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Patrick W. GILLINGHAM
April 30, 1943 - May 05, 2021
BORN
April 30, 1943
DIED
May 05, 2021
Patrick GILLINGHAM Obituary
After many years in heavy equipment sales, Pat formed 'Gillingham Equipment Ltd'. Respect, honesty and integrity were the pillars of his business ethos and he became sought after for his extensive knowledge, fair dealings and trustworthiness. Over the years many of his clients & associates counted among his closest friends.
He was an avid adventurer; stories often recounted motorcycling through Europe, travels through Australia and delving into family history in England, notably Dorset and Manchester where he was proud to have rekindled family connections. Business in Japan developed a love for the Japanese people and culture, but his heart was forever rooted in Victoria.
Pat was a storyteller, historian, collector, creator of traditions and dispenser of 'High Five's. He marvelled at good craftsmanship of any object, was a hard worker, followed many interests, and loved to find out where you were from and what brought you here. He often made acquaintances on his travels who quickly became friends invited back to share a meal around the family dinner table. Always a generous host, he was immensely proud of his family and enjoyed countless hours spent with good friends. He rarely managed to be on time, but would give you all the time in the world.
He leaves behind his wife Marilyn, children Neala (Simon), Megan (Steven) and Blair (Faith) as well as grandchildren Ellis, Rowan, Erik and Katherine.
To best remember Pat, raise a glass of good red wine and share your favourite story. In lieu of flowers please donate to Cystic Fibrosis Canada.
Memories and Condolences
for Patrick GILLINGHAM
8 Entries
Liana (Balshaw) Stephenson
August 10, 2021
My heart breaks along with my family to hear of Pat's passing. My Dad Tom Balshaw brought Pat home to meet us many years ago. My Dad of very little words or expression, couldn't say enough great things about his dear friend Pat. We knew immediately how incredible Pat was and how our Dad enjoyed Pat's stories, knowledge and especially his integrity and kindness. Pat welcomed all of us into his home and we got to know Pat's beautiful family on many enjoyable occasions. Nothing beat a meal at the Gillingham's ending with a piece of Marilyn's homemade pies.
Our most sincere condolences to Marilyn, Neala, Megan and Blair and the extended family. I know you all were his pride and joy. Thanks for sharing such an extraordinary man with all of us who loved him very much.
mary lynch
June 7, 2021
Dear Marilyn, I was so very sorry to hear of Pat's passing and just when you had moved to be near Blair and family.
You have been wonderful neighbours over these many years - both of you so ready to help and I loved it when our kids went to school and played together. David remembers well his visits with Pat and his friend who had such a bounty of historical knowledge.
I will miss Pat and you, my good neighbour, and I do hope we stay in touch.
Our condolences to you,and to Nela, Blair and Megan,
Mary, David and Sarah (Lynch)
Phil Molnar
May 24, 2021
Shocked and sadden to hear of Pat’s passing. Met Pat when we played football for Oak Bay Farmers Construction Football Club. Rekindled our friendship in 1972, both working up in Port McNeill and watched the Canada/Russia final hockey game. We kept in touch over the years.
Carol and I send our heartfelt condolences to Marilyn and family.
Connie & Butch Morey
May 23, 2021
It's with total shocked and sadness that we learned of Pat's death. Butch, Rusty, our son and I extend our sincere sympathy & love to Marilyn, her children Blair, Nela & Megan. Wishing your family comfort in the memories of all you shared with someone who meant so much. Rest in peace Pat. Sincerely, Butch & Connie
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Kent Yaniw
May 22, 2021
Played football with Pat as teammates in 1962 as Nanaimo Redmen when we won the Little Grey Cup western Canadian championship. Pat was a great teammates and person.
Helen Myers
May 22, 2021
I'm so sorry to read of Pat's passing, my dear Keith died a year ago, and he always spoke fondly of their Victor Street adventures growing up. I'm glad they reconnected a few years ago. As my 12 year old great nephew wrote me when Keith died: "If the people we love are stolen, the way to have them live on is to never stop loving them." This is my mantra, and I hope it will also give you support in the days, and years, ahead.
Jacquie Churchill
May 22, 2021
Tom and I are so sorry to hear of Pat’s passing. We remember his generosity to Tom and Joey. Great respect for Pat. Marilyn, our hearts break for you and Neal, Meghan and Blair.
Wayne Chow
May 22, 2021
My condolences to the Gillingham family. So sorry for your loss of a loved one. Pat was a kind and generous man, I was lucky to have worked with Pat at Old Country Rentals for a bit.
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