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Mary O'Connor Obituary
O'CONNOR, Mary Elizabeth Betty" (nee Reardon) Born in Ottawa, Ontario on September 25th, 1912, to Martin and Mary Reardon (nee Ross); peacefully passed away on November 9th, 2007, in Victoria BC, during her 96th year. Betty was a loving mother to Alan (Jane) in Victoria and proud Nana to Timothy in Taiwan. She is survived by her sister Lorraine Reardon (Ottawa), sisters-in-law Margaret Reardon (Ottawa) and Mabel Beggan (Victoria), and brothers-in-law Pat Beggan (Victoria) and Gerald O'Connor (Victoria). She was predeceased by her husband John Edward Madden O'Connor (Jack) in 1975, her brothers Louis, Sy and Roger, as well as her sister Edna Stidworthy. Funeral Services will be held at 1PM on November 30th at St-Thomas-d'Aquin at 1244 Kilborne Ave. in Ottawa, followed by a reception and internment at Notre Dame Cemetery. In place of flowers, please make a donation to the University of Ottawa Heart Institute. 428016
Memories and Condolences
for Mary O'Connor
17 Entries
Mary Beggan
December 6, 2007
My Dear Aunt Betty, she was a grand lady. Always welcoming and gracious. My sister and I had the priviledge of visiting with her at her new place in Victoria in mid October and she was in fine form. We had a lovely visit. I can remember as a child looking forward to Uncle Jack and Aunt Betty and our "older" cousin Alan visiting -- it was special. Aunt Betty has always been an ispriation to me having faced cancer as well as many other health challenges and she weathered these issues with strength and fortitude and carried on with a positive attitude. I want to thank her for her example and lesson on how to live life. My thoughts and prayers are with you -- Alan, Jane and Tim at this time.
With fondess and love -- your cousin Mary (P.S. this is my second entry but the first one must be in cyber space??)
Anne Cooper(Beggan)
December 1, 2007
Aunt Betty I am so glad you were a part of my life. We had great times together. I remember shoping for a new outfite to wear to Tim's graduation in Victoria.
I will always remember Bill and I taking you to Chapeau for Fr. Alf's retirment party. What a great time.
Patrick Heffel
November 30, 2007
Hi Alan. It's Patrick Heffel from Trenton. I hope things are going well for the family at this time of remembrance for a great lady and a great life.
We have not spoken for some time Alan, but time means very little with life long family and friends.
If I was able to attend tomorrow's service, this is what I was going to say. Perhaps, if it is part of your plans, you may read this on my behalf.
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" Good afternoon everyone. My name is Patrick Heffel, son of Jim and Vera of Ottawa.
There are a very few people over a life that we call Aunt or Uncle, that are not really a "family Aunt". Well Aunt Betty is my Aunt.
Our two families lived in Trenton, Ontario, close to the Air Force base, and she would give me ice cream cones through the kitchen window, when I was 2 years old. A young boy was so happy to have Aunt Betty around.
As time went by, our Air force families were posted to Ottawa.
Aunt Betty continued to feed this little boy, and then young man, with snacks, Harvey's hamburgers, and breakfast specials at Billings Bridge mall.
She always listened and gave me advice as I was growing older. Her dedication to the Church and her family always impressed me. I would drive her from time to time to Mass at St. Margaret Mary's, and here at St. Thomas Aquinas.
She was always talking about "Uncle Jake", Alan and Jane, and her treasure Timmy.
I am glad she is with Uncle Jake again.....a long awaited reunion, in our Lord's Kingdom. She loved life. She loved God and neighbour so much.
Aunt Betty is one of the finest ladies and mothers, that has walked this Earth. She goes quickly to live in Heaven, even faster than she could pass me another ice cream cone.
I thank you Aunt Betty for all the Food of Life you gave me, and to many others.
I remember telling her, that when you go, one second you are here on Earth, thinking about picking up milk and bread, and the next second you are still alive, asking the Lord's Angel, who will pick up the milk and bread.
Well Aunt Betty, I am pushing 52 years of age now, and I remember everything you taught me.
Oh, and by the way Aunt Betty, I am having a chocolate ice cream cone this afternoon, so this one is for you.
See you on the other side Aunt Betty. God bless.
Patrick."
Patrick Heffell
November 29, 2007
" Good afternoon everyone. My name is Patrick Heffel, son of Jim and Vera of Ottawa.
There are a very few people over a life that we call Aunt or Uncle, that are not really a "family Aunt". Well Aunt Betty is my Aunt.
Our two families lived in Trenton, Ontario, close to the Air Force base, and she would give me ice cream cones through the kitchen window, when I was 2 years old. A young boy was so happy to have Aunt Betty around.
As time went by, our Air force families were posted to Ottawa.
Aunt Betty continued to feed this little boy, and then young man, with snacks, Harvey's hamburgers, and breakfast specials at Billings Bridge mall.
She always listened and gave me advice as I was growing older. Her dedication to the Church and her family always impressed me. I would drive her from time to time to Mass at St. Margaret Mary's, and here at St. Thomas Aquinas.
She was always talking about "Uncle Jake", Alan and Jane, and her treasure Timmy.
I am glad she is with Uncle Jake again.....a long awaited reunion, in our Lord's Kingdom. She loved life. She loved God and neighbour so much.
Aunt Betty is one of the finest ladies and mothers, that has walked this Earth. She goes quickly to live in Heaven, even faster than she could pass me another ice cream cone.
I thank you Aunt Betty for all the Food of Life you gave me, and to many others.
I remember telling her, that when you go, one second you are here on Earth, thinking about picking up milk and bread, and the next second you are still alive, asking the Lord's Angel, who will pick up the milk and bread.
Well Aunt Betty, I am pushing 52 years of age now, and I remember everything you taught me.
Oh, and by the way Aunt Betty, I am having a chocolate ice cream cone this afternoon, so this one is for you.
See you on the other side Aunt Betty. God bless.
Patrick."
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David Hillary
November 29, 2007
Dear Alan,
I am so sorry to hear about your mother who worked for me at Uplands 35 years ago. She was a very
dedicated and loyal employee. I also remember your father so very well; they were very close and
now they are together. Unfortunately I will be unable to attend the funeral tomorrow due to
a very important commitment but I hope every goes well for you and your family.
Warm regards
David Hillary
Patrick Beggan
November 29, 2007
At this time of the year I recall good memories of visiting Jack and Betty on Fentiman Street in Ottawa. Uncle Jack would have a nice fire going, and Aunt Betty always had some Christmas goodies cooked up. They were great hosts!
Judy and Henry Parsons
November 28, 2007
To us, she was Mrs. O’Connor. She was the mother, and mother-in-law, of very dear friends. We only met Mrs. O’Connor a few times, and those times she struck us as every inch a lady, always gracious and very proper. I recall her as a proud and doting mother when Alan and Jane were married, and I am sure that she was equally as proud and doting as Tim’s nana. Our condolences to them and to all the family and friends that she has left behind.
Tim O'Connor
November 28, 2007
Dear Nana,
This is my last postcard Nana. It's so hard to say goodbye. I wish I could be there with you right now. The last time we met, were good times. We walked through Beacon Hill Park and watched the birds swim. I got to give you a ride on your wheels. We did lunch with Dad and talked outside your place just in the shade. I'm grateful I got to see you one last time. While I can't be there with you and the family right now, I feel you here with me.
I want to thank you for always being my greatest fan. You always wanted my school photos and you'd put them up on your wall. You may me feel proud of all the little accomplishments I had along the way. I could call you anytime and keep you in touch. You always wanted to hear from me. You were always happy to speak with me. You were always happy for me. I always had someone to brag for me.
It always felt a little more like Christmas when you came in the door. I always looked forward to when you'd rummage though your suitcase to pull out the white chocolate with almonds and when you'd make apple pie and let me eat the unbaked goodness. You always gave me so much.
When I came to stay with you, it was always a special occasion. You always made me feel special. You'd show me around to all the family I rarely had the chance to see. You were my closest link to my past. Give them a big hug for me.
I remember when I was young; I was so excited to show you my room. We'd both hang out while I showed you my latest toys. It was always like having a good pal stay over. We are good pals. You always remembered what I liked and what I wanted and who my friends were. You always wanted to know. You always had a great memory. I will always remember you as you've always remembered me.
You'll always be in my heart. In my corner, rooting and praying for me. Thank you for the encouragement and strength.
As it always was, it's so hard to say good-bye. I love you Nana.
Miss you,
Love you,
Tim
Patricia Beggan-Welch
November 28, 2007
I have nothing but fond memories of Aunt Betty. I remember her as an energetic woman whose main focus was family, and she was famous for her hospitality! My sister, Anne, and I spent a fun filled week with Aunt Betty, Uncle Jack and Alan when they were living at CFB Trenton many years ago...that was a happy memory.
Pat & Mabel Beggan
November 27, 2007
Our dear Betty is with Jack again. How she missed him!! The day that Jack was buried, she said, Mabel, I want to be included in everything your family does, because I'm part of it. And that's the truth. We were happy to include her in our festivities and sorrows. We enjoyed her time here in Victoria. We love you Betty and we miss you.
Colleen Beggan
November 27, 2007
In memory of my wonderful Aunt Betty. I was so blessed to have her in my life and remember our many visits together in Ottawa. She would always make me something to eat and she was so informed on all the goings on of my life. I will miss her very much.
Tim and his Nana taking a stroll in Beacon Hill Park - August 2007
November 27, 2007
Betty and her sisters Lorraine and Edna and her brother Roger and sister-in-law Margaret
November 27, 2007
The Reardon Clan
November 27, 2007
The O'Connor's in Metz in the early 60's
November 27, 2007
Alan, Betty and Tim at Tim's Grad from UVic
November 27, 2007
Dianne Froese (Beggan)
November 27, 2007
My Dear Aunt Betty
What a trooper she was. When she was back in Ottawa whenever there was wedding or gathering she was there. No matter what may have been ailing her she always made the effort to go. She was not one to miss a party! She will be missed. It was great to have had her out here in BC for a short time at least.
May she now rest easy with God and Uncle Jack.
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