William Bruce Hay

HAY, Dr. William Bruce "Bruce"
April 11, 1935 - June 24, 2025
Peacefully before dinner Bruce passed away.
He was born and went to school in Kingston, Ontario. His love story with Margaret Beswick started when he was ten years old and saw a picture of a four-year-old girl with a big white bow in her hair living 5,777 kilometers away in West Bromwich, England. When he looked at that picture he didn't know that she would immigrate to Canada with her family thirteen years later, meet him at the Whitby Psychiatric Hospital when he did a summer internship between his fifth and sixth years of Medicine at Queen's University, ask her to marry him December 24, 1957 and marry her on June 7, 1958 a week after he graduated from Medical School. When he saw the picture of her with her big hair bow, he did not even know her name was Margaret.
They lived in Kingston for several years, then Cleveland, Ohio for a year before going to Vancouver where Bruce did an internship in pathology. Then they moved to Victoria where he took a position as assistant pathologist at Saint Joseph's Hospital. He worked in Victoria Hospitals for over forty years. Margaret and Bruce were true soulmates. They did everything together for 65 years until she passed away on May 28, 2023.
Bruce missed Margaret so much that he has left us to join the love of his life Margaret and his daughter Valerie. He was also predeceased by his parents Dr. William Hay and Edna (Saunders) of Kingston, Ontario, his brother John of Ottawa, as well as his brother Dr. Donald Hay of North Vancouver, his sister-in-law Janet of North Vancouver, and his brother-in-law Dr. Carmen Johnson of West Vancouver.
He will be greatly missed by his children Cheryl Fraelic (Kim), Frank (Alison), his grandchildren Malcolm Grahame (Renée), Chelsea Hay (Wes), Ashley Webb (Hunter), Liam, and his great grandchildren Parker, Suzie and Amelia Grahame as well as Sadie and Beau Webb.
He also leaves behind his sister Dr. Gwen Johnson (Carmen), his brother Dr. Robert Hay (Sharon), sister-in-law Hilary Hay, numerous cousins, nieces, nephews and Margaret's stepbrother John (Lori). He was predeceased by Margaret's sister Shirley Nicholson and her husband George.
Thank you to all the staff at the Saanich Peninsula Hospital who cared for both Bruce and Margaret. It made it a little easier seeing some friendly familiar faces. Thank you to Dr. Yip for the great care you gave both Bruce and Margaret. A very special thank you to the nurses at the Saanich Peninsula CRD Clinic for taking such exceptional care of Bruce and Margaret. You became a part our family, especially you Alex. Thank you to Dr. Iwaasa who took Bruce on as a patient after Dr. Pewarchuk retired. Our final thank you goes to Dr. Nicole Pewarchuk for your exceptional care of Bruce and Margaret for all those years. They thought of you as a friend and loved seeing Rex on visits to the office. We have one more special thank you to Dr. Ken Hargrove for the care and friendship you gave Bruce and Margaret over the years.
As Bruce and Margaret have done everything together since they met, we are having a joint "Celebration of Their Lives" at Centennial Unted Church, 612 David Street, at 2:00 pm, on Saturday, August 23, 2025, followed by a reception. Parking is available on David Street or in the parking lot directly across from the church entrance. (Hotel parking lot) The service will also be live streamed.
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