing to help someone in need. (Trying to teach Rod how to workout at Rocky Point). Coming to my daughter's rescue when she locked her keys in her car and he wouldn't take payment for it. We always commented on his large chest. Maybe because it was so full of love. RIP Puddinhead!

Brian McGaw &Family

February 16, 2025

So sorry to hear of Garry´s passing. Patti, I can still hear that roaring laughter as I remember all the times spent on Reel Fun or the docks at Sunny Shores or Bamfield on fishing trips. Many dinners at our place or yours with Gary teaching me how to sip whiskey or telling me about a new business or hobby he was getting into. And when he got into something it was full speed ahead. The best of everything, and full attention until he was the best at it. If Garry was your friend he was all in. There was nothing he wouldn´t do for you. Patti our thoughts are with you and your family.
Brian McGaw

Dave and Susan Fair

February 15, 2025

truly sorry for your loss...

John Evans

February 14, 2025

Dear Patti and family, Sandy and I send our deepest condolences for your loss, the loss of a very fine man. A multi-talented guy and always fun and stories to be told. I had a few visits and talks as things were going bad and they were nice talks. I will truly miss my friend.

Mark Pala

February 14, 2025

It was a sad day for the dnd firefighters when Gary decided to pull the pin. Always enjoyed talking and listening to him . Big heart, one of the good ones. RIP big man.

Sue Cooper

February 13, 2025

Patti, I´m so very sorry for your loss, we met through my former sister/brother-in-law Diane and Reg Lawson when they lived by Elk Lake. You and Gary were such fun and enjoyable to spend time with, your in my thoughts.
God bless,
Sue Cooper (formerly Phair).

Michael Allan

February 13, 2025

Gary and I grew up near each other in Esquimalt and we also worked together briefly as DND Firefighters. I knew Gary as a fun-loving, full- of-laughter, high energy guy.
My condolences go out to all his family and friends that loved him.

Patrick Olson

February 13, 2025

I am so sorry to hear of Gary´s passing, such a kind, caring and giving person. He will be greatly missed but his bright light will continue to shine. My sincere condolences to his family, "Rest in Peace ".

Kerri Hornett

February 13, 2025

My condolences Patti to you and your family

Nora Brooks

February 12, 2025

My thoughts are with you Patti and the family. I hold some great memories and the one that stands out the most is when I was riding my motorcycle and waved to him while we passed on the road. Well the next time he saw me he told me that I can´t wave like a princess that I should wave like a biker and he showed me the wave. Such a wonderful man and will be missed by many. Hugs

Ann B

February 11, 2025

So sorry for your loss!

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