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BORN
September 25, 1976
DIED
October 30, 2023
Kara GOETZE Obituary
Kara attended the West Coast College of Massage Therapy and launched her much-loved career as a Registered Massage Therapist. Without skipping a beat, she opened her own clinic, Burnside Massage Therapy, so she could balance work and her family. She created many lifelong friends through her work, some of whom were with her for over 16 years. Kara had an amazing gift for making people feel cared for and loved, all the while with her elbow in your back!
Besides her family and friends, Kara's next love was figure skating. She coached, volunteered, watched, cheered, competed and sometimes offered advice to our kids (not always appreciated at the time!). Even when she could no longer skate, she stayed on the executive at the Saanich Skating Club and continued to contribute in all their activities.
After her diagnosis, true to form, she continued to look after her family. Coaching, driving, working, cheering, and sending us loving little notes; she never stopped. The Cancer was in the way, but it never became who she was. When she lost her gorgeous blond hair she was devastated, but again she just pushed it aside, tossed her wig on and drove to the rink to coach or be with the kids. We were in awe that she never breathed a word of complaint.
Kara, you endured the unimaginable and took each day head-on, doing what you did best, looking after your family, and all the while knowing that your time was growing short. Our guiding lights are a little more dim today but we are thankful for all that you gave us, showed us, and the endless love you shared with us. The emptiness we feel now is only slightly lessened by the comfort of knowing you are blessedly at peace.
We would like to thank Victoria Hospice for their kind and compassionate care as well as all of the family & friends that sat by Kara's bedside around the clock to be sure she was never alone.
We would also like to thank everyone who dropped off food, flowers, cards and sent notes and well wishes. Kara would have been so happy about the love that was shown to our family.
I have so much more to write, Kara, but I know if you saw the cost of this obituary, you would have told me to save the money and buy some new skating dresses! Don't worry, babe. I did that too. XO
Forever loved, never forgotten
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Memories and Condolences
for Kara GOETZE
35 Entries
Herribert Pieper
December 13, 2023
Es tut mir so leid für deinen Verlust. Dein Onkel Heppi Pieper.
Judy Pusateri
November 11, 2023
I am a lifelong friend to Joanne (her aunt) and Rosie. I got to know Kara better through her massages and we had many great talks. Our hearts are truly broken for you Rob and girls but there is a very special angel watching over you all now.
Carol Entrop
November 11, 2023
Love our time together and outings we shared, memories are wonderful. Sorry for all the family in this loss, RIP you wonderful Angel. You will always be in our Prayers and memories...Love to you ALL.
Carol J. Entrop
November 11, 2023
My thoughts and Prayers are with you all, I have many good memories of the times and outings we shared. She will be greatly missed by so many, RIP Kara, our Angel to many.
Allan and Christena Wittchen
November 10, 2023
It is with heavy hearts we send you condolences Rob. May you and the girls find comfort in the memories you made and the loved ones around you.
Paul Torres
November 7, 2023
Love and prayers to Kara Goetze family and friends also Kara Goetze family and friends also I love my best friend Kara Goetze very much also I miss my best friend Kara Goetze very much also Rest In Peace. Amen.
Your best friend Paul Torres.
P. S. Paul love Kara forever very much also Paul and Kara are best friends forever very much.
Danielle McLean
November 7, 2023
Rosemary and family, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter, mother, wife and friend. A life taken way to early.
Such a beautiful obituary that described her loving soul. As a person living with cancer, and without really knowing Kara, her obituary touch my soul deeply. Even though she is no longer with you, she is still making a difference. Her courage and strength has shown me to keep living life to the fullest. RIP Kara and thank you for being a positive light for me.
Rick Robertson
November 6, 2023
Karen and I are devastated to hear of your loss, Rob.
Kara was a truly amazing friend and she will be missed.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls.
Diane Fairley
November 3, 2023
I extend my deepest sympathies to you and your family. I will always treasure my memories growing up skating with Kara.
Brenda Janes
November 3, 2023
My deepest sympathies to you Rosemary and family on the loss of Kara. I never met her but I heard lots of wonderful things about her over the years when I worked with her Mom (Rosemary). Thinking of you all at this difficult time
Corrine Merx (Propp)
November 3, 2023
I´m beyond sorry for Kara´s passing. As kids skating at JDF, Kara always had a smile on her face. Sending you all much love.
Craig Beattie
November 3, 2023
Heartfelt condolences for your loss Rob and family.
Susan Thomas
November 2, 2023
To Kara's family and friends,
I am so sorry for your loss. May your memories help to heal the pain you are feeling and in time bring you peace.
Gale Penner
November 2, 2023
I am heartbroken to hear this devastating news. Sending you all the deepest sympathies for this amazing woman whom I met when I taught her daughter Danika. She was an incredibly parent helper and went above and beyond her call of duty. I also got to witness first hand her amazing skills as a massage therapist. You will be missed by many people in the community but will maintain many special memories in our hearts. Hugs to you all. Gale Penner
Janik and Kerry Rai
November 2, 2023
We are so very sorry for your loss. Kara was a very beautiful soul. Love and hugs to you all.
Carlo Manzano
November 2, 2023
I first met Rob in my first year out of College and when I was new to Canada. What impressed me about him as a cable contractor was not only his work ethic and ambition but his love for his new wife. As I got to know him better over time we became work colleagues and then friends. In these years I've listened to him speak with great love, affection and pride for his family. It is though listening to him and observing his family that I learned there is still such a thing as love and commitment in this world. You're an inspiration Rob and I'm so glad that you and Kara found each other, created a beautiful family and had the opportunity to have this time together. I'm proud of you. Kara lives on through you and your love for your children.
Kathy Sarton
November 2, 2023
Dear Rob, Rosemary, Fred, Kevin, Danika, Brielle and Cianna,
I am so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute to Kara! She was always smiling and optimistic and cared for her family so much!! I remember meeting her many years ago when she was in her early 20's through my husband, Frank's work. She hadn't changed a bit through those years. Although she is not with us anymore, she will continue to shine on in the beautiful memories that you have of her. My heart goes out to you all!! Biggest hugs.
Mel O.
November 2, 2023
My deepest condolences to your family on the loss of your beloved wife, mother, sister, aunt, cousin and daughter. Far too young to go home. But she left a beautiful legacy. Sending you so much love. Xo Mel
Lars Olsson
November 2, 2023
I´m very sorry to hear about Kara´s passing. The words written above are amazing and very heartfelt, she will be missed by many people.
My condolences to the entire family.
Meaghan Innes-Stanton
November 2, 2023
My thoughts and prayers go out to Kara and her family. She will be missed dearly, I will forever treasure all of my memories with her.
Katrina Kadoski
November 2, 2023
i remember when you two met working on douglas st
I am so sad to hear about Kara, she was such a lovely person. i´m so sorry for your loss.
Mary Thomas
November 2, 2023
Beautifully written. Kara touched so many peoples lives. She absolutely adored her family and was an amazing friend to all. Her heart was full of giving. It´s going to be a long road ahead but You Rob, were an amazing husband until the very end by her side and you are the best Dad to your 3 beautiful girls and dog daddy. Together you will all get even stronger and Kara will live on in those beautiful girls. We are all here for you.
Love to Fred, Rosie, Kevin, Tracey and family at this difficult time.
Nicola
November 2, 2023
This is heartbreaking news- I´m so sad especially for her family and those that were close to her I was lucky enough to be good friends with Kara in junior high and I´ve never forgotten the characters we created while playing video games at her house - Kara was always Mr Sacamoto There are no words but she will definitely never be forgotten
Randy and Wendy Sangha
November 2, 2023
Dear Fred, Rosie, Kevin, Rob and the girls. We cannot find the words to express our condolences to all of you. We knew Kara for over 40 years, she babysat our daughter in the early 90´s and we worked together when she was her dad´s assistant and then she met Rob and moved on to her massage therapy. We will always remember her beautiful smile and amazing good nature towards others. She will be in heaven looking down on us with her great spirit. May she rest in peace. Randy and Wendy Sangha
Larry and Ruth
November 2, 2023
We are so sorry to hear of Kara's passing. She fought a hard fight for a long time , with a lot of support from Rob, the girls, and all of the family and friends. We watched her as she grew up , married Rob, had the girls, started her beloved business, and enjoyed all the aspects of figure skating she enjoyed. Although it was cut short she had a full family life and gave all of her family lots of great memories. She will be missed bigtime by all who knew her. RIP Kara, you will live on in memories.
Richard Green
November 2, 2023
Hi Rob, it's been a while since we last saw each other. There are no words to express mine and Terri-Lee's heartfelt condolences. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Paul and Jacky Crouch
November 2, 2023
We are so very sad and send our heartfelt condolences to Fred and Rose and family. A beautiful girl gone too soon.
Lorraine and Carl Wilson
November 2, 2023
I am so sorry to hear about this monstrous loss and send my condolences to you all. She will watch over you all as you remember her and smile. Big hug to you and your girls.
Jeff & Lynn Peters
November 2, 2023
A beautiful tribute for a truly beautiful woman. So well written. Kara was such a delightful human being. We are so grateful to have known her. You´re in our thoughts.
Marlee Wilson
November 2, 2023
Oh Rob ... im so sorry to hear this my friend. My hearts and sympathies go out to you and your family at this devastating time. Big hugs to you ... I hope you can feel them. XO
Mike Simmons
November 2, 2023
Beautifully written! Our hearts go out to you and your family! Taken far too young!
Anita Kardos and Chris Hall
November 2, 2023
Beautifully written words, Rob. We are so very sorry for your loss and send our most heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Wendy Butterfield
November 2, 2023
My deepest sympathy to the family and friends. Taken far too young, May you rest in peace Kara.
Angelika Buchmann
November 2, 2023
Wir sind unendlich traurig, wir haben uns nie persönlich kennen gelernt haben aber geschrieben und gesprochen. Hoffe dir gehts gut wo du jetzt bist . Harald, Geli , Ina mit Mann und Kind
Martina Eggers
November 2, 2023
Jedes Wort - zuviel und doch zu wenig.
Kara's Spur führt in euer Herz.
Mein aufrichtiges Beileid.
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