Wayne Sealey

1952 - 2013

Wayne Sealey, known as Bones to his friends, left our world peacefully, December 9th, leaving a huge emptiness in our lives.

We say goodbye with joy that his spirit is set free and with great sadness for the loss of an amazing man He was a wise and gifted "old soul".

This gentle and kindhearted person who was so down to earth forever changed those privileged to be part of his life. Bones called a spade a spade, and accepted everyone he met without judgement. People were drawn to him, and appreciated his simple honesty without pretense or games.

Bones was born in Regina, and then moved to Victoria as a teenager before settling in Vernon as an adult. There he enjoyed being outdoors, spending many hours with his family and friends, Four-wheeling in the bush, hunting, camping, boating and fishing. He lived life to the fullest; working hard and playing hard. As a plumber and gas fitter by trade, he loved to build and invent practical items. Bones cherished old cars and beautiful women! He was a respected "jack of all trades", solving just about any problem thrown at him. Neighbours and friends valued his wisdom and his steadfast solid friendship.

With his brilliant engineering mind and incredible determination, he built, over an 11 year period, the Spirit of the Okanagan. He operated this 33 passenger D.O.T. passenger vessel on Okanagan Lake.

When MS took his body, he never let it take his spirit. His positive attitude was inspirational to everyone he met. He awed those around him with his determination and love for life, despite the huge limitations he faced.

All his enjoyment came from his family and his friends. He was so proud of his children and treasured every hour he spent with them and was always honoured to be included in their circle of friends. He was happiest when his house was filled with people and loved to be a part of whatever was happening. People gravitated naturally to his easy going personality and his presence in any gathering. He had the ability to make everyone smile with his quick wit and quirky sense of humour. His neighbours, friends, and caregivers were his inspiration for living. The love and care they gave allowed him to enjoy a fulfilling, rich and diverse life.

Loving him forever are his children, Jesse (Carolyn) and Jenna (Curtis), his best friend, soul mate and wife of 47 years, Trudi, and his sisters Loralee and Beverlee (Bob), niece, Kim and father, Stan, all in Victoria. He joins his brother, Scott, and his mom, Elva, as he continues his soul journey.

So "party on" as Bones would say and raise your glass to a great man, who will live forever in our hearts!

Expressions of sympathy can be forwarded to the family at www.MyAlternatives.ca

No service by request. Donations, in lieu of flowers, may be made to the MS Society or Hospice.